After years and years of searching for just the right church, my husband and I had found a church a little over a year ago, that has been there for us in our times of need. I have befriended a number of the members of this church on FaceBook. I have been on FaceBook for 5 1/2 years. Someone I knew from another Christian forum over 10 years ago became my friend on FaceBook.
The members of the latest church we are a member of have been so good to us, compared with those of other churches in our area. They have especially been wonderful to our 5 year old autistic son Joshua. There is a sweet senior citizen at our church who dubs herself as the church grandma. She is one of the members from the church I friended on FaceBook.
After a while, my friend whom I met online and have spoken to over the phone and prayed with, sent me messages warning me about the sweet senor citizen church member's pro LGBT paraphernalia on her FaceBook page. My friend has the gift of discernment, and I trusted what she said to be true. I checked her FaceBook page and saw it for myself. I felt the Lord impress upon me to defriend her on FaceBook. It is not a decision I take lightly, since I am fiercely loyal to people who are good friends to me. The woman finally asked me why I defriended her on FaceBook. I explained to her that she is living in sin, and is pro-gay as she admitted to me and my other Christian FaceBook friend.
She then turned against me (a risk I was willing to take to take a stand for Christ) and told me how terrible I was for even considering that she might not be for Christ. She used her man made role to justify her position. She is a deacon in our church. This saddens me, for I long to be a peacemaker who unites the two sides of the Christian divide between morality and compassion. The last thing I want to be is someone who sows discord in the church like Proverbs 6:19 speaks of. This is really a private matter between me and this deacon. Yet it also says in 1 Timothy 5:20 it states: But those elders who are sinning you are to reprove before everyone, so that the others may take warning. More than anything I care about what is just, good and right including love and compassion. I have not yet told anyone else in my church about this.
I pray that she does not turn our church against us. It would be so amiss for this church to turn against us for taking such a stand for Christ and morality.
This will be an acid test to see what the true agenda of this church is. Are they serving the Baptist church agenda, or the cause of Christ? Are they going to defend their beloved deacon who has been faithful to them for years, or are they going to care about the values of Christ more, and confront her and not oppose us? I have already invited God in this situation.
I am tired of churches being moral at the expense of compassion or being compassionate at the expense of morality. There is no reason for any church to not adhere to both of these virtues anywhere! What matters most to me, and what I embrace most of all is the Lord's greatest commandment, 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself. Luke 10:27. Being a true follower of Christ and obeying all of scripture hinges on these two commandments.
The members of the latest church we are a member of have been so good to us, compared with those of other churches in our area. They have especially been wonderful to our 5 year old autistic son Joshua. There is a sweet senior citizen at our church who dubs herself as the church grandma. She is one of the members from the church I friended on FaceBook.
After a while, my friend whom I met online and have spoken to over the phone and prayed with, sent me messages warning me about the sweet senor citizen church member's pro LGBT paraphernalia on her FaceBook page. My friend has the gift of discernment, and I trusted what she said to be true. I checked her FaceBook page and saw it for myself. I felt the Lord impress upon me to defriend her on FaceBook. It is not a decision I take lightly, since I am fiercely loyal to people who are good friends to me. The woman finally asked me why I defriended her on FaceBook. I explained to her that she is living in sin, and is pro-gay as she admitted to me and my other Christian FaceBook friend.
She then turned against me (a risk I was willing to take to take a stand for Christ) and told me how terrible I was for even considering that she might not be for Christ. She used her man made role to justify her position. She is a deacon in our church. This saddens me, for I long to be a peacemaker who unites the two sides of the Christian divide between morality and compassion. The last thing I want to be is someone who sows discord in the church like Proverbs 6:19 speaks of. This is really a private matter between me and this deacon. Yet it also says in 1 Timothy 5:20 it states: But those elders who are sinning you are to reprove before everyone, so that the others may take warning. More than anything I care about what is just, good and right including love and compassion. I have not yet told anyone else in my church about this.
I pray that she does not turn our church against us. It would be so amiss for this church to turn against us for taking such a stand for Christ and morality.
This will be an acid test to see what the true agenda of this church is. Are they serving the Baptist church agenda, or the cause of Christ? Are they going to defend their beloved deacon who has been faithful to them for years, or are they going to care about the values of Christ more, and confront her and not oppose us? I have already invited God in this situation.
I am tired of churches being moral at the expense of compassion or being compassionate at the expense of morality. There is no reason for any church to not adhere to both of these virtues anywhere! What matters most to me, and what I embrace most of all is the Lord's greatest commandment, 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself. Luke 10:27. Being a true follower of Christ and obeying all of scripture hinges on these two commandments.