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    What is the main reason you are single?

    I won't do long distance from another state or another country. I don't have the resources to make it work.
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    "Singleness is a gift" is actually a lie?

    Great take on the subject.
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    What is the main reason you are single?

    I'm still single mainly because I don't ask out enough women since there are very very few single women within a suitable age in the town where I live and in the town where I work that I get interested/attracted to. My other social circles don't have a lot of options either. With my job schedule...
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    "Singleness is a gift" is actually a lie?

    1. singleness is not a gift; it is a status. Celibacy is a gift. 2. I hate it when married people stress the "gift" of marriage or as they have told me "Never get married" 3. sometimes singleness can be a good thing or an affliction (i know this has already been said) depending on the individual...
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    Speed dating

    haha, I will be in a city 75 miles from where i live to do it.
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    Speed dating

    Will do. And it will be in person.
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    Speed dating

    Thanks. I might go in with low or no expectations of actually getting a date or having a chance of getting a date, and just anticipate learning how to talk to women and have a meaningful/interesting conversation.
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    Speed dating

    thanks for sharing opinions and experience
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    Speed dating

    What is ya'll's opinions on speed dating? for those who have done it, what has been your experience?
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    My head is going to explode from all of the dating stories of straight into dating (no friends first) and being friends first then asking out re, and which one is the best approach. Debra Filleta reccomends starting as friends first. I've definitely became close or casual friends with a woman...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Totally disagree about Debra Fileta and Mark Ballenger. They quote Scripture and their advice is Biblical. There are some other relationship gurus who are secular who I do not pay attention to as much. I can be content "in" singleness but I will not be content "with"... if everyone was content...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    The most recent person i asked out, I was interested and was not just asking for the sake of asking out since I had not asked out anyone for three years. It's kinda tough with my work and personal schedule to meet a lot of people and my social circles are not big so perhaps a counselor or dating...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    If by online single sites, you mean dating sites then yes I have. And it's been fruitless as all but one I've used I've attracted dishonest people, scam artists and gold diggers who likely viewed me as a human checking account or ATM. I would rather be ignored or ghosted than scammed. I MIGHT...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    What is a gift from God? Yes, we should take everything to God but that doesn't mean we can't seek help from other people including people such as counselors or therapists. That maybe their God-given calling or purpose
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    I am a 46-year old male (never married, never had a relationship) and both tired of being single all the time and lacking dating/relationship experience (I've only been on two dates my whole life). After my latest strikeout in which I approached someone and gained confidence that I can actually...
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    unspoken request

    It’s too personal and discouraging for me to go into details so I’ll just say it’s an unspoken request.
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    She has shown little or no signs of interest... still going to take a shot

    Can a mod please close/lock this thread? It’s run its course.
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    She has shown little or no signs of interest... still going to take a shot

    As this is a Christian Forum, can I please have a little grace and compassion instead of a condescending attitude. You should feel blessed that you obviously understand it and I am not so blessed in understanding so please a little more compassion.
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    She has shown little or no signs of interest... still going to take a shot

    I don't understand either married women or men not wearing a wedding ring. as that would seem to invite trouble as in that case potential suitors would approach the ringless married person, not knowing the person was married. so if I may ask, why don't ya'll wear wedding rings: just a personal...
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    She has shown little or no signs of interest... still going to take a shot

    Everything below and including the paragraph "But the spiritual side is ignored..." I really have little clue to what you are addressing, Maybe put in simpler terms. What does abortion have to do with anything???? the words incubus, succubus and contentography: never every heard those words...
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