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Sometimes I see women jogging out there, and it isn't just a tank top and decent shorts. I sometimes feel that they wear things that they know could cause huge problems for men to see if they looked at, and I sometimes think they should be careful. ....|
I think there's a difference between accidentally causing men to sin and wearing something in order to make men "look" at you in a dirty way. Sometimes I like to imagine wearing things that help my figure look better. It helps me with self esteem. I don't want to wear things that hide my body. I just don't want to wear it in ORDER to make men have lustful thoughts. If they happen to get the thoughts, that's one thing, but I don't want to purposefully do it.
Sometimes I see women jogging out there, and it isn't just a tank top and decent shorts. I sometimes feel that they wear things that they know could cause huge problems for men to see if they looked at, and I sometimes think they should be careful.
OK this post may anger some it is not my intent
But I think that is why we should always be careful of what we wear..I don't even want to accidently cause men to lust, that is why I always make sure my shirt is high enough and loose enough and my shorts are low enough. I don't want to be the cause of a man having lustful thoughts..As Christians we should be held blameless. Whether we purposely do it or not is not the issue..We should always keep in mind that what we wear could be causing someone to stumble, so we need to take caution in what we decide to put on.
Has anyone heard of resisting temptation. If a women tempts you, does that give you a free pass to fall into said temptation. If a women is out for the soul purpose of flaunting herself than yes I see the point but it would be no different than a man coming in with a tank top showing his muscular arms (which he knows women find attractive).
Fact is, you are responsible for your own sin.
What about those "large chested" ladies like myself who honestly find it difficult to find well fitting shirts? Just because I lean over and show a little more than I shoud, does that mean I'm causing a man to sin? In that case, should I be wearing a turtle neck in the 110 degree weather we are experiencing. In today's society, a women will be attractive to a man no matter what. She could be covered head to toe and some man will lust after that.
I agree that a women should not try to make a man lust after her but a man also need own up to his own sin.
The question is...do you want to be the one that is tempting that man? I do agree that men should not dress in a way to cause women to lust either..And it doesn't matter the size..we can still dress in a way that is pleasing to God..You don't have to wear "turtlenecks" but we should make sure our shirt is high enough and our shorts are low enough. And you are right..some men will lust no matter what we are wearing..but at least we can be held blameless in that situation if we are dressed modestly..Yes it is on the man if he doesn't have the self control to look away and avoid lust..But it is also on the woman if she is dressed in a way that could have put a stumbling block on the man.
Why doesn't everyone look at it this way...Look at Adam and Eve...Eve was the one who initially took the fruit..But when she flashed that fruit in front of Adam, he couldn't resist taking it...Now did God say, "Adam it's all your fault you should have resisted the temptation" Or were they both held responsible because they both sinned.
Now, we are the ones who initially put on revealing clothing..And when we walk in front of men, some of them can't resist lusting..So..do you think the man is the only one held responsible because he should have resisted the temptation..or are both responsible?
Depends on the intent and motivation of the tempter. Only God knows that...So..do you think the man is the only one held responsible because he should have resisted the temptation..or are both responsible?
The problem with that is Adam gave in to her knowing exactly what he was doing. She was deceived, he wasn't. Also, in the very beginning of that vid, he says 'we would welcome them, look at them through the eyes of God (or something to that effect)'. If that's the case, and you are looking at them through God's eyes, the last thing you should be focused on is their body.
Depends on the intent and motivation of the tempter. Only God knows that.
And if we keep reading in that chapter, Adam tries to blame Eve.
12(K)The man said, "The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate." nasb
She wasn't blameless, but like I said Adam KNEW what he was doing, that it was wrong, but did it anyway.
You are right, but don't you think it is...more wrong to sin knowing your sinning than sinning by being deceived?
I think we as Christians have a big issue on our hands as far as our mentality, we think that "we are just humans" and I even hear homosexuals claiming they are Christians and "sin is sin and God made me like that.""Men are designed that way" common excuse. And us women are supposed to just accept that and not be a stumbling block. But you know what? God gave me breasts, so if you men have an issue with it, take it up with God.
How many of you men walk around with shirts off in the summer? Or those tank tops that are so tight we can see you ab outline and how buff you are? Same thing.
One more thing, some of the most covered 'christian' women I have come across have been the most judgmental prideful women you'd ever meet.
(Not advocating dressing like a hoochie in church. But I'm really tired of women being blamed for all of man's issues)
Why is this thread still in this section while it is clearly being debated/ no advice being given or asked for & I know I'd get jumped on by the mods if I entered the debate?
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