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wedgie addiction

FelicityS

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So I know this might sound weird but I think I have an addiction to wedgies. I don't know exactly when this when this started but it's been going on for quite a few years. I have managed to keep my addiction a secret from my family and from those know me but I still feel it has gotten to the point where it is becoming a problem and getting out of hand. I have never told anybody about my addiction before so I suppose that it why I have come on here. I think I would be way too embarrassed to talk to anybody who knows me in real life about this problem.

I feel fairly embarrassed and slightly ashamed that I like wedgies and I don't really know why I like wedgies. Well, I suppose it is to do the tightness and the stimulation that it creates. I find that it just turns me on and I just seem to get pleasure out of it. I know that I shouldn't be getting be getting pleasure from wedgies but that is just how I find them. I've never really found them not to be enjoyable or to be uncomfortable.

I was even thinking that since I've never really found wedgies to be uncomfortable that maybe I could find a way for me to have a genuinely uncomfortable wedgie and maybe even turn it into a little dare like making myself do it for an entire day. I have had uncomfortable underwear situations before like where they have rode naturally so maybe if I could create that. I know that I might not end up liking it but if I did it as a dare then I would just to accept the discomfort. I would even be willing to do a dare like this if it would mean that I could stop the pleasure that I am getting from wedgies. I just feel like I really shouldn't be enjoying wedgies so maybe if I were to experience a wedgie that was not enjoyable and felt unpleasant then maybe it would help me to stop finding wedgies so enjoyable.

So what do you think I should do about my problem?
 

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I would NOT recommend deliberately hurting yourself to make it uncomfortable. Identify the triggers that lead you into the behavior. Maybe try less-tight fitting underwear & pants. I'm assuming you're a female for obvious reasons.
There's also the possibility of oversensitivity to stimulation due to a hormonal or other physiological imbalance. This is something you should really discuss with a female addiction counselor(i.e. someone that could more closely relate to you) or even an OBGYN.
 
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