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Not from Korea.
I'm relying on memory here (which is dangerous, because my memory sometimes fails) but I think you're a Taipei dweller... (?)
If so, you could be seeing me soon. I have some friends to catch up with.
That's why I don't share enough personal info here to identify me. I also never use my social media in the same browser that I do my forum stuff or other general browsing in, so the cookies and cache are contained.If privacy is a concern forums are worse in the long run. People reveal significantly more about themselves in this setting. And the volume of data is massive because the posts are longer. They're more likely to be vulnerable and share painful or embarrassing experiences. Things they would never admit on social media. You can learn more about them as result. Their opinions, hopes and fears, challenges, growth and so on. Few people use them intentionally.
That's where the 'I won't say anything I can't admit on a stage comes from.' I never discuss my problems or ask for insight. You won't find a thread here or anywhere else. I've never done it. While I share my opinions and answer questions there's a theme. There's topics I don't touch and levels of expression too.
I've been a fly on the wall for years. Most people on the Internet are living double lives or have secrets they don't want to get out. But I tell it before others can. My loved ones know everything. The sites I've frequented, the people I've met, including men, and my experiences good and bad.
Because there's no such thing anonymity. I knew that with dial up. They could trace the connection. I reasoned you tell it now or it comes out later and decided to be honest. I didn't want anything over my head. I know what it is and treat it accordingly.
~bella
That's why I don't share enough personal info here to identify me. I also never use my social media in the same browser that I do my forum stuff or other general browsing in, so the cookies and cache are contained.