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Song of Solomon: Just a Wedding Song

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I'm going to share my personal insights into Song of Solomon and offer a unique exposition of the message. The Rabbinical and Christian understanding of the text is that its an allegory of God and Israel or Christ and the church. I would submit that while the text is suitable for such an allegory it is really just a wedding song celebrating the nuptuals os two young people in Solomons court early in his reign.

Opening Scene:

The groom sat at the kings table, perhaps even one of Solomons sons, that being the case he would have been a Judean prince. The daughters of Jerusalem were the unmarried young ladies, probably the groom's sisters. She was from the Sharron valley, just west of Jerusalem and visible from the mount of Olives. They two had been betrothed at a very early age and knew their entire lives that they would marry. They had set responsibilities, the groom was responsible for building the House and the bride was responsible for planting and tending the family garden. A marriage wasn't just a ceremony, reception and a honeymoon. They could take 8-10 days. Everything had to be done before they moved in together, even though they were legally married day one.

Contrary there is no sex in Song of Songs and Solomon isn't the groom, there is no indication of that whatsoever. The opening scene is at the palace, the groom meets her at the gate. You wouldn't have presented an I'D like we would today, he meet her at the gate and told the guards to let her in. They make their way through the busy courtyard of the palace, through its great doors, long halls, toward the back where the kings family area was. It was a little like the west wing of the White House. They enter the great banquet hall and take their seats at the kings table.

Both of them come from important families, her mother was most likely from Lebanon. As she turns to leave for the evening she turns to the daughters of Jerusalem and says not to arouse love till it desires. This awkwardly worded translation is most likely her admonishing these young ladies not to let the excitement of the celebration make them anxious for their own marriages.

The next scene will be at her mother's garden where she is having breakfast with her brothers. Later they would meet in Jerusalem and finally, they take their final vows in the garden of their new home.

I suppose what makes this controversial is what this line of interpretation says about the song belonging in the canon of Scripture. I'm convinced this wedding sound is profoundly significant with regards to being prepared for marriage. These arranged marriages probably made for some unhappy unions. However, these two are crazy about one another. Its a song about tender affection, being faithful to your responsibilities and patiently nurturing a relationship built on mutual love and hard work.

Before I start a more in-depth exposition I'll wait and see it there is any interest in the subject matter.

Grace and peace,
Mark
 

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I'm going to share my personal insights into Song of Solomon and offer a unique exposition of the message. The Rabbinical and Christian understanding of the text is that its an allegory of God and Israel or Christ and the church. I would submit that while the text is suitable for such an allegory it is really just a wedding song celebrating the nuptuals os two young people in Solomons court early in his reign.

Thank you for your 'personal insights' aka opinion.

Sadly you are mistaken and the traditional understanding is correct. Kindly refer to Scripture about the Bride of Christ for further information.

What Does the Bible Say About The Bride Of Christ?
 
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Thank you for your 'personal insights' aka opinion.

Sadly you are mistaken and the traditional understanding is correct.
Actually the traditional understanding is not contrary to the narrative I'm describing. There is still a love story here and some important insights into the culture of the United Kingdom. This in no way dismisses an allegorical interpretation, nor are they mutually exclusive. One thing is clear from the text, Solomon is not the groom. He is sitting at the head of the table and she is reclining against her groom. Later at their home Solomon's company and personal guards attend their wedding ceremony at their home. She tells the daughters of Jerusalem to go see Solomon and she then turns and speaks with her groom. He speaks of Solomons 8 wives and 60 concubines but he tells her, in effect, your all I want. The vows say love is as strong as death and jealousy is crueler the the grave. This doesn't sound like someone who is going to put up with her husband having other wives and dozens of concubine.

Grace and peace,
Mark
 
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The Rabbinical and Christian understanding of the text is that its an allegory of God and Israel or Christ and the church. I would submit that while the text is suitable for such an allegory it is really just a wedding song celebrating the nuptuals os two young people in Solomons court early in his reign.

Totally agree, friend. I've been familiar with the Song of Solomon since well before I became a committed Christian and must admit I've always been a bit amused at the determinedly allegorical interpretations of it in both the Jewish and Christian traditions. Yes, as you say, of course it can be read as an allegory or metaphor for God's love — as indeed can a lot of modern love song lyrics, if one so chooses ;) — but at its heart, it is entirely a song of earthly love. Which at its best can be a wonderful reflection of heavenly love, but it's still not exactly the same thing.

I suppose what makes this controversial is what this line of interpretation says about the song belonging in the canon of Scripture. I'm convinced this wedding sound is profoundly significant with regards to being prepared for marriage. These arranged marriages probably made for some unhappy unions. However, these two are crazy about one another. Its a song about tender affection, being faithful to your responsibilities and patiently nurturing a relationship built on mutual love and hard work.

Again, I agree, that's a lovely understanding of it — and there's nothing "wrong" with such a song/story being part of Scripture! I love the Song of Solomon and would happily have excerpts from it read at my wedding, if I ever get married. It's a beautiful (if sometimes almost overly lavish!) description of the love between a man and a woman and the utter joy they find in each other. Again, that can be a wonderful metaphor for the love between God and the individual soul and/or between God and His people collectively. But I've never been able to believe that that allegory is the actual purpose for which the song was originally written, even though it's been the favoured reading of it for centuries. The text itself, when you read it without the "glasses" of doctrinal preconceptions, belies that.

I'm enjoying your exegesis, Mark, and will be very interested to read more — many thanks. :)
 
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Totally agree, friend. I've been familiar with the Song of Solomon since well before I became a committed Christian and must admit I've always been a bit amused at the determinedly allegorical interpretations of it in both the Jewish and Christian traditions. Yes, as you say, of course it can be read as an allegory or metaphor for God's love — as indeed can a lot of modern love song lyrics, if one so chooses ;) — but at its heart, it is entirely a song of earthly love. Which at its best can be a wonderful reflection of heavenly love, but it's still not exactly the same thing.



Again, I agree, that's a lovely understanding of it — and there's nothing "wrong" with such a song/story being part of Scripture! I love the Song of Solomon and would happily have excerpts from it read at my wedding, if I ever get married. It's a beautiful (if sometimes almost overly lavish!) description of the love between a man and a woman and the utter joy they find in each other. Again, that can be a wonderful metaphor for the love between God and the individual soul and/or between God and His people collectively. But I've never been able to believe that that allegory is the actual purpose for which the song was originally written, even though it's been the favoured reading of it for centuries. The text itself, when you read it without the "glasses" of doctrinal preconceptions, belies that.

I'm enjoying your exegesis, Mark, and will be very interested to read more — many thanks. :)
When I look at this book I think how Jesus tells his disciples, the world will know you are my disciples by your love for one another. Of Paul telling us to submit to one another in the fear of the Lord; husbands to wives, wives to husnands...etc. Jesus asking Peter, do you love me?

This book is timely and practical, it's also a window into the early days of the reign of Solomon. The groom was a prince, she's of Nobel birth and if you notice, they both worked. The work ethic is consistant with the Proverbs here.

I can see the vows being included in a Christian wedding ceremony.

Place me like a seal over your heart,
Like a seal under your arm,
For love is strong as death,
Its jealousy as unyielding as the grave.
It burns like blazing fire,
Like a mighty flame.
Many waters cannot quench love,
Rivers cannot wash it away.
If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love,
It would be utterly scorned. (Sng 8:7,8)

It reminds me of the opening verse if 1 Corinthians 13 where it says, love never fails. Did a word search once, came to find the word 'fails' is like a flower that wilts and falls to the ground, same idea here. Notice it repeats itself, these are Hebrew parallelism. Altogether appropriate to be read at a wedding, or even included in the vows.

Grace and peace,
Mark
 
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Mark, your view is supported in Ferrar Fenton's "The Holy Bible in Modern English." Fenton translated the Song of Songs in dramatic form, as a wedding-day drama. His version is worth seeking out for that alone, IMHO.
 
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Mark, your view is supported in Ferrar Fenton's "The Holy Bible in Modern English." Fenton translated the Song of Songs in dramatic form, as a wedding-day drama. His version is worth seeking out for that alone, IMHO.

I hadn't heard of that translation — it sounds very interesting, thanks.
 
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Mark, if you could, please list the Book divisions as you see them for me.

Hey, Mark. You still with us? I wasn't asking to be argumentative. I would honestly like to know. Never done an authoritative study on SOS myself, and you have me interested now.
 
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