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Am I a hypocrite?

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This feels very "I need to take out the plank from my own eye before I can remove the sawdust in someone else's eye".

I know someone who calls himself a Christian but he watches po*n because he says it's just entertainment and that he doesn't watch it for lustful reasons.
I don't understand how a Christian can think it's ok and not a big deal to watch that stuff. I have watched it in the past and there's been times when I fell into temptation and watched it again but I felt guilt and shame afterwards and it's been a long time since the last time.

Now, this is where I might be a hypocrite: I watch TV shows with supernatural content (demons, witchcraft etc). My favourites are Buffy, The Vampire Diaries and Charmed (I'm specifically mentioning the supernatural ones).
It feels like watching those is more just entertainment but watching po*n is sinful.

I rarely watch those shows but sometimes I do.
What are your takes on this?
 
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I suppose we all have something and can’t condemn others. There is a huge porn problem in the church. People are addicted and can’t get free. There’s no excuse and I don’t know what Jesus will do. If you have a problem don’t hang out with that guy at his house. Many of them feel alone and rejected, they need a solid friend that doesn’t look at it. But I’d you are tempted…. You can’t judge but you don’t have to approve of it. It is the same you stop your sin if you can even attempt to help another with there’s. Do they have sex scenes on the super natural shows? All TV is a transfusion from the devil.

Lust is a weak point in people nowadays. It’s everywhere. But you can’t judge live a holy life. Just don’t go there. Prayer works against addictions. I hear they have rehab now for porn addictions. But I agree it’s not good. The world the flesh and the devil draw you in. But resist and the devil will flee. Don’t sit in the seat of the scornful. Don’t have bad companions for the will corrupt bad manners. But those who are spiritual restore such a one, being mindful of yourself. But never open the door to that flesh. The devil has blinded your buddy. Stay free of that sin, or drugs, or alcohol or pot. These will weaken yo to debauchery. Which we are seeing more of. Beep!
 
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This feels very "I need to take out the plank from my own eye before I can remove the sawdust in someone else's eye".

I know someone who calls himself a Christian but he watches po*n because he says it's just entertainment and that he doesn't watch it for lustful reasons.
I don't understand how a Christian can think it's ok and not a big deal to watch that stuff. I have watched it in the past and there's been times when I fell into temptation and watched it again but I felt guilt and shame afterwards and it's been a long time since the last time.

Now, this is where I might be a hypocrite: I watch TV shows with supernatural content (demons, witchcraft etc). My favourites are Buffy, The Vampire Diaries and Charmed (I'm specifically mentioning the supernatural ones).
It feels like watching those is more just entertainment but watching po*n is sinful.

I rarely watch those shows but sometimes I do.
What are your takes on this?
Others have commented on the other Christian's challenge ... To go back to your question - yes, it's good to remove any timber bits out of your own eye first. IMHO as a believer you have to stay away from any TV/movie content where the supernatural/witchcraft/spirits play an major role or are even 'celebrated'. The Bible is clear you have to stay away from that - it contaminates and troubles your spiritual life.

Maybe the only exception are stories where clearly evil is overcome by good (e.g. The Rite or The Lord of the Rings). Why are some people drawn towards Horror / Thrillers with a supernatural bent? It may signal an underlying need for the spiritual or addiction to adrenaline to silence other emotions. Exorcism is real, it's not a joke or entertainment.

When occasionally I stumble into content that makes me think twice I can quickly tell if the vibe promotes evil or good.
 
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We are supposed to judge ourselves whether any evil thing dwells in us. Because we know but sometimes we like our sin. But don’t stop growing because you want to watch a program. Sometimes we tend to dwell in our flesh and satisfy it and include spiritual things like the Lord. It’s not for nothing He says don’t be ruled by the flesh. Deny yourself for the sake of your witness and watch a better program or get a hobby or read, or go to small group. Be encouraged by these suggestions not taken away from.
 
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I think watching movies and games, unless there is too much ugly stuff, or corn, is not bad, is a case, of having a strong or weak conscience, is not a sin i believe if you are firm in your beliefs. I enjoy a lot of music that is not christian, good music can inspire me to think things of Jesus or about life too.

Corn is very ugly stuff though, i was free 4 years ago totally of that, and i lived with fear. I don't want to go back to that.
 
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