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    Go forth and multiply

    About 5 years ago after some tests we found there was no sperm whatsoever in my [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. We have since had a child by sperm donor who we love with all our hearts and are currently trying to have another by the same donor. Although he's 100% my child I feel like this does not satisfy the...
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    Blessed are the meek (treasure in heaven)

    I'm a naturally easy going person who generally avoids conflict at any cost. I concede and go without what I want nine times out of ten - closer to ten out of ten if I'm honest. My reasons for doing so are mostly out of insecurity. I'm sensitive to criticism and when people challenge or disagree...
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    My wife's past

    Hi all, I love my wife with all my heart and am determined to make it work but it's been 4 years and I still struggle with the fact that I was a virgin when we got married but she had sex hundreds of times with about 8 people before me. I'm especially jealous of the first one. She was 16, more...
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    I listen too much

    I want this somewhere it can be seen by everyone, not just Christians or married people because it's about communication and applies to any relationship. Since the most significant relationship is with my wife here it is. I listen too much. Listening is a skill that I'm incredibly good at but I...
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    Getting over my wife's past

    My wife was honest about her sexual history and I married her thinking I'd get over it but have found it so much harder than I expected. I'm at least number 8 for her I think more like 12 and absolutely hate knowing that she's given herself completely to other men some of whom she loved with the...
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    Hi all

    Hi everyone, From what I've seen this looks like a place where people who love God ask hard questions and the community doesn't mince words in answering. That's exactly what I'm looking for. Not sure where's the right place to ask my first question which is about dealing with my wife's past. See...