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Is touching yourself a Sin???

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Technically; I'd say yes. Within reason.

The bible mentions adultery as lust; or in the 'heart'. Given that you'll be having lustful thoughts when doing it (unless you have some uncanny mental control!); it becomes a sin. God gave us sex as a great pleasure in marriage; and whilst the bible does not say 'DO NOT DO IT', we can infer that taking that sexual pleasure outside marriage is not in keeping with God's plan.

However; if there is a reason for that greater than lust (say if you need to bank sperm for medical reasons...); then God will see the greater purpose.

I suspect this will be a hot topic; however!
 
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Probably. There’s just not a scripture that I can find that says one way or the other. At least, nothing about the mechanical act of doing the dirty deed.

However, lustful thoughts (which is what masturbation is all about, huh?) are sinful - Matt.5.28.

I mean, it's hard for the left hand not to know what the right hand is doing at times like this.

Jim
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Such a difficult one to answer as there is nothing about it in the bible!! There is a lot about sexual immorality, but it doesn't mention that masturbation is immoral. Every other sin is mentioned, so where do we turn? Most Christians that I know see it as an awful sin.

I have had to deal with this one with my son who is 16 and experimenting!! I found an article that puts a new angle on this question and I suppose although my mind screamed out against it the first time I read the article on masturbation, the more I thought about it the more sense it made. Although I don't know if I'm convinced yet!! Look at attached bitmap for directions.



 

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Jim B said:
Probably. There’s just not a scripture that I can find that says one way or the other. At least, nothing about the mechanical act of doing the dirty deed.



However, lustful thoughts (which is what masturbation is all about, huh?) are sinful - Matt.5.28.



I mean, it's hard for the left hand not to know what the right hand is doing at times like this.



Jim

\o/

Matt 5 :28 the Word that is translated lust is the same word as covet :

epithumeo {ep-ee-thoo-meh'-o}

1) to turn upon a thing

2) to have a desire for, long for, to desire

3) to lust after, covet

a) of those who seek things forbidden





I think the main thing we need to look at is the seeking after things forbiddin.The part of touching yourself that can be a sin has to do with the thought life thought life. The seeking of things forbid which is a sin, but if it is in the proper context it is not a sin (just as desiring a chocolate bar is not a sin as long as it is not something that you are doing against your parents wishes or you are thinking about taking one that is not yours)

I think it is O.K. within the context of marriage ( a husband relieving himself while waiting till he and his wife can come together).

and maybe engagement ( a person relieving themself so that sexual urges do not interfere with the relationship making it strained). in this case it might be a loving thing to do because it protects the other persons purity and helps to keep the relationship focused on more important things instead of just marrying for relief of strong sexual urges.



I am not sure about single people, but If sexual urges are overpowering your thought process and if you are thinking about pleasuring your future spouse where is the "coveting" in that?
 
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on fire 4 christ said:
I HAVE ONE THING TO SAY DONT LOVE PLESURE MORE THAN ARE GOD

AND PLUS WHY WOULD U WANT TO GOD HAS SO MUCH MORE GREATER

STUFF FOR YOU I THINK LOVING AND PRAISING GOD IS ALL A PLESURE

IN ITSELF


LET ME HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS
do you really want to hear any ones thoughts?? didn't you start this same topic on 3-4 other areas on this forum
i do have a quick question.... isn't call spamming when you start topics but never come and respond
 
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Well here is my answer.. touching yourself is wrong..ok..your penis is not made for you to use by yourself in that way..lol..God made it for a man and a woman..in marriage..It wasn't made for you to give yourself pleasure by yourself....it was made that way to please a woman, reproduction.. and urination..not for touching yourself..lol..plus there comes the thought life..what are people thinking when they do it..one may say i do it without thinking of people..but still..its wrong..it is a selfish act..when infact sex is suppose to be unselfish..like the woman to please the man..and the man to please the woman..so both get pleased..and its unselfish..thats apart of it.theres more..but I am going..God bless and laters fello brothers and sisters:D
 
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Is masturbation a sin?
Should this really be in the Charismatic forum? Anyhow, this isn't the easiest of questions to answer. Most of the common arguments for and against the practice are specious, often involving a lot of question begging and dubious theology. Apart from the fact that there are no clear scriptural references either permitting or prohibiting masturbation, what makes it particularly difficult for Christians to discuss this phenomena is some of the unbiblical assumptions which we bring to bear upon the discussion. Though we may not care to admit it, the Church's historical disconnection from its Jewish roots left it vulnerable to false teaching. Platonic dualism, for instance, has taught us that the body is evil, that physical pleasure is bad and that sex is shameful. No one usually says that in quite so many words, but the influence of Platonic thought still permeates much Christian thinking at both the conscious and subconscious level. Consequently, many of the arguments which are brought against masturbation are arguably built upon a Greek rather than a Hebrew mindset - they are often invalid. As for the other arguments, we cannot help wondering whether they might be tainted too. After all, philosophy is like leven which permeates the whole lump of dough. Even if we have become aware of the erroneous ideas we picked up from the Greek philosophers, the chances are those assumptions are still influencing our thought processes.

Consequently, it may be profitable to step outside of the Christian world and invite the Jews to offer some of their thoughts on the subject, on the assumption that Jewish theological traditions (at least, the orthodox ones) are less likely to have been influenced by Platonic thought. From what little I know of Jewish theology and tradition, I can confirm that the Orthodox Jewish tradition has rejected masturbation (whilst 'Liberal' and 'Reformed' traditions seem to be less restrictive). For example, there is a passage in the Talmud that states, "in the case of a man, the hand that reaches below the navel should be chopped off." (Niddah 13a). Male masturbation is seen to be prohibited - and this is something the orthodox tradition has apparently maintained for a long time. This to me would be a reasonably clear confirmation of my own conclusions about sexual pleasure outside of marriage - apparently I am not being led astray by any wayward philosophical undercurrent. However, from what I have read, it would appear that this Jewish law has been derived solely from the story of Onan (Gen. 38:8-10), which early Rabbis apparently interpreted in a very broad way as prohibiting the wilful destruction of male 'seed'. Modern Jewish scholars are quick to note that this passage does not condemn masturbation per se, but accept the authority of the traditional law and the broader implications that the original scholars believed they could see in this scripture. So this Jewish teaching may not be an insight at all - just an exegitical error converted into a law and passed down by tradition. And Yeshua (Jesus, to you and me) was rather critical of teachers who added things to the Torah, making heavy burdens for the people to carry. Whilst I think it may be worthwhile for some of us to research more of Jewish thinking on the subject of masturbation for our own enlightenment, I admit that we may not get anywhere by pursuing this line either - but it might be worth trying (?).

I think various arguments can be made against masturbation which are reasonably satisfactory - but probably not watertight. In the end, since we might not be able to give a definitive answer, it may be necessary to leave it up to individual Christians to seek God's will for themselves, and then leave them be. The text which comes immediately to my mind is in Romans 14:23: "whatever is not of faith is sin". If we are bringing (and being exhorted to bring) our lives, as a whole, before the penetrating scrutiny of the Holy Spirit, in revent submission and with spiritual attentiveness, I think any practices that constitute serious sin will, in time, become apparent to us. We will not feel justified in doing them.

T7
 
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What a topic...LOL..I'm not going to tell my 13 yr old grandson that just found his, that he is sinning. for him its hormones raging. But yes it has to do with thoughts, and lack of control of self gratification.. Everything in excess is sin.
 
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Jim B said:
Do Charismatics touch? :blush:

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Are they human? Just kidding..sort of. I believe that if you are a married person, there should be no reason for self gratification. Doesn't matter if you are a tongue talkin' Charismatic or whatever a person is, we are all human, with human cravings of the flesh. Paul did say that it is better to marry, then to burn, so if you aren't married, I don't see anything wrong with it, in moderation. Also, I think that taking a vow of celabacy is what led the "other religion" to do what they did. Marriage might have remedied the problems. The "burning" caught up with them eventually.
I heard a minister jokingly refer to this topic one time with this scripture:
1st John 3:9 ~Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his SEED REMAINETH IN HIM: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
If you have made this type of pleasure the highlight of your day, then you have a problem!!!!

 
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Jim B said:
Do Charismatics touch? :blush:
If people want to discuss masturbation in relation to demonisation and the work of deliverance ministries, I suppose it makes sense to start a 'Charismatic' thread on the subject. But I can't help noting that there are other areas of ChristianForums for discussing these sorts of issues - if we are going to discuss anything in any of the forums, we might as well not bother to have separate categories at all. So unless the thread has a 'charismatic' dimension, why discuss it in the Charismatic forum?
 
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Theophilus7 said:
If people want to discuss masturbation in relation to demonisation and the work of deliverance ministries, I suppose it makes sense to start a 'Charismatic' thread on the subject. But I can't help noting that there are other areas of ChristianForums for discussing these sorts of issues - if we are going to discuss anything in any of the forums, we might as well not bother to have separate categories at all. So unless the thread has a 'charismatic' dimension, why discuss it in the Charismatic forum?
:scratch: I 'spose 'cause the person wanted to. Charasmatic's do tend to give a lot of thought to their thoughts though, so what one might answer elsewhere might be more Charasmatic in thought here :holy:
 
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Quaffer said:
:scratch: I 'spose 'cause the person wanted to. Charasmatic's do tend to give a lot of thought to their thoughts though, so what one might answer elsewhere might be more Charasmatic in thought here :holy:
Yes, if it went to the other forum that discusses these type of questions, it could end up in the "fleshly" realm, lol. I have read their posts, and immediately backed out of it. I think this can be discussed here with maturity, and in a "Spiritually" based manner. I don't know how much of a debate one can get out of this subject, as alot of Pentecostal/Charismatics find it uncomfortable to discuss.
 
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By His Grace said:
Yes, if it went to the other forum that discusses these type of questions, it could end up in the "fleshly" realm, lol. I have read their posts, and immediately backed out of it. I think this can be discussed here with maturity, and in a "Spiritually" based manner. I don't know how much of a debate one can get out of this subject, as alot of Pentecostal/Charismatics find it uncomfortable to discuss.
I was sorta kinda responding tongue in cheek, still thinking of JimB's asking if Charasmatic's touch. :)

Pentecostal/Charasmatic's can be funny duck's sometime's. If not tending to avoid some subject's alltogether, tending to over spiritualize other's. Yes, I guess we can handle it hopefully more maturely than I've seen in other threads. I hope LOL.
 
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[By His Grace]Yes, if it went to the other forum that discusses these type of questions, it could end up in the "fleshly" realm, lol. I have read their posts, and immediately backed out of it. I think this can be discussed here with maturity, and in a "Spiritually" based manner. I don't know how much of a debate one can get out of this subject, as alot of Pentecostal/Charismatics find it uncomfortable to discuss.
Interesting point. I would however beg to differ, we are all adults and I have read some of the debate regarding this topic in other forums and although at times they tend to get a little heated I think their very interesting and straight to the point. I'm not so sure us Charasmatics are so openminded when it comes to debating certain issues. Personally I think we have this tendancy to come across with this super spiritual persective on things that really do not require some deep theological debate but rather an honest straightforward answer.

Why is it uncomfortable to discuss? I guess it comes back to JimB's question.

Do Charasmatics touch? Who knows, but it would be nice to know what they think about it all the same. :)
 
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