girls ignoring guys they like

[redcorvette]

hello, lately I've been noticing many gilrs (shy ones) who are in my classes sort of ignore me. It seems like they don't like me, but when I come to think of it, they always call my name and start conversation.

Does anybody else have that problem? I sometimes have these nagging feelings and hunches (considering the evedence) that girls like me, but the only thing that kills the hunches is the fact that they sort of ignore me.

Any advice? Do any of you girls do this to dudes you like?

 

[red_head_4ever]

Some girls probably ignore the guy they like cause they don't think the guy likes them back and don't think anything will ever come out of the crush so they decide to just leave it alone. I've done that before.

 

[redcorvette]

so does that mean it's over?

if she likes him, but ignores him sort of, would that mean if he asked her out it would be like"sorry, you had your chance"??

 

[ardeur]

I am shy and whenever I like a guy I try to keep it to myself because I am afraid of jumping the gun on those sorta things. When I feel more comfortable hanging around him and possibly letting him pick up on hints that I like him, then I won't ignore him. In fact I sometimes worry that I might pay him too much attention so I can sometimes overcompensate by backing off. I have no idea how guys end up interpreting that behaviour. I'm in a relationship now, so I don't really have to worry about that anymore.

 

[Maeyken]

I think it's possible that some of the girls who do this like you, but it's also possible they don't. I don't know how old you are, but to me this sounds typical of highschool behaviour. Sometimes girls don't want to let a guy know they like him, and so will do everything possible to make sure he doesn't find out. The reasons for this can vary. Sometimes she doesn't think he likes her back, and so doesn't want to be embarrassed by liking someone who doesn't like her back. Other times, she might not like him, but might think he likes her, and so she doesn't want to give him the wrong impression. These girls may or may not be conscious of their actions too. Perhaps they don't know that you think they are ignoring you.

My advice to you would be to stop worrying about whether these girls like you, and focus on just being friends. If one of the girls does happen to like you, it will become more obvious the more you get to know her.

 

[Living4Him03]

Yes. Sometimes I just act as if a guy is no big deal when I actually like him and know that he probably doesn't feel the same way. Maybe these girls don't think you'd ever ask them out so they are using the ignoring as a defense.

 

[a.alaniva]

dude don't worry about it. i know exactly what you mean. i'm getting into a relationship with a girl right now that sometimes seems like she's completely ignoring me, but then she'll be really receptive to what i have to say. it's just the way she is. you can't get hooked up on it. in the time they don't want to talk don't mull it over in your head and think they're ignoring you. you have no idea what they're thinking. maybe they're thinking that they like you and they are having a hard time talking to you. maybe not i don't know, but neither do you. don't worry about it. i'm sure you're an upstanding guy and wouldn't have any problem hooking one of them in . ;P

 

[churchgoer123]

I have the same problem here. Girls ignore me... the ones who like me. There is this girl who NEVER EVER talks to me. She even ignores me. It seems like she hates my guts. But she's in love with me. She stares at me ALL OF THE TIME. that's all she does. stares at me and strokes her hair. then when i say hi to her, she really doesn't say anything. my friends call her a BI... because they think she's being one, but she's really not.

If you have "hunches," or better yet "nagging hunches," they probably are correct.

 

[red_head_4ever]

so does that mean it's over?

if she likes him, but ignores him sort of, would that mean if he asked her out it would be like"sorry, you had your chance"??

Now that I'm not sure I could answer. Every girl is different. I'd keep being normal if I were you and don't make any advances yet. If she keeps ignoring you all the time, it might not be worth it to ask her out. But if you REALLY like her and you think there's a chance, see if she'd be open to going out with you. One thing though, be the guy, lol. I would never ask out a guy, that's his job

 

[churchgoer123]

girls don't approach? ever? why not?

so if she really likes him, and he doesn't know, she won't approach?

or will she... "primp"??? and wear this that / and "walk this way"

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

im kinda having that trouble, like this girl but cant tell if she likes me err...

 

[churchgoer123]

im kinda having that trouble, like this girl but cant tell if she likes me err...

How so?

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