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  1. Ffion Eleri

    Struggling with my relationship - when is enough enough?

    Hi all, I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for one year and three months. We both attend university, so half of the time we have a long-distance relationship, which we have made work. He is a Christian and a significant factor in my coming to faith, including my baptism a...
  2. elizabethtebazile

    may i get advice please? if not, that's fine God bless you

    ok so i'm 16 right and my family isn't very religious (but very spiritual) expect for my grandmothers (God rest their souls), grandfather and granduncle who are (/were) very devout catholics. so clearly not a very religious upbringing except for when i had sometimes gone to church with my...
  3. Sabri

    Being Pursued

    I have been married for several years. I love my family. However, I am being pursued by a former colleague( former friend). I say former friend because as I know it he’s married and knows I’m married. I don’t consider him a friend anymore because he refuses to accept me as a sister. We became...
  4. J

    Question About a Calling Dream

    About 10 years ago, when I was active in prophetic ministry, I was given a dream on a Saturday night that made me wake up in a cold sweat. Here's the dream: I am standing, facing the interior of what appears to be an empty city. I see papers/newspapers carried by the wind (similar to...
  5. Karabear10

    Bad thoughts, Christian help needed!

    Hello, I have never looked for fellowship on the internet and I'm sort of nervous about it but I would really love to talk to someone who knows Christ and might understand what is going on with me. I make this post because I am struggling deeply with bad intrusive thoughts. For the last few...
  6. N

    Daughter Following the Wrong Path

    Hi! I’m a mother of 3 and I have a 16 (turning 17 in a few weeks time) year old daughter. I’ve always taught my kids and brought them up with strong Christian values: teaching them between wrong and right and important lessons from the Bible. My husband, two kids, I go to church every day but my...
  7. Ffion Eleri

    Help and Advice Requested

    Hello everyone, My name is Eleri, and I am currently seeking support and advice regarding Christian issues. This wonderful community seems so open and welcoming, and any help would be greatly appreciated. A little about me: I am 18, female, and due to start my Bachelor's degree at the...
  8. D

    Christian Aid

    Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum, so excuse me if this has been tackled before (I'm guessing this charity has come up in the past). I was looking for a Christian charity to donate to every month, and I came across Christian Aid, who appear to do a lot of work to help poor people around the...
  9. EtainSkirata

    Is it a sin to write romance?

    This is about writing romance into stories, not reading romance novels. I'm currently working on a science fiction story, where the two main characters are married. There's no smut or anything, their romance isn't what drives the story (but the fact that they want to escape a situation they're...
  10. L

    Need advise and prayer

    Hi all, I would like to have advise and prayer about my marriage. And thank you for reading this. I have been married for 7 years now and my husband is 12 years older than me. And the age gap thing is the thing I need prayer for. I constantly feel down about the age difference. At first when I...
  11. A

    Seeking Guidance Please - Dealing with Resentment

    Hi everyone , I am married to a non believer, who has a daughter but doesn’t live with us. Met her when she was 4. Her mother passed away, when she was 8 and now she’s 10 years old. She lives with her grandmother. She’s hours away and we make an effort to go see her multiple times a year...
  12. C

    Tough situation

    So I know this girl who I have hit it off with and she just got out of a long relationship. She is pursuing me but she has not been out of the relationship long. I want to pursue her but I also want to allow time for healing. I want to pursue in a Christ like way and that includes not jumping...
  13. Z

    Unfruitfulness & Unsaved Family & Friends

    I am a 22/M and I've been christian for about a year and 1 month now after growing up agnostic. Christ completely changed my life and how I view the world today and He also gave me a life-mission. I knew from the start my mission was to make music for Him and to spread His Word through music...
  14. GirlofGod243

    Atheist Friends, Please Help.

    Hey. My name is Micha and I have dilemma. So basically, I have three really good friends, I will use aliases for their names because I don't want to expose them. I have three friends at school that I met about a school year ago. They're really nice and fun to be around and we hang out and...
  15. Rebemk80

    How do I get my stubborn unbeliever mom to read the word?

    My mom was raised Catholic just as I was and she stopped being catholic long before me but she still acknowledges what they believe in such as purgatory, confessional instead of repentance, praying to mary etc. She just doesn't go to church anymore or read the bible. Right now after telling her...
  16. Rebemk80

    Ex-Catholic looking for help becoming protestant

    Hi, I left the Catholic church about a year ago. I left because of bad experiences, mean and ignorant priests, no solutions to my questions or problems, and a never ending feeling of evil around me. I have a lot of backstory as to why I left but I'm not going to explain everything here right...
  17. Kilk1

    Scriptural qualities a potential wife should have

    Hello! I was wondering what qualities, as a Christian young man, I should look for in a wife. If you have advice, it would be appreciated, but I'll require that you support the qualities you suggest with book, chapter, and verse. Thanks!
  18. The Wabash Cannonball

    Conflicts with mother over career

    As the title says, I've been in a lot of conflict with my mom and a few of her friends about my career choice. I'm a senior in high school and I've recently decided that I want to become an electrician. Previously I wanted to become a geologist, but I decided that it was too risky as the...
  19. M

    Are These Signs?

    Hello, Disclaimer: This is going to be pretty long so I’ll summarize what I’ll be asking. For an internship I’ve been placed in a completely different and far away state than my home, and I’ve been separated from my family, friends, and boyfriend: my family and boyfriend creating a lot of new...
  20. H

    I Cant Be Financially Attached To You Anymore

    Since being married we have had some financial issues mainly my mishandling funds. The last straw came when I lost our rent money gambling. Yes I gambled. I never did this before. Fact is my wife packed and moved out she has been living with her mom for 34 days. The day before our aniversery...