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    Looking For Insight

    He wrote back. He agreed that it would be fine to postpone the wedding, if need be. I know he's probably stressed out about it, now, but it had to be done. I'm really amazed at your commitment. I can't imagine how hard that must be. I guess I could try more email, in the meantime. Or rather...
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    Looking For Insight

    Thanks for the advice, everyone. I'm not going to break up with him before we've had a chance to work things out in person, but I did send an email explaining that I didn't think getting married right after he got back was a good idea. I don't think I want out of the relationship, per se. If...
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    Looking For Insight

    He already said he doesn't want to do letters. Besides which, the thought of putting that kind of thing down in something he's not going to get for three weeks is going to have me very nervous for three weeks. An email might be a bit better than a call, though. It would still be some time, but...
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    Looking For Insight

    I realize all that. Like I said, it's my problem. I'm not blaming him at all. Was I stupid for agreeing to marry him before he went through a deployment? Extremely. But I can't change the past, and I can't magically make myself able to go through life without needing communication. But our...
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    Looking For Insight

    Nobody I know in real life has ever been in this situation, and I was hoping maybe there was somebody that had been here. I apologize if some of it is just venting. Now, don't get me wrong: my fiance is the man of my dreams. I can't imagine anyone being so perfect for me, and I'm deeply in love...
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    Looking For Insight

    Nobody I know in real life has ever been in this situation, and I was hoping maybe there was somebody that had been here. I apologize if some of it is just venting. Now, don't get me wrong: my fiance is the man of my dreams. I can't imagine anyone being so perfect for me, and I'm deeply in love...