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  1. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    Yeah but then i CONSCIOUSLY thought “i bet my life on this”. The idea was that it wouldnt happen and id prove to myself it was just ocd but then it happened and now idk if i actually made a real bet…
  2. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    Honestly that makes sense…i just felt like it was a weird thing since the thing happened…it like validated it…
  3. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    I honestly dont know. Im relatively new to Christ so I have a lot of pitfalls in my knowledge. I know he takes oaths very seriously and since i thought it willingly i figured he may have taken that as a actual oath.
  4. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    I have no idea…i just thought the thought. It wasnt to anyone by name.
  5. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    So…im confused…im sorry for being so obtuse, im just scared. But did i actually bet my life? I know to typically ignore thoughts, but this time idk why i did this…i just did
  6. Harley.

    Please help me...betting my life

    Oh…OH… Well what do you suggest, idek how oaths are handled in Christianity and if ones in the mind are even counted.
  7. Harley.

    Please help me...betting my life

    Yeah well i did…i already thought the “i bet my life”
  8. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    Wdym…? The part im listening to wasnt ocd, it was me when i thought “i bet my life on this” just to prove to my ocd when IT DIDNT happen that it was false and then it did happen.
  9. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    Ive had OCD since I was a kid, im through alot of it now. But sometimes an event rears its ugly head. And then I spiral. I was listening to music. And I had the intrusive thought "If my fiancee comes online before the next song starts, ill break up with her". Utter stupidity right? Well I...
  10. Harley.

    Please help me...betting my life

    Ive had OCD since I was a kid, im through alot of it now. But sometimes an event rears its ugly head. And then I spiral. I was listening to music. And I had the intrusive thought "If my fiancee comes online before the next song starts, ill break up with her". Utter stupidity right? Well I...
  11. Harley.

    Idk where to put this. But i need an accountability partner bad.

    Im currently a college student, living with my parents.
  12. Harley.

    Idk where to put this. But i need an accountability partner bad.

    I cant afford it. And im more then willing to fight like hell. I just need someone there to help.
  13. Harley.

    Idk where to put this. But i need an accountability partner bad.

    Im M19. I got addicted to p*** when i was 7. And…spiraled from there. Ive been trying to stop for years and Ive honestly just been getting worse. I hate it, i hate myself, i hatebthat i give in so easily. I need someone, preferably someone struggling with the same issue, so i too can be...
  14. Harley.

    Can satan cause someone to love another?

    She is a believer, but certainly not the most steadfast one. I personally wanna help her with her faith because while she does believe in God, she doesnt like to talk about it much. I guess my biggest concern is that satan heard my prayer to him, and made her love me (if he can do that) and...
  15. Harley.

    Can satan cause someone to love another?

    We've been together for 2 years, and shes the most selfless, kindhearted person ive ever known. I didnt choose to make this prayer, it was made due to mental illness and its bothered me to this day. Im much better mentally now, having gotten the help I needed to get ontop of most of my issues...
  16. Harley.

    Can satan cause someone to love another?

    Ok so back story on why im asking. I have ocd, which targets things I care about/am scared about. two years ago…i had a thought, i had to pray to satan to make it so my crush confessed her love to me within five days. Now, im a Christian so its natural my ocd would go there. And i don’t...
  17. Harley.

    Can satan cause someone to love another?

    yeah im just wondering if he can trigger affection in someone. Cause it says he parades as a angel of light, which makes me wonder.
  18. Harley.

    Can satan cause someone to love another?

    Does satan have the ability to make someone love another?
  19. Harley.

    I (18M) just got into a huge fight with my mother because i refused to do what they asked, because it would be sin.

    I ended up disobeying my mother and just telling the person the truth and it went perfectly smoothly. So im glad I listened to God XD. There was absolutely no reason to lie (not that there ever is)