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Have you ever felt like you didn't belong anywhere at all? I don't belong no where I seem to go. I left FB because I just didn't belong and Christians seems to wanna just argue and debate about everything. I feel so discouraged to even use my bible or quote scripture because I seem to get attacked by KJV onlyists all the time. I don't know....everyone I meet seems to be so dominate with their views like those in eschatology like Pre-trib/Post trib and I am post trib btw and Amill. It drives me insane because I don't want to no longer discuss anything with anyone as it always turns out to be a I'm right and your wrong and if you don't agree with me then you believe in false doctrine etc. I don't know what to do anymore....I know we are not suppose to hide our light but I am ready to just crawl under a rock and hope that I don't go to hell. I have become pretty anti-social from being shut down where ever I go and just don't even feel like talking. Half the time my brain is empty and I don't know what to say anymore about anything. Thanks for listening I guess.
 

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you would be surprised how many people know exactly how you feel; myself included. If you look through the Bible, there are many righteous people who seemed to have battled depression and isolation. Know that there are others who know what you are going through and there are other who are like minded, they just might not be very close by. As we grow closer to Father, we tend to become more isolated. This is something that i have found to be true in my own life as well as others. We have a very personal and intimate relationship with out Father and sometimes its difficult for other to relate. It is normal for you to feel this way. It's not easy and its not fun but hopefully you can have some encouragement knowing there are others and that it is possible that its an indication your relationship is right with God. cheers.
 
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Good response iam. That's one thing about the forums, you share, you learn, you grow in your faith. No one can put you down in your faith. The ole song goes, "man didn't give it to me, an man can't take it away"...
Keep on keeping on, we are all doing likewise.
When someone disagrees with others, it is just to help themselves get solid on what they are believing at the time.
And yes we can be a self-centered bunch sometimes. (sounds like family?)
 
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"In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity." St. Augustine

Arguing and bickering about disputable matters is unbiblical and grieves our Lord and Savior. Read these Bible verses to see what I mean:

Titus 3:9-11
Romans 16:17-20
2 Timothy 2:14-26
Hebrews 13:9
Romans 14:1-13
Romans 10:2-3
 
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Have you ever felt like you didn't belong anywhere at all? I don't belong no where I seem to go. I left FB because I just didn't belong and Christians seems to wanna just argue and debate about everything. I feel so discouraged to even use my bible or quote scripture because I seem to get attacked by KJV onlyists all the time. I don't know....everyone I meet seems to be so dominate with their views like those in eschatology like Pre-trib/Post trib and I am post trib btw and Amill. It drives me insane because I don't want to no longer discuss anything with anyone as it always turns out to be a I'm right and your wrong and if you don't agree with me then you believe in false doctrine etc. I don't know what to do anymore....I know we are not suppose to hide our light but I am ready to just crawl under a rock and hope that I don't go to hell. I have become pretty anti-social from being shut down where ever I go and just don't even feel like talking. Half the time my brain is empty and I don't know what to say anymore about anything. Thanks for listening I guess.

Just think of all the conflict as a work out for you discernment so you can grow to greater understanding by testing the spirit behind the teachings. I don't mind the conflicts then, I started seeing what spirits were behind some false teachings. That ability will help you grow to deeper understanding more rapidly.
 
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Have you ever felt like you didn't belong anywhere at all? I don't belong no where I seem to go. I left FB because I just didn't belong and Christians seems to wanna just argue and debate about everything. I feel so discouraged to even use my bible or quote scripture because I seem to get attacked by KJV onlyists all the time. I don't know....everyone I meet seems to be so dominate with their views like those in eschatology like Pre-trib/Post trib and I am post trib btw and Amill. It drives me insane because I don't want to no longer discuss anything with anyone as it always turns out to be a I'm right and your wrong and if you don't agree with me then you believe in false doctrine etc. I don't know what to do anymore....I know we are not suppose to hide our light but I am ready to just crawl under a rock and hope that I don't go to hell. I have become pretty anti-social from being shut down where ever I go and just don't even feel like talking. Half the time my brain is empty and I don't know what to say anymore about anything. Thanks for listening I guess.


Yeah, I know what you mean. I feel the same way often.

You are welcome here. :groupray:
 
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You are very tenderhearted, it seems. That is not a bad thing.I have heard it said that iron sharpens iron, and being around people who debate can help strengthen your own faith ,but you have to be firm in what you believe. Though your heart may be tender, you have to develop a tough skin, especially on forums like this one. You belong, and as you can see, there are those who may share your p.o.v. You will never walk alone, as long as the Holy Spirit is in you. He is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Be blessed.
 
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Have you ever felt like you didn't belong anywhere at all? I don't belong no where I seem to go. I left FB because I just didn't belong and Christians seems to wanna just argue and debate about everything. I feel so discouraged to even use my bible or quote scripture because I seem to get attacked by KJV onlyists all the time. I don't know....everyone I meet seems to be so dominate with their views like those in eschatology like Pre-trib/Post trib and I am post trib btw and Amill. It drives me insane because I don't want to no longer discuss anything with anyone as it always turns out to be a I'm right and your wrong and if you don't agree with me then you believe in false doctrine etc. I don't know what to do anymore....I know we are not suppose to hide our light but I am ready to just crawl under a rock and hope that I don't go to hell. I have become pretty anti-social from being shut down where ever I go and just don't even feel like talking. Half the time my brain is empty and I don't know what to say anymore about anything. Thanks for listening I guess.

First of all you are never alone. As jobbomb6 said you belong with God. God is always present with you. I learned a long time ago not to argue with KJV Onlyers. They are off in Lala Land and actually believe "Authorized Version" mean that God authorized it when actually King James of England authorized it to stop the squabbling between several groups were working on English translations. Tyndale's version was the first English translation. If you are convinced God gave your beliefs it does not matter what others say. On this website and many others the are a lot of "right-fighters" who's faith is in what they believe rather that in Jesus and when you state something other that what they believe they panic and challenge you. Be comfortable and at peace in your beliefs. When they are challenged ask God if what you hear is true. I have some beliefs that God showed me that are different than yours. But none of that threatens your salvation. I would be pleased to chat further with you if you choose to PM me.
 
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