no doubt you have been soured to the gifts of tongues by the many abuses we see all over the place whether on TV, or some fancy dressed TBN guy starts unbiblically using what he is calling tongues (who knows if it is or not God knows) either way it is done unbiblically, not adhering to what we see taught by the apostle Paul. I have to tell you if you have ever been in the presence where the gifts of the Holy Spirit are being used correctly and biblically as seen in scripture, you would not be so quick to throw the baby out with the bath water........but as we see today 90% of most denominations using the gifts are not keeping in line with what is taught..............from a couple of your post I kinda get the impression that your under the understanding that the apostles speaking in tongues were preaching the gospel in the language of the people present, look for your self on this issue, the people heard the apostles in their own language declare the wonderful works of God,(see Acts 2:11 this language is always glorifying God, whether known or unknown. nobody present heard the gospel in their language and was saved......we know this by those present who responded "whatever could this mean" (Acts 2:12) the response of Peter is fulfilment of the prophet Joel 28 And afterward,
I will pour out my Spirit on all people.
Your sons and daughters will prophesy,
your old men will dream dreams,
your young men will see visions.
29 Even on my servants, both men and women,
I will pour out my Spirit in those days.
30 I will show wonders in the heavens
and on the earth,
blood and fire and billows of smoke.
31 The sun will be turned to darkness
and the moon to blood
before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the LORD.
32 And everyone who calls
on the name of the LORD will be saved;
for on Mount Zion and in Jerusalem
there will be deliverance,
as the LORD has said,
even among the survivors
whom the LORD calls...............................................Now then.......you need to only ask yourself one question are we in the Last days even more so today then when Peter said this is the fulfilment of prophesy