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just curious, whats the methodists view on alcohol?
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Yikes - these guys would have had a lot of trouble with Jesus - esp. turning water to wine...., etc. (and, hey, check out Deut 14:26....!!!!
Yikes - these guys would have had a lot of trouble with Jesus - esp. turning water to wine...., etc. (and, hey, check out Deut 14:26....!!!!
No. But we would have had a problem with any guest at the wedding who abused the gift and drank to excess.
we encourage people to limit their exercise of this freedom by abstaining.
Responsible drinking is not a problem. However, if you have ever been exposed to the ravages of alcohol abuse, it would be clear (even without any theological examination) that is something best avoided.
I wonder if there is such a thing as responsible drinking.
The social drinking philosophy is a lie of both the Devil and the Breweries of time. Alcohol is likely the biggest cause of broken homes, abused children, and ruined lives of our century.
While I certainly agree that alcohol is one of the biggest causes of many of the ills of our modern society (and not just modern, but I suspect ancient ones as well), I can't go so far as to say that there is no such thing as responsible drinking. The evidence I've personally observed supports both the conclusion that many in society are unable to drink (even a little) responsibly, but also that many others are.
As a student chaplain working at a federal prison, I was shocked to learn that over 3/4 of those in prison where there because they had committed a crime either involving illegal use/possession of drugs or alcohol or while under the influence of drugs or alcohol. History tells us that prohibition didn't work. But the cost to our society resulting from the misuse and abuse of alcohol, in my estimation, is so high that I'm not so sure that I wouldn't rather go back to those days.
Yet, even as I say that, I also recall my experience in the Lutheran Church (ELCA). Having been raised in a teetotaling Methodist parsonage, I was surprised by the casual approach and open acceptance I found with regard to the consumption of alcoholic beverages in the Lutheran Church. First there was the time accidently took the wrong cup at communion and got real wine instead of grape juice. But I learned that I could survive it, for sometimes the servers would not notice me giving the signal for juice (an option always available) and rather than make a scene, I would just drink the wine. I don't think my doing so was being irresponsible. And I don't think that the church served wine, when it also made grape juice equally available, was irresponsible either. (Though, as I said above, perhaps some of the servers weren't as responsible as they could have been in paying attention to what people wanted.)
But, I know your point isn't about communion, but about social drinking. And here, too, I learned a thing or two from my time living as among Lutherans. I can recall a clergy conference at which afterward, just as I had done in Methodist circles for years, all of us pastors went out for a time for relaxing and fellowship together. Our conference was in a relatively small town and the options were limited. We had already all eaten and mostly just wanted a quiet place to talk. The pub in the hotel turned out to be the best location available. I remember walking in and feeling a bit strange, because up to that point in my life I had never set at a table with other pastors where so many were drinking a bear. Yet that evening was, as I've said already, about conversation and enjoying each other's company. No one got drunk. In fact, over the course of about 2 hours, no one drank more than two beers. And no one said a word about the fact that I didn't drink a beer, but a Pepsi. And when we were done, we called it a night, said good-bye to one another, and each returned to his/her own room. The conference continued the next day, just as it would have if it were a United Methodist function. People drank, but handled their drinks and themselves responsibly. I would find this pattern repeated over and over again in these Lutheran settings. And what I eventually learned was that beer was selected as the beverage of choice by many not because it was alcoholic, but simply because they liked the flavor. But, selecting it for its flavor, they also were aware that it was alcoholic, and therefore responsibly limited their consumption of it so that it would not impair their thinking, their driving or otherwise negatively impact their behavior.
Is that universally true? No. These pastors handled themselves in all situation better than most. And so I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that they did the same with regard to alcoholic beverages. On the other hand, many people handle few things well. And when such people have access to alcohol, they become a problem not just for themselves, but for everyone around them as well. And while I do think responsible drinking is normative for some, I fear that for the majority it is not.
While you say there is no pressure by society to drink, I believe you are wrong. The truth is there is great pressure, especially upon the youth of today. Hollywood, work and class mates and T.V. paint a heavily one sided picture of good times being had while drinking (just as you attempted to do in your posting). The philosophy of, if you want to enjoy yourself then you must have a glass of booze in your hand is portrayed by all these groups.
While I certainly agree that alcohol is one of the biggest causes of many of the ills of our modern society (and not just modern, but I suspect ancient ones as well), I can't go so far as to say that there is no such thing as responsible drinking. The evidence I've personally observed supports both the conclusion that many in society are unable to drink (even a little) responsibly, but also that many others are.
I am confident you will find that responsible drinking is the norm. You sound like you have not been hanging out in the norm. I will bet you will find most members of any particular Methodist Church are responsible drinkers.
As a student chaplain working at a federal prison, I was shocked to learn that over 3/4 of those in prison where there because they had commited a crime either involving illegal use/possession of drugs or alcohol or while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Alcohol is a a drug. We tend to forget that because it is legal.
What you need to do is compare the number of social and responsible drinkers (even ones who occasionally get drunk) with the number of people in prison.
I think what you are going to find is that, while 75% of people in prison have a problem with drugs (including alcohol), less than 1% of the total number of people who drink do. So most people are going to be like that group of pastors. Even people who like to actively be drunk still use alcohol respsonsibly in that they get drunk in controlled situations and do not do so frequently.
I would like to see data on the number of alcoholics in France and the number of people in French prisons who are there because alcohol was related to their crimes. The French do drink wine like we drink soft drinks. Children are brought up in households where a glass of wine a day is the norm. I wonder if this makes a difference.
History tells us that prohibition didn't work. But the cost to our socieity resulting from the misuse and abuse of alcohol, in my estimation, is so high that I'm not so sure that I wouldn't rather go back to those days.
Oh no. You don't want to go back. The side effects were more than the cost we are paying today.
Had the government been really interested in making Prohibition work, they could merely have stiffened the penalties to the point that there was no profit in it. Legalized street drugs are will be legalized, in time, in Canadian society by following the same route that Bootleggers followed in Prohibition days.
The truth is there is great pressure, especially upon the youth of today.
The growing battle in our churches over the use of alcohol is one more sign of a back sliding church.
In my view, being drunk intentionally is not being responsible. Hence, if people make the repeated choice to be drunk, evne in a controlled environment, they are not engaged in responsible drinking.I am confident you will find that responsible drinking is the norm. What you need to do is compare the number of social and responsible drinkers (even ones who occasionally get drunk) with the number of people in prison.
Even people who like to actively be drunk still use alcohol respsonsibly in that they get drunk in controlled situations and do not do so frequently.
The same is true of several other cultures besides the French. I suspect that such an attitude does make a difference. Though we would be fooling ourselves to suggest that the French don't have problem with people becoming intoxicated and also with alcohol addiction in their society.I would like to see data on the number of alcoholics in France and the number of people in French prisons who are there because alcohol was related to their crimes. The French do drink wine like we drink soft drinks. Children are brought up in households where a glass of wine a day is the norm. I wonder if this makes a difference.
The social drinking philosophy is a lie of both the Devil and the Breweries of time. Alcohol is likely the biggest cause of broken homes, abused children, and ruined lives of our century.
As I noted, in Jesus' time you were not only expected to drink at a wedding, you were expected to get drunk.
In my view, being drunk intentionally is not being responsible. Hence, if people make the repeated choice to be drunk, evne in a controlled environment, they are not engaged in responsible drinking.
The same is true of several other cultures besides the French. I suspect that such an attitude does make a difference. Though we would be fooling ourselves to suggest that the French don't have problem with people becoming intoxicated and also with alcohol addiction in their society.