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Easy G (G²);61923418 said:And the audience spoken to are the Hebrews - with the other laws specifically noted to be for them. No way to prove otherwise that it was Law given for all cultures surrounding them.
Nonetheless, the Law already makes clear that foreigners were often treated RADICALLY different than those in the land - with the Law given specifically to the Hebrews directly/talking multiple times on their interactions with each other...and already noting where marriages with foreigners not serving Israel's God was already forbidden. Again, one cannot try to focus on laws of marriage for Dinah/SHECHEM without addressing that glaring issue on how the law was already violated by the marriage in the first place and was no small issue..Even if the audience were Hebrews, "a man" does not necessarily mean a Hebrew man.
Easy G (G²);61923501 said:Nonetheless, the Law already makes clear that foreigners were often treated RADICALLY different than those in the land - with the Law given specifically to the Hebrews directly/talking multiple times on their interactions with each other...and already noting where marriages with foreigners not serving Israel's God was already forbidden. Again, one cannot try to focus on laws of marriage for Dinah/SHECHEM without addressing that glaring issue on how the law was already violated by the marriage in the first place and was no small issue..
There's nothing in the scriptures showing that Shechem and his people were not aware of how the Israelites lived and the God that they served. Jacob had a reputation that went before him..and regardless of how much they were aware, there is no escaping the fact that the PEOPLE of Jacob already were aware of how marriage to Cannanites was NOT allowed due to the culture. To allow it was disobediance - and Jacob's silence and willingness to support such was just that, just as it was when he decieved his father and struggled with other things as well. When the sons realized that their father was going to go through with it rather than speak against it in accordance with what he knew of his parents/their desires to not marry Cannanites, it was a matter of choosing to appear as if Levi/Simeon would support it while intending to essentially do the extreme in preventing intermarriage/not allowing mess to occur. Jacob experienced the same when it came to his own father, Issac, knowing what God had declared with Jacob being chosen to lead and yet having his older brother favored by his father - with the father planning to bless Easu rather than Jacob regardless and the mother (wrong as it may've been) telling Jacob to devieve his father/take matters into his own hands to ensure that what God wanted to occur would happen instead of letting the stubborness and disobediance of his father play out. Jacob's sons seemed to have the same reality with their father, who also seemed to have the same issues of being stubborn with avoiding doing what should have been done - and thus, as they were also tricksters, they did the same as their dad.Shechem and his people were not aware of the way the Israelites lived.
Actually, Simeon and Levi's actions prevented compromise from occurring in union with people the Lord already made plain that marriage was not to occur in. And as said before, one must be selective with the text in speaking on trying to rectify situations with Dinah when ignoring where there was a pragmatic reality to why they wanted the marriage to begin with:I believe there was effort on their part to rectify the situation with Dinah. To move forward. The sin had already been committed, there was no going back, and not even Simeon and Levy's actions fixed anything.
It only added to the complexity of the situation for Jacob.
Of courseThat's my opinion.
Considering that rape was not simply deemed as being something other than rap if one could make peace/retribution, it'd be incomplete to stop there. For even in the Law, a Jewish man who raped another was worthy of death - specifically in the event that a girl was to be married. If the girl chose not to scream during the act and alert others (thus showing willingness), she and the man were to die - but if in the country side where there's isolation and the man rapes her (with screaming being of no avail), the man was to be put to death. And in the event of a single girl, the man was required to marry her/pay a heavy fine.If a man happens to meet in a town a virgin pledged to be married and he sleeps with her, 24 you shall take both of them to the gate of that town and stone them to death—the girl because she was in a town and did not scream for help, and the man because he violated another man’s wife. You must purge the evil from among you.
25 But if out in the country a man happens to meet a girl pledged to be married and rapes her, only the man who has done this shall die. 26 Do nothing to the girl; she has committed no sin deserving death. This case is like that of someone who attacks and murders his neighbor, 27 for the man found the girl out in the country, and though the betrothed girl screamed, there was no one to rescue her.
28 If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, 29 he shall pay the girl’s father fifty shekels of silver.[c] He must marry the girl, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
In all of those events, the people dealt with were the Hebrews rather than Non-Hebrew people who had no concern for their laws....
and thus, focusing in on the marriage laws alone with rape for the Dinah situation is not consistent since Shechem was not bound by those laws and it was a big deal.
I think one would be leaving a lot of details out of the situation by reading more into the text than what's present. For the text does not always give full mention of many realities - and because it doesn't mention where Dinah screamed doesn't mean she did not do so anymore than it means that she did not physically hurt after being defiled because the text didn't say so (even though that's common with women after sleeping with a man for the first time). Some things are simply not in focus - and the text makes plain that the girl was raped/the action was neither justified or appropriate
5 When Jacob heard that his daughter Dinah had been defiled, his sons were in the fields with his livestock; so he kept quiet about it until they came home. 6 Then Shechem’s father Hamor went out to talk with Jacob. 7 Now Jacob’s sons had come in from the fields as soon as they heard what had happened. They were filled with grief and fury, because Shechem had done a disgraceful thing in[a] Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter—a thing that should not be done.
And to drive home the point of how dangerous the situation was, the author noted that the actions of Shechem were calculated to be beyond a mere love relationship. For it placed the Israelites in a bad position for compromise due to the fact that it opened the door for possible intermixing with people the Lord never desired to be connected with the Israelites...and people who WANTED to take advantage of the Israelites.
Genesis 34:17
Their proposal seemed good to Hamor and his son Shechem. 19 The young man, who was the most honored of all his father’s household, lost no time in doing what they said, because he was delighted with Jacob’s daughter. 20 So Hamor and his son Shechem went to the gate of their city to speak to their fellow townsmen. 21 “These men are friendly toward us,” they said. “Let them live in our land and trade in it; the land has plenty of room for them. We can marry their daughters and they can marry ours. 22 But the men will consent to live with us as one people only on the condition that our males be circumcised, as they themselves are. 23Won’t their livestock, their property and all their other animals become ours? So let us give our consent to them, and they will settle among us.”
24 All the men who went out of the city gate agreed with Hamor and his son Shechem, and every male in the city was circumcised.
There was a very real threat of attempts at DOMINANCE over the Hebrews occurring and people consenting to the deal made by Levi/Simeon due to their greed - with the actions of Levi/Simeon being calculated to trap them since they knew the real intentions behind wanting intermarriage with the Israelites and that offering them something that appeared to be a marriage contract would be immediately taken because of what others wanted in the long term.
That instruction for screaming came centuries after the entire event - thus making it a bit of a moot point talking on how she was possibly at fault for not screaming for help. THat is in addition to the fact the fact that there's no record of Dinah not screaming ..and thus, it is an argument from silence to assume she didn't because nothing was said.Dinah is still required to publicly complain or "scream" for help. I do not see either case present in this situation. Torah requires Dinah provide the burden of proof, considering her father Jacob and Dinah are silent on the marriage proposal. Torah requires Dinah and Shechem are to be put to death..
All circumcision requires blood, M. There is nothing in scripture or culture remotely advocating that a blood circumcision is even required for restitution for bloodshed in rape or fornication - and it doesn't do good in making things up that were not present.Levi and Simeon propose "blood circumcision" to make peace. The principle of circumcision teaches "seperation" and the Canaanites (as many do today) understood circumcision as making the two nations one. There must be bloodshed for the Dinah's rape or fornication, "blood circumcision" for the men would be the just punishment for their sin. In this way Levi and Simeon may save Dinah's life.
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One, again, would have to be selective in not realizing that universal law/understanding of things doesn't imply universal application. It's understood by many, for example, that murder is wrong - and yet it's also the case that sexual immorality/oppression of women is practiced in many cultures acknowledging that murder is wrong...WITH full awarenss. The claim that Shechem didn't know on the Israelites being forbidden to marry Canaanites has no bearing on the fact that JACOB and the Israelites did know - and should have told them on it in the event that they didn't know. If they didn't tell them IMMEDIATELY what God required in marraiges to foreigners and Jacob kept silent, it would have been grievious sin...and with Simeon and Levi aware of their father going with the situation/choosing SILENCE on the matter just as other men in their line did, they went with it in appearance while also seeking to stop the marriage/union from occurring in the long run.Let us hear Pharisee Paul whom is an expert in legal matters:
Romans 2
14 (Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law. 15 They show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts sometimes accusing them and at other times even defending them.)
There is such a law called "international law" or "universal law". If Shechem is not bound by those laws written in Torah why does he try to pay a high price to make things right? The only law that Shechem is not familiar with is the secret law that Abraham gives his family; they were not to marry the Canaanites; the son of Ham that Noah the patriarch cursed. I think we should be careful to denote that Canaan did nothing wrong to Noah, but it was Ham whom uncovered Noah's nakedness. Yet Canaan is cursed for illegal worship of angels or giants/nephilim.
Seeing that no one at any point said it was Jacob's sons who told him on the rape, that's inconsequential to the discussion. What matters is that Dinah was raped and Jacob heard about it - most likely from someone else in the Hebrew camp (or even possibly from a messenger from the town she was raped in. And the sons came to learn of it later on AFTER Jacob had already heard on it/chose to wait with the news.Who told Jacob that Dinah had been defiled? Jacob sons were out in the field with his livestock, so Jacob sons could not have told their father. It is very important "who" tells you something
That's reading into the story apart from what was there, seeing that there were other examples of such in the scriptures where the Canaanites were concerned with getting ahold of Israel's supplies and having that as reasons for connection.Well this was a kind gesture on the part of the Canaanites, they were willing to accept Israel as a "package deal" unlike the Egyptians.
Seeing that Egypt made room for the Israelites to raise their flocks on the best land in Goshen, it wasn't really a lost for the Israelites - and Jospeh ensured that. Living amongst the Canaanites was something the Israelites would have been aware of and knowing the costs of doing so.Egypt would not allow Israel to bring their livestock into their cities. frThe Canaanites understood that when they married the hebrews they would be required to care for their animals. Notice the Cannanites said that Israel would living among them possibly as citizens.
Indeed...and Dinah should have had supervision.The Israelites were foreignors or aliens; the land still belonged to Canaan. In fact it was Dinah whom intermingled with the girls of the land which caused this strange thing to happen.
Easy G (G²);61931106 said:That instruction for screaming came centuries after the entire event - thus making it a bit of a moot point talking on how she was possibly at fault for not screaming for help. THat is in addition to the fact the fact that there's no record of Dinah not screaming ..and thus, it is an argument from silence to assume she didn't because nothing was said.
Easy G (G²);61931106 said:That instruction for screaming came centuries after the entire event - thus making it a bit of a moot point talking on how she was possibly at fault for not screaming for help. THat is in addition to the fact the fact that there's no record of Dinah not screaming ..and thus, it is an argument from silence to assume she didn't because nothing was said.
Amen.I believe the Torah existed from the foundation of the earth, from the beginning of Creation. We find altar building in the time of Adam and knowledge of unclean and clean animals from the time before the Flood in Noah's time, so who's to say these instructions were not given before the Flood, as well?
Besides all of this, the screaming or not screaming has no bearing on the situation at all. Dinah's type of situation fits the following verse from Deuteronomy 22:
28 "If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, 29 he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives."
This verse does not specify whether the man is a Hebrew Israelite, Hivite, Cushite, Egyptian, Syrian, etc., etc., regardless of who the audience might be.
Once the above situation has happened, there is no choice but for the man to marry the girl without the option for divorce as long as he lives. This is the only outcome. The girl's father would have to give her to the man, no matter what the man's background may be.
Seeing that we also have things present in the time of Adam/Noah that were NOT present in the Mosaic law, again, one must be selective on the issue of saying that all things in the Mosaic Law were ever meant to apply to all situations in the OT. By the logic you're using, everyone was in sin for marrying cousins/siblings even though the Law forbade it - and the same thing goes for a myriad of other things.I believe the Torah existed from the foundation of the earth, from the beginning of Creation. We find altar building in the time of Adam and knowledge of unclean and clean animals from the time before the Flood in Noah's time, so who's to say these instructions were not given before the Flood, as well?
It nonetheless has NO bearing on the fact that the same book already makes plain that other Hebrews were NOT to seek marriage with foreigners - regardless of any attempt to either minimize that, avoid it or act as if it's not there.Besides all of this, the screaming or not screaming has no bearing on the situation at all. Dinah's type of situation fits the following verse from Deuteronomy 22:
28 "If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, 29 he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives."
This verse does not specify whether the man is a Hebrew Israelite, Hivite, Cushite, Egyptian, Syrian, etc., etc., regardless of who the audience might be.
Who told is inconsequential to the fact that his daughter had been defiled as the text makes plain. Again, to ignore that simple reality is to ignore the scripture.Who told Jacob that his daughter has been defiled?
Easy G (G²);61932634 said:Seeing that we also have things present in the time of Adam/Noah that were NOT present in the Mosaic law, again, one must be selective on the issue of saying that all things in the Mosaic Law were ever meant to apply to all situations in the OT. By the logic you're using, everyone was in sin for marrying cousins/siblings even though the Law forbade it - and the same thing goes for a myriad of other things.
We must be consistent with scripture and the context it developed in.
It nonetheless has NO bearing on the fact that the same book already makes plain that other Hebrews were NOT to seek marriage with foreigners - regardless of any attempt to either minimize that, avoid it or act as if it's not there.
The Torah made plain that Hebrews were marry those who served God as they did and that those doing so were in grave sin. Trying to take the verse on Deuteronomy 22 to apply it to Dinah is baseless when avoiding what the text says later on foreigners....and the reason it doesn't specify a Hebrew Israelite is because it was already noted by Moses at the very beginning of His speech that his words were addressed to the people of God/their context. Period.
Until the scriptures on marrying foreigners being forbiden is addressed, one is simply pulling the cart before the horse in regard to Dinah/her situation - and more on that issue was discussed in-depth earlier here in #20
Easy G (G²);61932662 said:Who told is inconsequential to the fact that his daughter had been defiled as the text makes plain. Again, to ignore that simple reality is to ignore the scripture.
Nonetheless, the OT already had it multiple times where such occurred - and it was not an issue, Pre-Mosaic Law.I do believe it is forbidden to marry siblings. .
THat's understood, although there's no real evidence saying that Cain married others who were not siblings nor is there evidence that Sarah was Abraham's neice. And even if it was the case, again, that would be counter to Mosaic Law.I also believe the text is misinterpreted regularly. The case of Abraham and Sarah, for instance. She was not his "sister" as in our Westernized/modern interpretation. The Hebrew word for "sister" can be very broad, just meaning female with common relatives. I believe Sarah was Abraham's niece. I do not believe that Cain married his sibling. I have stated my position on another thread, so I won't re-hash it here.
[/quote]Doesn't matter, as a marriage proposal was presented and it was accepted. Seeking something out has zero bearing on whether or not it is allowed, as marriage to a foreigner is marriage to a foreigner. And it didn't matter whether or not a marriage was pre-arranged or not. You were simply not allowed to marry foreigners from THE Cannanites under any circumstances - unless they fully followed the God of Israel.Dinah did not seek marriage with a foreigner. Jacob did not seek a foreigner for his daughter.
This was not a pre-arranged marriage. Dinah was taken for the purpose of sexual relations. This changed the game, so to speak.
It was already noted earlier - multiple times - when it came to what the Lord already made clear about the Israelites neither seeking out foreign marriages or allowing them to occur. That is what sets the stage for other situations, thus making it inconsistent to claim that Deut 22 was meant to apply to Dinah.Would you provide a quote about foreigners which fits Dinah's situation to a 'T' the way Deut. 22 does?
The question was answered - and in logical debate, there's the principle of misleading questions that assume more than what is in focus. You do get to ignore where a rape occurred and then shift onto focusing on who brought up to Jacob that his daughter was defiled since the focus was that RAPE occurred. It does not matter who told him - and seeing that you claimed His sons told him, it's inconsistent with the text since it makes clear that his sons found out when they got home (even though Jacob was aware of it).If you do not wish to answer the question, does not mean it is inconsequential. I have not ignored anything, I think you are ignoring to answer my question.
I do believe it is forbidden to marry siblings. I also believe the text is misinterpreted regularly. The case of Abraham and Sarah, for instance. She was not his "sister" as in our Westernized/modern interpretation. The Hebrew word for "sister" can be very broad, just meaning female with common relatives. I believe Sarah was Abraham's niece.
I do not believe that Cain married his sibling. I have stated my position on another thread, so I won't re-hash it here.
Dinah did not seek marriage with a foreigner. Jacob did not seek a foreigner for his daughter. This was not a pre-arranged marriage. Dinah was taken for the purpose of sexual relations. This changed the game, so to speak. Seeking a right marriage for her was now out of the question.
Would you provide a quote about foreigners which fits Dinah's situation to a 'T' the way Deut. 22 does?
There is no pulling the cart before the horse on my part...Shechem took care of that himself.
Easy G (G²);61933123 said:The question was answered - and in logical debate, there's the principle of misleading questions that assume more than what is in focus. You do get to ignore where a rape occurred and then shift onto focusing on who brought up to Jacob that his daughter was defiled since the focus was that RAPE occurred. It does not matter who told him - and seeing that you claimed His sons told him, it's inconsistent with the text since it makes clear that his sons found out when they got home (even though Jacob was aware of it).
No need to dodge, Bruh.
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