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Can a Catholic attend a same-sex wedding?

Michie

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Being invited to the wedding of a family member or friend is often a cause for joy, but for many Catholics, being invited to a same-sex wedding can precipitate a deep internal conflict. How can one reconcile loyalty to family or a friendship with the teachings of the Church? Is it possible to show love and respect without compromising one’s faith?

This dilemma, increasingly common in our society, puts one’s conscience to the test and raises complex questions about the practical application of Catholic doctrine in delicate personal situations.

The Catholic Church is clear on its position on marriage and homosexuality, but applying these teachings to personal situations can be challenging. On the one hand, the Church affirms that marriage is an exclusive union between one man and one woman.

On the other hand, it calls on followers of Christ to treat homosexuals with respect and compassion, raising difficult questions for those faced with the invitation to a same-sex marriage ceremony.

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I'm not sure that you can attend that kind of wedding without giving the impression that you approve of it.
We can’t attend the ceremony. I know it’s a painful situation for all concerned but according to the op, we cannot attend.
 
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We can’t attend the ceremony. I know it’s a painful situation for all concerned but according to the op, we cannot attend.
I would feel the same way about attending a wedding whose validity I question.
 
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I would feel the same way about attending a wedding whose validity I question.
I’ve also been in the same situation, but thankfully haven’t attended any wedding in nearly 7 years, and probably won’t attend another one for many years to come.
 
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Even though it would make me sad if I was their friend, there is no way I could attend it as I would feel I was condoning it and I certainly wouldn't be. It is an abomination in our Lord's eyes.
 
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