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Recent content by Bob Crowley

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    Pastor Sparks Backlash for Saying Interracial Marriages, Including His Own, Are Not ‘Ideal’

    I think one of the problems we have as Christians is that we think everybody else thinks in a Christian way. Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. Right now in Australia there are racial tensions, exacerbated by the recent massacre at Bondi Beach, with the shooters originally of Indian...
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    What's the weather like where you are? (10)

    Addendum - It got up to 38.2C (100.8F) but is now going down. It's 4.30pm and is now 36.4C (97.5). We often get into the 90s (F) in summer but days over 100F are not common.
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    Pastor Sparks Backlash for Saying Interracial Marriages, Including His Own, Are Not ‘Ideal’

    I think his comments are valid. He wasn't saying mixed race marriages shouldn't happen, and he happily admitted his own wife is of latino origin. All he was saying was that mixed race marriages can come with some additional hurdles to work through. I posted this question on the net - "Do...
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    I need advice from a priest.

    I don't know of any reason why you would not be able to marry the lady in question. Your first wife committed adultery which is sufficient grounds for an annulment anyway as far as I know. You validly married your second wife in the Catholic Church, but she has since died. As the vow states...
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    Why can't I connect to my account?

    For some unknown reason I had to log in this morning which I usually don't have to do. But there was also an issue with another site, so I think it may have been a local telecommunications issue ie. Telstra (Australia), as they did send a message to say they were working on the local network...
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    What's the weather like where you are? (10)

    There's a heatwave across a large part of Australia at the moment. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-01-26/brisbane-set-for-hottest-australia-day-so-far-this-century/106267764 I live near Brisbane so we've got the air conditioning on today - currently 34.7C (94.5F) and it will go a bit higher...
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    He wasn't born into a Christian family like I was, and for me, that does not compute

    This survey is more formal. It's the National Church Life Survey in Australia. https://www.ncls.org.au/articles/people-of-influence-in-childrens-faith-formation/ It doesn't give the chances of children following in their parents footsteps, but it does indicate that when both parents go to...
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    He wasn't born into a Christian family like I was, and for me, that does not compute

    In support of my argument above I went looking for some figures. There are some differences in the cited statisics, but what is obvious is the father's potential influence. https://nickcady.org/2016/06/20/the-impact-on-kids-of-dads-faith-and-church-attendance/...
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    He wasn't born into a Christian family like I was, and for me, that does not compute

    I'm relying on long term memory here so my figures might be incorrect. Years ago I read in a Christian report somewhere that if both parents are Christian, the odds of the children becoming and remaining Christian are about 85%. If it is the father alone who is Christian, the chances drop to...
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    my mum said god teaches through punishment, i was punished with a 4 hour 30 minute saturday detenion do you think i deserved it ?

    It's not the end of the world. I think the odds are you won't repeat the behaviour so it will have served it's purpose. These days most schools have gone soft. When I was young, it was routine to be sent to the principal's office for the "cuts" - copping a caning. These days a principal who...
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    Dingos probably not responsible for backpacker's death

    I thought twice about posting this. It's a tragedy, but I think the dingos will be exonerated. It probably hasn't hit the news in the USA and most likely won't, although it might get a mention in Canada as the young lady who died was Canadian...
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    Men's expectations over Jesus

    The Old Testament was often quoted in the New Testament. We don't easily recognise just how often this happens, but for the Jews Christ was talking to, they would have been very well aware when He or the disciples quoted the OT, as they would have internalised the message, especially in a...
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    Men's expectations over Jesus

    Here is a brief Catholic take on the issue. https://www.catholicenfield.org/2013/04/why-does-the-lord-jesus-call-himself-son-of-man/ Christ used the term "Son of Man" to identify Himself with the prophesy in Daniel. By doing so He would have left no doubt in the minds of His Jewish audience...
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    Are FIRE and LIGHT physical manifestations of God?

    No. The terms can be used allegorically to describe aspects of God - the burning fire of His love, the fire of His justice etc. Physical light and fire are not a part of God. They are part of His creation, and in some ways point to Him.
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    Are modern songs and choruses any better than older ones?

    The quality depends on the specific song, old or new. Sometimes a modern group will take an old song and give it a more modern slant. The church has a 2000 year history of song, music and chant, so there's bound to be good and not so good right through two millenia. This song is centuries...