My boyfriend and I are thinking about moving in together for financial reasons and also because we have very similar values when it comes to life styles and all around cleanliness. We are not sexually active, and we do not intend to become so until after marriage, regardless of living situations.
So my question is, what does the Bible say specifically about non-sexual cohabitation? I have read several verses that mention sexual immorality between unmarried couples, but I have yet to find a clear and definitive answer about non-sexual cohabitation.
Your help is greatly appreciated.
Thanks!
1Cor7v1: Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2: Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3: Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4: The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5: Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
6: But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.
7: For I would that all men were even as I myself.
But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
8: I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
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But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
If you have the gift to contain your desire then do as yuo wish, but when the time comes for desire then marry
Go and read in Genesis where Jacob worked 14 years for Rachel, he had love for this woman yet he touched her not until he fulfilled his oath, once the oath was finished they laid together and she became his wife as was Leah she and Jacob laid together.
when a man lay with a woman this is a marraige according to the bible. not the ceremony