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Recent content by yuppers

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    So unhappy

    I do understand that we don’t take anything with us when we go. I genuinely wish I could focus more on doing Gods work and finding fulfillment in that. I work in the trades. It’s a lot of physical work. Bending, crawling, lifting. Sure to some degree I get paid “ok”, but technically boss bait...
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    So unhappy

    I’ve always tried to keep things positive around him. Even when he’s said some very unnecessary things I still talked to him like it wasn’t said. That’s why I got massively burned out because I was just bottling it up or trying to vent to people who can’t do anything about it. Part of the...
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    So unhappy

    Thank you for sharing your experience. To some degree there is a “neutral zone” between my coworker and I. I basically don’t talk with them about anything personal and keep things strictly work related. It has “helped” as it doesn’t give them any “ammunition” to hold against me. Part of my...
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    So unhappy

    This is pretty much me just complaining about things that aren’t going to change.. but I’m struggling so much with overwhelming unhappiness in my life. It’s not even like there’s many “bad things” happening in my life that I can complain about. Just part of me was always hoping that life would...
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    Work frustrations

    Just me complaining about my work problems.. I was working at a company for 11 years. It was a decent job and generally speaking I enjoyed it. But in the last few years things started changing. A coworker who got promoted to supervisor started acting weird towards me. Kind of power tripping...
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    Work

    Hello could I please get someone to pray about my work. I’ve been struggling with bad mental health this past year and have taken unexcused time off work. My boss is getting mad and I genuinely could loose my job tomorrow. I only finally support myself and my finances are already messed up from...
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    Bad work quality

    Thank you for the advice and reassurance. I was only at the company for about 5 months so I was just trying to get some information on how my new coworkers were doing things. I was just asking a simple question if they preheat 3/8” aluminum because the old machines I’m using struggle to weld...
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    Bad work quality

    Hello, just looking for some opinions on a work issue that has happened. I work in the welding trade and had to weld some material that was a little out of my experience. I was asking a coworker about some tips for a second opinion. All of a sudden my “supervisor” type coworker starts insulting...
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    Digital information

    Curious to get some other thoughts on this topic. The Bible says we were separated by different languages to make sure we are not able to communicate clearly to avoid “loosing focus”. Modern technology and advancement in technology has made it a lot easier to communicate clearly.. A LOT of...
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    Suffering

    I used to tithe, volunteer, be moderately happy. All gone now. i don’t spend my resources to the fullest efficiency possible anymore. Maybe that’s why my mental health has been on a steady decline. Testing patience. Sad thing is my life still has room to decline even more
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    Suffering

    Thank you so much for the response and perspective. Another question if I may.. with the troubles in the world and my personal situation making it difficult, what are your thoughts on finding a partner in a situation like this? I’ve been single my whole life and I desire to have a partner...
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    Suffering

    Thank you for the response.. I’m currently watching a show about corporations and the profits they make and how they manipulate the market and people. The bible predicts all this already and it should be no surprise to God the things that are happening and what we have to deal with.. I get it...
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    Suffering

    Does God enjoy watching people suffer? The bible says he doesn’t give more than a person can handle.. so if you are blessed to be born with mental health and depression issues and your daily life is a struggle what is that supposed to mean in the long run? Does God only give half effort to help...
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    Sadness

    where do you go to get away from your depression? I’m 30 years old, only male with 3 sisters. In my opinion the world has been declining so much lately. I’ve lost my desire to get married and have kids. My sisters are all married with kids and some on the way. I can’t see a reason why you would...
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    Depressed

    I’m 29M. I have on average another 56 years to live. I’ve struggled with depression for about a decade already. How am I supposed to be thankful for waking up every morning?