thank you all for your help,
i think what's clear is our actions affect others, even if one man kills another, the one doing the killing is not harmed, but the one who is not doing the evil.
i thing the verse is a bit different, as the father is not attempting to inflict any evil on his unborn child.
but as with adam and eve, their transgressions affected the whole human race, it can be clearly seen today, in the pain of women giving birth.
as with passive smoking, say someones carelessness in food hygeine, it has consequences on others.
we are all responsible for our actions, and in this world one mans actions can cause a chain reaction of consequences to others not guilty of their sin.
but likewise through one mans righteousness.
and others can be benefited from the righteous actions of one, not themselves doing the act of righteousness, even being unrighteous, but another could do good to them, or they be benefited by a chain reaction of one mans righteous act.
is it maybe inflictions we inherit rather than a sin?
for are we not responsible for our own sinful actions, but being born with some disability could be the cause of our parents or parents parents, etc.?
and as for maybe a righteous mans child can be born without any afflictions, this child can still commit it's own sin, and their actions whether righteous or unrighteous will affect others.
for in this world, there is suffering, and at the end of the day, who's responsible who can do something about it, aren't we all responsible.
who can help one another, who can show love, live by love.
some may say how can a righteous God allow all the suffering in this world.
but who's fault is it, God has given us life, given us a free will, showed us righteousness, it's up to us to act on it.
God is our aid, but the love God shows us, the mercy, the goodness we are also to show to others.