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I am going through a separation with someone I’ve been with for 5 years I am 33 years old he has cheated on me countless times and he has been physically abusive. My heart hurts my brain hurts I don’t know how I can go on or even why to. My belief is dwindling and I’m afraid my life has bit its peak and I’m on the decline at 33 with no kids. Prayers and encouragement needed desperately. Thank you.
 

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Prayers for you Victoria, that you will see how very precious you are to your Heavenly Father. No one should be treated as you have, it was toxic.
Your life certainly is not over, I'm sure God has many things ahead for you.
Cling to Him and tell Him of your pain.
And then remember what Jesus went through for you, He understands so much better than anyone else.

He has been there.
And He is beside you through it all.
He will never leave or forsake you

Psalm 27 is helpful for you
Isaiah 43:1b -3a

"Fear not: for I have redeemed thee,
I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine.

When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shall not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.

For I AM the Lord thy God, the Holy One of Israel, thy Saviour.:heart:
 
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Prayers for you Victoria, that you will see how very precious you are to your Heavenly Father. No one should be treated as you have, it was toxic.
Your life certainly is not over, I'm sure God has many things ahead for you.
Cling to Him and tell Him of your pain.
And then remember what Jesus went through for you, He understands so much better than anyone else.

He has been there.
And He is beside you through it all.
He will never leave or forsake you

Psalm 27 is helpful for you
Isaiah 43:1b -3a

"Fear not: for I have redeemed thee,
I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine.

When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shall not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.

For I AM the Lord thy God, the Holy One of Israel, thy Saviour.:heart:
My very thoughts but said far more eloquently.then I could have.
Thank you.
 
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The best thing I love about God is how He's always willing to give us new opportunities to start again. Right now the journey is painful, I know your hurting and feel broken but fear not Victoria. This is not how your story ends. I pray that God may close this chapter of your life, I pray He turns to a fresh new page and begins to write a story full of His love for you, a story of emotional & physical healing over your life. God will see you through this moment and will help you cross over to the other side.

Please know that He's by your side as you read this. Just hold onto Him, he will help you through this. I will continue to pray for you.

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
 
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Please be of good courage as you leave this bad relationship behind. Do understand that God loves you immensely and would never cheat on you, so don't let distrust dominate your faith life.

Jesus can get you through this time and give you safety and purpose. Put your faith in His love even today and let His loving truth guide you day by day.

Please keep your eyes peeled on Jesus.

:prayer:

An invitation to The Chosen.

God's Love will not take or will
you to conform to rules or demand
which imprison, enslave, burn or kill you.

God's Love will not pervert what's Good
The Lord loves truthfully Wise and Good.
True Love was, is and always will be Good!

In God's Love you are free to be right!
In His love everything is good proper and kind.
He loves all who love good and true to rule!

His Love is caring, providing, and sharing.
His Love always enjoys and protects good life.
His love rules even when bad life has being in us!

Hear Jesus call - 'Come join up with us all!
Leave whatever ties you down and be free
loving good life with all God's own to be.'

To the rest in your heart God's asks
how long will you tarry in the darkness?
Please leave such bad existence within.

For life must not, no never should, or would, or could,
be forceful, rude, prideful, arrogant, selfish, lustful
or otherwise be untrue to God's loving truth.

Neither should life be hurting or ill,
hungry, oppressed, despised, hated
or otherwise have existence in wrong.

Please hand your Bad Life over to Jesus
Humbly ask for His Good Life back in return
and go love God, self and neighbour with Joy.

The Church knows that Jesus is coming soon
All bad life will be our shameful past then,
so please leave your bad life while you can!

Love
 
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The best thing I love about God is how He's always willing to give us new opportunities to start again. Right now the journey is painful, I know your hurting and feel broken but fear not Victoria. This is not how your story ends. I pray that God may close this chapter of your life, I pray He turns to a fresh new page and begins to write a story full of His love for you, a story of emotional & physical healing over your life. God will see you through this moment and will help you cross over to the other side.

Please know that He's by your side as you read this. Just hold onto Him, he will help you through this. I will continue to pray for you.

Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
I can’t thank you enough for this. Your words are a
Blessing
 
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I am going through a separation with someone I’ve been with for 5 years I am 33 years old he has cheated on me countless times and he has been physically abusive. My heart hurts my brain hurts I don’t know how I can go on or even why to. My belief is dwindling and I’m afraid my life has bit its peak and I’m on the decline at 33 with no kids. Prayers and encouragement needed desperately. Thank you.

God bless you, sister. I promise you, your life is NOT on the decline! I'm so terribly sorry for this heartache that you're going through. I hope you have a safe place to go to begin healing under God's care.
 
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Hello Victoria,
welcome to CF.

I hope you'll enjoy your stay here.



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