attraction

  1. pantingdeer

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  2. pantingdeer

    I don’t get joy from anything

    This started a few years ago. When I was 17, it seemed like my attraction to women just went away within the space of a few days. This affected me a lot. Then I slowly lost my interests in other things: I lost interest in what I was studying at school, lost interest in watching sports and lost...
  3. G

    Did Creation evolve, as an adaptation of adaptations?

    Hi there, So I had this simple insight (which I wanted to share with the Physical and Life Science forum, but moreso you - the believers - first) that evolution can explain "Creation". Creation, if you will, is the use of design, to differentiate the predicted but alternative "Evolutions", so...
  4. pantingdeer

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    I don’t want to be over dramatic but tbh 5 years ago my life changed forever. I was 16 and went on a camping trip and met a girl I liked. I came home from the camping trip and after a few days I never felt the same again. My mind had changed and didn’t get aroused by women anymore. I initially...
  5. pantingdeer

    Are you allowed to have a type

    I seem to like women with blonde hair and brown eyes. Is this being judgemental and wrong?
  6. Brendan1129

    Desperate for relationship adivce

    Hi, I am extremely desperate for advice. I had been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year (I'm 24 now), and I've had a reacurring issue pretty much since we started dating. I'm not super attracted to her physically or sexually. Like hardly at all. I don't find her body type appealing...
  7. pantingdeer

    How to get lost desires back

    I have many problems I have struggled with for a long time. 1. I feel very lonely. I don’t really have friends and so spend all my time alone. When I go to university I sit alone because nobody wants to work/be with me. I’m not a bad person, I just don’t really talk as I struggle socially. 2. I...
  8. pantingdeer

    Depressed as don't have feelings for women - please help

    Hi there, over the past 3 years my life has taken a turn for the worse. I am a very studious person and have some interests however I feel very sad as I am missing something very important - my attraction to women. One day when I was 17 I just seemingly felt much less attracted to women and I...
  9. MARIAH36

    Am I experiencing lust, infatuation or real attraction?

    I'm experiencing a really deep sadness, as someone that I feel deeply for is no longer in my life. We did not have a romantic relationship officially, but it was very obvious that there was chemistry there. I'm struggling now, to discern between whether my feelings are genuine or strictly...
  10. A

    I'm Attracted To A Married Woman. What Should I Do?

    I have found myself attracted to this very kind, loving woman in our congregation. She is very kind, I've never seen her angry, she's beautiful, and has a great figure. The problem is... She's married, and has two kids. What should I do? How should I handle this?
  11. J

    Boyfriend Struggles

    Hi everyone, This is my first time posting like this. I'd just really like some advice or help in my current relationship issues. I have had a boyfriend for over 9 months who I love very much. We are hoping to get married sometime in the next few years. However, recently a couple of issues have...
  12. K

    Am I missing my Blessing?

    Since 2011 and on up to 2018, there has been a young man who has had a crush on me. He has asked once before for me to be his girlfriend, yet it wasn't until after graduation that we discussed relationships in general and gave our perspectives on the topic. This guy has amazing qualities, he...
  13. pantingdeer

    Why can't I love people

    Hi I'm an 18 yr old male and last January I just lost any attraction to women completely. I have not liked a woman since and have honestly do not find women attractive and they don't 'turn me on' like you should I guess with normal attraction. I don't want to list after every girl I see but it's...
  14. S

    I feel lost..

    I feel so lost right now. I used to be so on fire for Christ and it feels like I have lost Him. I need some advice, it is much appreciated. About 5 years ago I used to be engaged to be married. I ended up calling off the wedding and it was very difficult. We continue to try to date off and...
  15. Lybrah

    Is God fed up with Me?

    I keep praying to God to send me a husband. The problem is, he sends me someone I just can't get interested in. Is it racist to say I don't want to date a particular race? I just don't feel attraction to this race (I'm not going to say what race it is). That might make me a racist, and I am...
  16. M

    It is not who you date, it is who you marry?

    Online dating is something that I was thinking about getting into. I have no experience with it at all. Also, I am afraid that too much weight will be placed on appearance alone when going into online dating. For anyone that has tried it before, what are the pitfalls that come with appearance...