I am wanting to find a church again and start going. I haven't been to church since 2014. Before I was a younger adult and fit in with the youth group crowd. Now I am a bit older and in my 30s and don't quite fit in with the young kids anymore. I am also single and never had kids. I realize a lot of people in my age group are parents or married now, and I am worried I may feel left out or like I don't fit in. I have autism and social anxiety so this worries me a lot. I would also be going all by myself. This is going to be a nerve-wrecking experience but I know I really want to do it.
My anxiety keeps telling me if I go, people will avoid me because I am weird, or women will not want to talk to me because they will judge me or think there must be something wrong with me. I also worry about not feeling like I can be part of things, because a lot of church sermons and groups are centered around families and children.
My question is, is there any older singles here who have gone through this before, and do you think I will run into any problems or feel left out?
My anxiety keeps telling me if I go, people will avoid me because I am weird, or women will not want to talk to me because they will judge me or think there must be something wrong with me. I also worry about not feeling like I can be part of things, because a lot of church sermons and groups are centered around families and children.
My question is, is there any older singles here who have gone through this before, and do you think I will run into any problems or feel left out?