Not sure I nor anyone else understands what you're trying to say but your response does nothing more than avoid the question. Romans just means those who accept Him are to be conformed to Him. Nothing more, nothing less.
Are you trying to tell us that Romans 8:29 negates Acts 10:34? Besides, you're going to have to do better than pick out a verse with your favourite word in it.
Predestination is only used a very few times in the New Testament.
Let us look at the definition given in Kittel’s dictionary. From Rom. 8:29, we have the word: “
prowpisev.” From the root word: “
proorizw,” which means: to limit or mark out beforehand, predestine.
According to the dictionary (Kittel’s), K. L. Schmidt comments:
This comparatively rare and late word is used in the Greek Bible only six times in the NT in the sense “to foreordain” “to predestinate.” Since God is eternal and has ordained everything before time, proopizein is a stronger form of opizein (to set bounds to). The synonyms and textual history show that the reference in proginwskien is the same. Rom. 8:29; ouv proginw kai prowpisen summorfouv tnv eikonov tou niou autou, Rom. 8:30; ous...prowpisen (A: proegnw) toutov kai ekalesen. The omniscient God has determined everything in advance, both persons and things in salvation history, with Jesus Christ as the goal. When Herod and Pilate work together with the Gentiles and the mob against Christ, it may be said: “h boulh [sou] prowrisen genesqai, Acts 4:28. Herein lies the hidden wisdom of God in a mystery, “hn prowrisen o qeoV pro twn aiwnwn eiV doxan hmwn,” 1 Cor. 2:7, cf. IV, 819. The goal of our predestination is divine sonship through Jesus Christ: “proorisaV hmaV eiV uioqesian dia ihsou cristou ,” Eph. 1:5. That we have our inheritance in Christ rests in the fact that we are proopisqentev kata proqesin tou ta panta energountov, Eph. 1:11.
Theological Dictionary of the New Testament, Edited by: Gerhard Kittel, Translated by: Geoffery W. Bromiley, Vol. V, “
proopizw”, p. 456, K. L. Schmidt.
So there you have it, predestination is the mode by which God used to conform the elect to the image of His Son, by which we (the elect) are appointed to divine sonship.
Also, one other usage of this word is found in 1 Pet. 1:20.
Jesus Christ was "foreordained" to go to the cross for you and me:
"Who verily was foreordained before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you," -1 Pet. 1:20 (KJV)
In 1 Pet. 1:20, Peter is relating how the Savior was manifested to provide the atonement.
As I said, “
prowpisev” from the root word "to limit or mark out beforehand, predestine" is the mode by which God used to conform the elect to the image of His Son, by which we (the elect) are appointed to divine sonship.
Just as Jesus' goal "foreordained/predestinated" was to go to the cross, our predestination is to be conformed to the image of His Son.
And as far as Acts 10:34 is concerned, God does not look forward in time and base our election on any foreseen faith or works. If He did, then Peter would be a liar and so would the scriptures.
God Bless
Till all are one.