Questions for giantess fetish

[lawl1992]

Hey guys!

Short, sweet, to the point, I have a fetish and it is called "macrophillia" This fetish is just based on size difference. Being interested in someone bigger then you or smaller then you. Or "Giant" for male and "Giantess" for female. I am straight, a male, and I like giantess'. Now, my testimony is back when i was 14 (now 19 going on 20) I was HOOKED on viewing videos involving women and...roleplaying and such (no porn but...you know, close to it.)

It was as if the Lord had sent a someone in the comment section to tell me that "Lust is sin guys, you should not be viewing this" and etc etc. Now the comment wasn't for me specifically, but it his home. "What...I'm..lusting?" I thought. And yeah, I was. But praise be to Jesus, I went to my Youth Camp the next year and got delivered from it the intentional lust. However, my fascination with the fetish is still here (so is the remorse TO lust on someone who isn't your spouse but every man/women goes though that and it is a battle until heaven.)

My thing is, I am, as stated above, still fascinated by the concept of being tiny. As a child, I'd love to watch "Honey, I shrunk the Kids" or "Antz" and so forth. I find it cool to find other people who like it to. And I would love to have a wife (God's willing I marry in the future) who would not mind (or like) this fetish (praying about it..lol.) I just want to know a few things though.

QUESTION: Is this small world/giantess fascination bad if I am not lusting on a person? I mean heck ,I still movies like "The Secret World Of Arriety"

Thank you and God bless you all.

 

[SarahCarlene84]

I don't claim to know many answers, so please take what I say as just a peer.
I could be wrong but I'm just gathering from your post that you are reeeeaallly hoping someone will comment and tell you that it's okay. Unfortunately, I don't think anyone can say that. I don't know that anyone could tell you 100% that it's not either. My thoughts on this, however, are that you really should examine your heart about it. Obviously you are concerned enough to feel it is something to be advised about. Is it something that causes a hinderance in your walk? Is it something that could distract you from time with Him? Is it something that could cause you to be weak to temptation? Can you really be "into the fetish" without lusting?
I dunno. Just throwing that out there and offering a ((hug)) and a prayer.

 

[lawl1992]

Thanks so much for responding! I don't know why people have not answered! I agree, my time spent on this fetish (as well as other things like video games) have not been good for my time with the Lord. I need to dig deeper into him. I I honestly don't know if I want to let the fascination go away completely. I mean we all find things that interest us more than other things. I am trying hard to stay away from images that could cause me to lust though (please pray for me in that area). So far, I plan to halt the fetish until (God's willing) I get married. I used to roleplay a bit but now I realize that wasn't good for me.

Yes, please keep me in your prayers because among all other things, it is tough being a Christian male in today's society and not lusting! (Women too!) ((hugs))

 

[Johnnz]

It's wise to get an understanding of what God intends sex to be for his beloved creation and adopt that as your point of evaluation for any sexual interest.

John
NZ

 

[Guy Incognito]

Hey guys!

Short, sweet, to the point, I have a fetish and it is called "macrophillia" This fetish is just based on size difference. Being interested in someone bigger then you or smaller then you. Or "Giant" for male and "Giantess" for female. I am straight, a male, and I like giantess'. Now, my testimony is back when i was 14 (now 19 going on 20) I was HOOKED on viewing videos involving women and...roleplaying and such (no porn but...you know, close to it.)

It was as if the Lord had sent a someone in the comment section to tell me that "Lust is sin guys, you should not be viewing this" and etc etc. Now the comment wasn't for me specifically, but it his home. "What...I'm..lusting?" I thought. And yeah, I was. But praise be to Jesus, I went to my Youth Camp the next year and got delivered from it the intentional lust. However, my fascination with the fetish is still here (so is the remorse TO lust on someone who isn't your spouse but every man/women goes though that and it is a battle until heaven.)

My thing is, I am, as stated above, still fascinated by the concept of being tiny. As a child, I'd love to watch "Honey, I shrunk the Kids" or "Antz" and so forth. I find it cool to find other people who like it to. And I would love to have a wife (God's willing I marry in the future) who would not mind (or like) this fetish (praying about it..lol.) I just want to know a few things though.

QUESTION: Is this small world/giantess fascination bad if I am not lusting on a person? I mean heck ,I still movies like "The Secret World Of Arriety"

Thank you and God bless you all.

In and of itself I don't think it's sinful, but the thing is you know this is an area where you have stumbled (from the sounds of it) in the past - so what you need to figure out is if this fascination can lead you to lust - and if it does, then you need to not partake in whatever way you do. Hope that helps sir. I'll be praying.

 

[lawl1992]

Thank you, and I will!

 

[lawl1992]

Indeed. I want to go all the way, and I will most do that. It is a battle against the mind you know? And by God's grace I will win. I'm doing a little better today though. Keep praying! Thank you!

 

[Guy Incognito]

Glad to hear you're doing better sir.

We all struggle with something here. I have an addiction to porn, and at points [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] pornography. Now it's easier to avoid that type of thing by having filters and accountability software on pretty much any computer I use.

I also struggle with having a foot fetish - something that again, in and of itself I don't find sinful - when I get married in October I hope this is something me and my wife can enjoy in that aspect of our marriage. However, this is an easier stumbling block for me - because I want this to be something she can enjoy (even in a non-sexual way) I'd look up something innocent (like how to give a foot massage)...and while the intent was good, I'd sometimes then end up going down the path of lustful thoughts. So now I rarely/pretty much don't even bother trying to find those things. Hope this makes sense and is an encouragement to you.

 

[lawl1992]

Yes it does indeed! Thanks so much Guy. I love all the answers, but yous truly helped me the most. And I too hope to find a wife someday who shares the same "interests" as me. But if she does not, heck, I will just be happy the the Lord provided and (if she is willing) we can still have intercourse out of love for one another. God Bless you!

 

[fight4faith]

Hey guys!

Short, sweet, to the point, I have a fetish and it is called "macrophillia" This fetish is just based on size difference. Being interested in someone bigger then you or smaller then you. Or "Giant" for male and "Giantess" for female. I am straight, a male, and I like giantess'. Now, my testimony is back when i was 14 (now 19 going on 20) I was HOOKED on viewing videos involving women and...roleplaying and such (no porn but...you know, close to it.)

It was as if the Lord had sent a someone in the comment section to tell me that "Lust is sin guys, you should not be viewing this" and etc etc. Now the comment wasn't for me specifically, but it his home. "What...I'm..lusting?" I thought. And yeah, I was. But praise be to Jesus, I went to my Youth Camp the next year and got delivered from it the intentional lust. However, my fascination with the fetish is still here (so is the remorse TO lust on someone who isn't your spouse but every man/women goes though that and it is a battle until heaven.)

My thing is, I am, as stated above, still fascinated by the concept of being tiny. As a child, I'd love to watch "Honey, I shrunk the Kids" or "Antz" and so forth. I find it cool to find other people who like it to. And I would love to have a wife (God's willing I marry in the future) who would not mind (or like) this fetish (praying about it..lol.) I just want to know a few things though.

QUESTION: Is this small world/giantess fascination bad if I am not lusting on a person? I mean heck ,I still movies like "The Secret World Of Arriety"

Thank you and God bless you all.

embrace it. it's part of who you are. there are lots of safe blogs on tumblr about macrophilia (we call it "G/t" over there, for "Giant/tiny"). you aren't hurting anybody. love your neighbor, but love yourself. don't let someone say that wanting to be small or have a giant friend is wrong. even if it does end up being a sexual interest, there's nothing wrong with you. i want you to know that you're perfect the way you are, and there are other things to worry about, like your relationship with Jesus.

 

[drstevej]

Here is a thought provoking article that I think speaks to the issue...

"It happened years ago, but I've never forgotten it. I was singing and speaking at a small midwestern college. During an informal seminar in one of the dorm lounges, a couple came in late.

I couldn't help noticing something odd about them. The girl was very attractive, close to cover-girl standards. The guy looked as if he had just walked off the set for The Nerds. He was short, wore thick horn-rimmed glasses and a plaid short-sleeved shirt. He was definitely a candidate for getting sand kicked in his face.

But the strangest thing of all was that these two were obviously in love. What could she possibly see in him? I asked myself. Suddenly I realized — she was blind.

But what did she see in him? Everything. Everything that's important about who a person is, what love is, and what a real man is. She saw everything she needed to know about him. Blessed are the blind, for they can see people as they really are. Woe to those who can see, for they will constantly be tripped up by the image."


-- John Fischer, Real Christians Dance

Your thoughts.

Chaplain Steve

 

[DMendrone]

I'm a macrophile too and I'd like some Godly counsel on it