Laodicean60
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- Jul 2, 2023
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I took care of my mom for 5 years but for the last year My wife and I had to change her diaper at least twice a day, I had to carry her to the shower because as her son I was uncomfortable laying my hands on her private parts. Checking on her sitting in the chair like a zombie plus she could hardly communicate because of the degradation of her mind. The constant worry. I now understand the frustration and abuse that family caregivers can do. After my mom died I told my wife that no one is going to wipe my butt! Maybe it's pride plus it's about the quality of life. Why live if you can't enjoy life? People who can't critically think or never experienced it live on a fantasy island.I used to opposed to this since watching my father lose his battle with colon cancer in 15 lose about 100 pounds in six months doped up on medication I am not sure anymore.
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