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Pray for me to get along with co-workers please

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I've been worried lately. About my job. A woman, Net, who used to work here - only here for a few months (probably because she feared she was about to be fired - had made some enemies) - kind of messed up my reputation with another person, Kay, who I still work with every day. Everything was pleasant and normal before Net came along. Net, tried to make me out to be a "whiney little kid" (I'm 20 years younger than her, but actually act a lot older than her) because I had a problem with her slacking on her work and, therefore, putting too much of that work off on me to do, when I already had more to do than her. It's not supposed to be that way. I said something about it, of course... because I wasn't just going to suffer at her expense when I knew she wasn't doing right to begin with.

By influence of Net, for a while a lot of people I work directly with were, unjustly, viewing me as a bad person. Ever since Net left this job, I've been left to deal with Kay's new, skewed perception of who I am. Net had a very bad influence on her.

I've done nothing but get along with everyone and just DO MY JOB - and well - before Net came to my branch. She left a damaging legacy.... all at the expense of me.. and I never did anything wrong to begin with - just worked hard and did what I'm getting paid to do. Now I just want to feel the respect from my coworkers that I used to feel a lot more strongly and want to feel like I'm viewed as the person that I actually am.

Well, we have a new head teller now. And Kay, I'm afraid, may have already started telling him what I'm like - which is a seriously incorrect view. I don't normally let what people think of me bother me so much, but I'm just so afraid of how what the new person may hear from Kay will effect my working environment. I'm afraid of how I may be treated just because of what someone said.

Please pray for me. I really feel like I've been treated unfairly. The customers who come in love me, for the most part. I'm a favorite teller to a large amount of customers. The "big dogs" upstairs and our manager in this department, didn't like Net either. I'm not the only one who saw through her. But there are still a few who view me differently because of Net's influence and unfortunately, they're the ones working closest to me.

Any prayers would be appreciated.
 
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psalm 34,17
the righteous cry, and the lord heareth, and delivered them out of all their troubles . jesus i know you will and are going to bring my sister through this time of pain .jesus i ask that you will bring her and this co worker closer . jesus than with your holy sprit bring them closer unto you . i thank you now jesus for how you are going to bless . in the mighty name of jesus amen .
 
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Lord watch over our sister
And that these co-workers will listen
To you as that our sister will be redeemend
And found innocent of these awful lies
In thy name and and will amen
 
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I don't know why I'm so on edge about this. It's 4:37 a.m.... I laid down to go to sleep an hour and a half ago... and my mind hasn't been able to stop racing about it. I'm so sleepy but it doesn't matter. I can't get the situation off of my mind. What's wrong with me? I prayed about it 2 or 3 times today (or rather, yesterday, at this point) and did a devotional. I just need to stop worrying and put it in God's hands. :sigh:
 
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[bible]Proverbs 3:5-6[/bible]

Yes, trust God to handle this situation for you. My prayers go up for you that God will empower you with the strength to endure whatever may happen. Praying that He'll give you the serenity to allow His Light to shine so bright that others will see you a child of God and want to know more.


God bless,
Newbeliever :)
 
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Lord, an injustice has been done to Your daughter. Harsh word that have not brought life, but destruction have been said. Lord, You know the situation that Rhssm is going through, and You Almighty God, know the truth. Lord, let her no longer be burdened over this matter. Let the thoughts of those not worry her. Father, You have said in Your Word, ' Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven.' Lord, our sister has been treated unfair, but You have commanded us to ' forgive men when they sin against you.' Lord, while You were upon this earth, You too were treated unfair, those that saw Your miracles said that they were from Satain. Those that heard Your words, said that You were a liar. Lord, while upon the cross, Your words still rang of forgiveness. Lord, while we were still black with sin, You came and You died for us. In Your Mercy, You have called us to You. In Your grace You have forgiven us for the sins that we commit. Lord, let our sister though she has been wronged, take up Your Yoke. Let her, though she has been sinned against, follow Your example, and forgive the woman that has done this to her. Father, You have said in Your Word, ' But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgement for every careless word they have spoken.' Father, let her give this matter over to You completely, knowing that You Father are a Righteous Judge. Let her have total forgiveness towards this woman. Let those that she works with, see her as she truely is, let them form their own oppinion of her. Let them, though tainted with lies, see her without blame. Lord, heal the hurt that has been done to our sister. In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ i pray, Amen
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Thank you everyone who has posted. I really appreciate your caring for me and thinking about me. I'm trying to build up enough strength to handle whatever will come tomorrow and every day after that at work. I just long to feel understood again. I feel like I've already dug a huge hole with this new person, just trying so hard to make sure I'm understood to be not what Kay will say I am. I've made things worse for myself than they would have been, just by being paranoid and afraid of how things will turn out, and trying to make sure nothing WILL happen. Hopefully he will come to see me for who I really am and treat me NOT in the way that he possibly could, expecting me to be how someone may warn him I am. I'll keep praying and I'm going to try to stop taking my problems into my own hands, but to put them in God's hands instead.
 
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