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    Older man with Asperger

    Its very good you brought it up because that is something I been wondering about myself too. Like I mentioned in OP, I had some positive encounters, albeit very few, in a distant past, but not any more. So I have been wondering whether it my age or whether the world has changed, or both. Now you...
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    Older man with Asperger

    I guess the thing is that due to living all those years in isolation, I don't really have life experience consistent with people my age. My experiences are consistent with someone much younger. So thats why I wish I could pretend all those years I threw away never happened, I am younger, and...
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    Older man with Asperger

    I don't know because I am socially isolated, so my only source of information is anecdotal personal experiences, extrapolations, guesses/theorizing, and reading websites. But, as someone probably better connected than me, can you tell me what they are looking for? And, in particular, can you...
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    Older man with Asperger

    Which of the listed qualities are you referring to? Because certain ones I can let go, but other ones I can't. As mentioned, I had relationships before, but that doesn't change the fact that I wasted my life. I want to feel what normal relationship is like, for once. Not have one more...
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    Older man with Asperger

    And I didn't say I wanted a future with someone who can't accept me. As a matter of fact, the whole point of why I want to be with someone (apart from continuing genetic line which is also paramount) is to be accepted. So if someone can't accept me, that would ruin the point. As a matter of...
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    Older man with Asperger

    And also: why does this forum have "Singles" section? I thought you said not to seek out a partner?
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    Older man with Asperger

    What about you? Did you marry? If yes, did you seek out a partner before you got married?
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    Older man with Asperger

    If so, then all the Christians today that are married disobeyed Jesus. How did they marry if they didn't seek the partner?
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    Older man with Asperger

    So would you say to 20 year old, who is single, not to seek a partner? But then, by your logic, everyone would remain single. Nobody is born with a partner. So everyone was single at some point. If they were to all embrace their "gift of singleness" back at the time when they were single, none...
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    Older man with Asperger

    How do you know I am one of the people that were not suited for marriage? Its not like I been married and failed. Rather its that I never went through the door. Well, as I typed "being married and failing", I sort of see one answer to my own question. Jesus said divorce is adultery (which, by...
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    Older man with Asperger

    If it is as simple as the above quote shows, why is it you won't say it to a 20 year old with good social skills: you only say it to 45 year old who is socially awkward?
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    Older man with Asperger

    You won't say it to someone who is 20 and single. You say it to me because I am 45 and single.
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    Older man with Asperger

    The belief in "gift of singleness" is self-fulfilling prophecy. Christians believe in gift of singleness so they aren't trying to help me find anyone and as a result I remain single so they think it was a gift but its not its social construct. In some of the other message boards many years ago...
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    Older man with Asperger

    Thats not what Jesus taught. 48 But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my mother? and who are my brethren? 49 And he stretched forth his hand toward his disciples, and said, Behold my mother and my brethren! 50 For whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven...
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    Older man with Asperger

    My parents are not Christians. My father already died, so he is burning in hell its just a reality. My mother is still alive, I guess there is still a chance to save her, but I don't have enough guts.
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    Older man with Asperger

    Something else occurred to me. If the case is older woman rather than older man, then she won't even be able to complain. Fair or not, she is no longer fertile, case closed. So, from this perspective, one could argue that an older man who still wants to reproduce is trying to use "male...
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    Antisemitism as a mechanism for Sunday laws

    I am not Adventist, but I believe in Saturday Sabbath and dietary laws: I am Messianic. So yes, Saturday is the Sabbath, but that doesn't necesserely mean Sunday is the mark of the beast. But anyway, even though I am not Adventist, let me help you out a little, just as a theoretic possibility...
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    More symmetric running competition

    Not sure what are you alluding to. I don't see mathematics in the Bible. I heard of Bible codes, but I don't know much about it. And I am not sure thats what you are referring to either. Can you elaborate?
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    More symmetric running competition

    Its not hate. My motivations are the following: 1) It is unusual as nobody does it as of yet. Things that are unusual are fascinating. For example, in mathematics, I like nonstandard analysis better than regular analysis because nonstandard analysis is unusual. 2) Its logical, and it obeys...
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    Donald Trump disallows displaying Confederate flags

    And he did based on that quote:
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