Wearing the wedding ring on the ring finger of the right hand vs the left

[Dorothea]

Ah, so I thought I'd share this here because I think it's neat. Everything we do has a purpose, and it's linked always to God!!

Why in the Orthodox tradition do we wear the wedding ring on the right hand?

Why in the Orthodox tradition do we wear the wedding ring on the right hand? (Feb. ’02)​

It has always been the tradition of the Church to place the wedding ring on the right hand of the couple based on biblical references. This is seen very clearly in one of the prayers in the Betrothal Service, but we don’t hear it in the Antiochian Archdiocese because of the abbreviated service that we use. A portion of the prayer refers to the biblical references: “For You, O Lord, have declared that a pledge is to be given and held inviolate in all things. By a ring Joseph was given might in Egypt; by a ring Daniel was exalted in Babylon; by a ring our heavenly Father showed compassion upon His prodigal son, for He said, ‘Put a ring upon his right hand, kill the fatted calf, and let us eat and rejoice.’ Your own right hand, O Lord, armed Moses in the Red Sea. By word of Your truth were the Heavens established and the earth set upon her sure foundations; and the right hands of Your servants shall be blessed by Your mighty word, and by Your uplifted arm.” As we see, it was scripturally the practice to wear rings on the right hand, the hand of authority and power completing the pledge of commitment. The power and authority comes from the right hand of God.

The practice of wearing rings on the left hand is rooted in superstition that says that there is a vein that goes from the left hand directly to the heart. This medieval superstition, like many others, was brought to America from Western Europe no doubt. Unfortunately, too many people today just follow what the majority in society do without truly understanding its meaning. Hopefully, with education and faith we will maintain the richness and meaningfulness of the Orthodox faith.



Why in the Orthodox tradition do we wear the wedding ring on the right hand? | Antiochian Orthodox Christian Archdiocese

 

[Melethiel]

That's interesting - I thought it was just a European thing. I know all my relatives wear their rings on their right hand. I wear mine on my left out of societal reasons - not many people here will recognize a wedding (or engagement) ring on the right hand.

 

[Dorothea]

That's interesting - I thought it was just a European thing. I know all my relatives wear their rings on their right hand. I wear mine on my left out of societal reasons - not many people here will recognize a wedding (or engagement) ring on the right hand.

Yes, that's certainly the case in America. But my husband switched his ring to the right hand a few years ago, and about 6 months or so later, so did I. We noticed the priests always wearing them on the right and some parishioners, but didn't really know the details on the reason for it until several years ago. So, we are now in line with our Orthodox tradition.

 

[Knee V]

My wife and I wear it on our right hands, not because it's "Orthodox", but because we like the symbolism. Our wedding sponsors, OTOH, have the "when in Rome do as the Romans do" mindset and wear them on their left.