I'm praying for patience for you both, as well as clarity in making decisions together. I do think it's important to start focusing on your (collective) future rather than on his parents' wishes. There comes a point where your own happiness is at stake.
At this time in your relationship, it seems it is time to start making things happen. You mentioned elsewhere that you hope to be married within a couple years. In my opinion, that is way too long. Personally I don't have the patience for that, particularly with no actual official engagement, and with the self-imposed no-kissing rule. You are adults. Also, if you wait for God to give you a sign for when the right time is, you might be waiting your whole lives. My husband has a friend who is now 47 who said he won't get married until God makes it very clear who he wants him to marry and when. So he dated various women over the years, stringing them along and then breaking up when they brought up the topic of marriage, because he didn't see any "signs". I hope through prayer you receive the guidance that you seek, but I also think you and your bf should be making some decisions in the near future.
At this time in your relationship, it seems it is time to start making things happen. You mentioned elsewhere that you hope to be married within a couple years. In my opinion, that is way too long. Personally I don't have the patience for that, particularly with no actual official engagement, and with the self-imposed no-kissing rule. You are adults. Also, if you wait for God to give you a sign for when the right time is, you might be waiting your whole lives. My husband has a friend who is now 47 who said he won't get married until God makes it very clear who he wants him to marry and when. So he dated various women over the years, stringing them along and then breaking up when they brought up the topic of marriage, because he didn't see any "signs". I hope through prayer you receive the guidance that you seek, but I also think you and your bf should be making some decisions in the near future.
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