I read in Deuteronomy 23:2 that "A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD."
I am absolutely appalled, especially considering that I am technically a "bastard" (I hate that word). Why does God send someone to hell if he's born outside marriage? Does your church practice this?
i'm going to try this again ... i'm so confused by what is being said in this thread now ... and now i see i missed some things, too ... and i'm not sure why i posted the first part, specifically ... vaguely, but not specifically ... maybe to reassure you ... when i feel led i just go with it ...
no one is going to hell ... yet ... judgement day hasn't come ... there is only one judged to eternal damntion ...
i wanted to talk about until the tenth generation ...
these verses explain better than i can ... perhaps you can take a look at them when you have time ...

i like to check things out before i settle what i know ... and you should never take my word or anyone else's as absolute until you do ... it's important i tell you that ... not just for you ... but for my obligation to my Lord ...
Ezekiel 18:3
the soul that sins shall die
What mean ye, that ye use this proverb con-
cerning the land of Israel, saying, The fathers
have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth
are set on edge?
As I live, saith the Lord God, ye shall not
have occasion any more to use this proverb
in Israel.
Behold, all souls are mine; as the soul of the father,
so also the soul of the father, so also the soul of the
son is mine: the soul that sinneth, it shall die.
things change in the Bible ... it's a continuing, evolving Word ... it's alive ... it doesn't stand still ...not most things ... but a certain amount as judgements are fulfilled ... new judgements take place ... or no new ones ... it just depends ... but these verses can assure you ... no longer ... a 'bastard' does not pay for the sin of the father ... or mother ...
reading my last post you can see the definition ... there was much at the time about inbreeding and all kinds of such ... i have no idea why that judgement was placed ... for me, i just want to know what i need to know ... and that's the Lord's call ... i know that it doesn't matter ... because i needed to know ... i have four children by the same father ... but i never married him ... and never intended, too ... i just had no way out back then ... wife abuse was swept away as soon as it was reported ... so when i finally got away from him this state decided we were married and had to go through a divorce ... it was ugly ... but i know the Lord judges on intent ... i never intended to marry him after i realized ... so are my four children bastards?

no ... they are not heathens ... i.e. ... not non-believers ...
disclaimer ... i have no intent to offend: ...
to a non-believer ... what difference should it make ... if one believes ... even if it's just a little ... or one believes not at all ... if one is a non-believer ... then they are governed and ruled and run by a whole nether god ... a god of this world ... it's just that simple ...this part is to say ... to those who would ... don't shoot the messenger ... if one is a non-believer ... it shouldn't offend ...
may the Lord speak ...