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    My kids

    I realize that I need to be a better example, no excuses. I think I've improved alot in this area. I try to bring God into everyday conversation. Like I said, I listen to only Christian music. They see that I study my bible daily and I pray. Little things like that. WIth my depression...
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    My kids

    The type of TV they watch varies. There was a time (when I had my dumb head buried in depression) that the older 2 were watching alot of that reality tv. I've completely put a stop to that and MTV, etc. The youngest likes cartoons still. They all like disney and nickalodean shows. My older...
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    My kids

    I raised my girls in the church I was raised in, but I feel their religious upbringing has been very lukewarm, as was mine. I won't get into any kind of denomination debate, so let's just say that I feel we have to leave this church in order to grow, but I still feel sort of obligated to this...
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    My kids

    My daughters are 10 (almost), 12 and 14. I need advice on how to get them to know God better. I (we) are currently torn between 2 churches and find little support at church so I need to help them on my own for now. I don't know where to begin. They more or less roll their eyes at bible...
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    Here goes...

    Just a little update...I've emailed other man and told him that I am going to work to restore my marriage, husband comes first and I requested no further contact. I also blocked his email addresses and his messenger. I am tempted to see if he is on messenger, I don't really know why. I am...
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    Fighting a good fight

    God bless you Dale and all the wonderful husbands...God bless the wives who make mistakes (myself included) and are willing to repent.
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    Figuring out what to do next.

    PS...your wife is Christian, remind her that her husband comes second only to God...even if she isn't happy about that, as a Christian she still needs to obey. While it's great that she has all those ministries and likes her independence, it's hurting you and as her husband you are entitled to...
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    Figuring out what to do next.

    I can relate to "fake marriage"...and much else from these posts (not feeling real passion, staying only for the children, and all the what if's) However, in the past 6 or 7 years that I have been so self absorbed with these feelings and also giving myself emotionally to another man, I have...
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    Here goes...

    I suppose it's possible...but he did know I was married so I would've thought he'd tell me if he was too. You never know tho.
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    Here goes...

    It DOES feel freeing, but I am also consumed with guilt...which I accept because I deserve it. Thank you for the book recommendation, I have a list for the bookstore thanks to this good forum! Kanga..I just want to say I am sorry, for what it's worth, being "the other woman" I know there is...
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    Here goes...

    Well, when my husband came home from work yesterday I told him that "I needed help to stop talking to someone on the net." He didn't say much so I left the room and he read my postings here. He then approached me and we talked. He was not angry really, just sad. I felt awful and I apologized...
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    Here goes...

    The other guy knows I am married but he thinks we've been seperated. I've confessed to many lies recently and one of them being that I am still married. I made up a whole other world for us in my mind. I can't believe I was so irresponsible and selfish. This other man is a Christian. In...
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    Here goes...

    Thank you. I've tried before to break it off, or actually, I tried to put some distance between us in the past, but I kept going back because this man is really persistant and I am so weak. I'm so afraid that I won't be able to do this. My marriage was not so great right from the start. I...
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    Wanting another after Tubal

    Thank you. I just want to apologize if this was not the proper place for my post. I realize that some of you might be having trouble conceiving, etc and my "problem" just pales in comparison AND it's of my own doing. I realized this after I posted here and then I went and posted in Quiverfull.
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    Here goes...

    For the past 7 years or more I have been emotionally attached to another man over the internet. I am a 36 yr old mom of 3, married almost 15 yrs. I suffer from depression and had a very serious bout after the birth of my third child almost 9 yrs ago. There are times that I really don't feel like...
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    Regret Tubal

    I posted this in the TTC forum and probably should;ve started here. Ten years ago I had a tubal ligation after the birth of my third daughter. I really regret it and I want so badly to have another baby. I can't stop thinking about it and I don't know what to do. Live with the consequences...
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    Wanting another after Tubal

    Ten years ago after the birth of my third daughter I had a tubal ligation. (I am 36 now) I sorely regret having done this and I wish so badly to have another baby. Should I try to scrape up the money for a reversal? Should I wait and see if God will mend my tubes for me? Should I just accept...