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marriage; advice

  1. PollyJetix

    Divorce and Remarriage

    I'm glad you asked. If you look carefully at I Corinthians 7, you will see Paul first introduces the overall subject of how necessary marriage is, and how it is supposed to work, in verses 1-6. But then he says each person has his own gift from God, as pertains to marriage. And then, he...
  2. S

    Dating a non-virgin

    Dear All, I am currently dating a girl and i found out that she is not a virgin. As for me through the Grace of God i am. I understand and truly believe that it was not my will, but rather God's Will and Grace that intervened in many of these situations where i could too have slept with a girl...
  3. Fere222

    Marriage Issues

    I think marriage is difficult for most couples. Every relationship has high and low points. I love my husband, I believe in God and attend church without him. He isn't really a believer in Christ. When I read the Bible, I have even seen him roll his eyes. Sometimes I have hope that his heart...
  4. J

    UPDATE: http://www.christianforums.com/threads/wife-surprised-me-with-separation.7978532

    My wife still comes in to pick up the kids for school and drop them off after they get out. She still sticks around to help our youngest with homework, cooks and washes clothes from time to time. We laugh and talk. She's still adamant about divorce. I discovered that the lady that she's...
  5. L

    Hi, Where can I get advice on my marriage?

    Hi, I joined this forum with the hope of getting advice ... my husband and I have been married a little over a year and it feels like everything is falling apart. I'm the only Christian in my family (I'm an adult convert) and I feel as though I lost my church community when I got married. We...
  6. J

    My marriage and wife are in a tailspin. HELP!

    The problem is that I can’t reason with my wife and she’s a very bitter and tormented person. Our marriage counselor told me that he believes that she has never matured past her teenage years. When something is brought up that she doesn’t like she immediately shuts down or becomes defensive. She...
  7. M

    Desperate for Advise, Prayers, and Insight

    I am new here, I just stumbled across this sight and its really what I need. I'm to embarrassed to talk to my friends and most of them are not Christians and will immediately fight with me about why I didn't leave my husband a long time ago. But I need to let this out, I need some one to give...
  8. B

    Saving my marriage, understanding my wife's emotions, and impulses?

    Within the past week I confessed to me my wife that I committed adultery. I did some pretty dishonorable things to make the affair a reality however it only lasted 2 weeks. None the less I still committed the acts of betrayal. We have 2 children and have been married 4 and ahalf years. She has...
  9. Kaylyn23

    My husband has feelings for another woman

    I need advice. I need advice from older, wiser women or men than myself. My husband and I will be married a year on 5/23/2016. I am 23 and he is 25. We are young. We had been together for 5 years before marrying and loved every minute of it. He just recently got a new job as a supervisor of...
  10. Hotinco

    BEWARE OF QUICKSAND

    BEWARE OF QUICKSAND: HOW ONE STRANGER’S COMMENT CHANGED MY MARRIAGE FOREVER I called my husband to ask him a quick question. I knew that he was busy at work, but I hoped my short conversation wouldn’t be too much of an inconvenience. I was wrong. He was right in the middle of an important...
  11. Hotinco

    Relationship building survey series

    If anyone is interested my wife and I have been part of this series for the past year. Through questions they share suggestions to build your relationship, statics, and gather information to help other couples. Many of the statistics are very interesting, we found ti helpful to know on many...
  12. G

    Advice needed I am confused

    Hello I need some help. My wife and I are both Christians. We have been married for nearly 6 years now. The problems started before we were married. However it is maybe easier to explain from once we got married. My wife is from the USA and we live in another continent. When we first got...