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We got Sean's first report card

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Naturally, he got low marks for speech (that's his need right now). But what concerned me was the low mark for Fine Motor Skills. This was the first it's come up. I'm meeting with the teacher on Thursday evening, and I have some questions for her. But I'm wondering if anyone has dealt with this issue, and what do you do at home to help? Someone told me Playdoh is great. Also Legos. Any other ideas?
 

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Hi Lynn. I'm new. I have a deaf son that has also been diagnosed with ADHD. Fine motor problems are fairly common in ADHD children, so I've done a bit of reading on it. Basically anything he does with the tips of his fingers will help. Using scissors, threading, play dough (baking cookies and fashioning them into interesting shapes have the added benefit of being edible!;) ), painting (fingerpainting's nice and messy! )and writing. Building with lego's and even puzzles help. I homeschool, so I have found that doing things like making scrapbooks or projects in which he has to cut out pictures and write captions work well. Things like threading get a bit boring for older children, unless you can maybe start a small business of making jewelry with beads that he can sell. As far as school stuff go, I find that it's very good for my son to write. He doesn't like it much, because it's hard work and boring, but it really helps him to learn to control the muscles in his hands. I hope that helps you! God bless, Elmarie
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Thanks everyone!

After speaking with his teacher, I found he's progressing nicely. She suggested I spend more time allowing him to use scissors at home (yikes! Took them away after he cut big sister's hair!). But these are all really, great ideas.
 
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We've had to do a bit of work with fine motor skills too...I have used just about everything listed already, we also did clothes pegs on a can (get the stong plastic ones from Walmart, colour with short crayons & write pencils. Magnet books, the little magnets but make sure you are around because little ones can choke on the little magnets. Those stress balls are good too, I also found these balls at the dollor store that are covered with a mesh, when you squeeze them the ball pops out of the holes, my kids LOVE them and it helps build the strength in their hands. For scissors, I got plastic ones from the dollor store and the kids use them to cut play-doh.

Hope that helps :) :wave:
 
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Thanks everyone!

After speaking with his teacher, I found he's progressing nicely. She suggested I spend more time allowing him to use scissors at home (yikes! Took them away after he cut big sister's hair!). But these are all really, great ideas.
Turns out it's not all that big a deal. We're working on it though. Thanks for all your input!
 
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Hi Lynn!

I am severely hearing impaired, and my parents were also alerted to a deficiency in fine motor skills when I was young. It was suggested that Nintendo might help. As a result, I learned how to play Super Mario Brs. voraciously, but to this day cannot tie my shoes. ;) Seriously, though, as we zeroed in on certain problems, like penmanship for example, some things got better with practice. (And some things I still struggle with.) As I got older, I found that I was quite coordinated when it came to certain things, such as musical instruments. And yet.....when it comes to shoes.....I choose sketchers with no laces. :D Support your son, nuture his interests and he'll find his niches. :) Alot of what teachers are concerned about can eventually be compensated for and worked around.

(Trying music lessons might not be a bad idea, if he seems at all interested. I never thought about playing before a required class in high school. The woodwinds clicked with me exceptionally well, but I never got the hang of the piano or strings despite many attempts. Lol.)

Edit: another note. If your school district ever requires a battery of tests as a prerequiste for benefits, don't treat it as a major big deal for your son. I did *awful* on those motor testing segments. It made me feel so self-concious as the testers were staring at me entire time. I always came out crying, because it made me feel stupid. :p (I knew it was stuff that kids my age were "supposed" to be able to do.) Make it clear that no matter what they say, it absolutely doesn't matter what happens in there or how he does. :)
 
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(Trying music lessons might not be a bad idea, if he seems at all interested. I never thought about playing before a required class in high school. The woodwinds clicked with me exceptionally well, but I never got the hang of the piano or strings despite many attempts. Lol.)

Thank you.

It's funny that you mentioned that. We were in a music store last month killing time will my DH was shopping for a guitar. So I put both kids in front of a drum kit, and Sean just began to play. My daughter didn't do as well (she's getting a guitar instead). But Sean just seemed to get it. It was awesome.

Thanks everyone for all your help! God bless!
 
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Thank you.

It's funny that you mentioned that. We were in a music store last month killing time will my DH was shopping for a guitar. So I put both kids in front of a drum kit, and Sean just began to play. My daughter didn't do as well (she's getting a guitar instead). But Sean just seemed to get it. It was awesome.

Thanks everyone for all your help! God bless!
Fabulous!! :) :) That might be his thing. :D Music is a huge confidence booster, too! :) :)
 
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