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Hi I am a Veteran with Asperger's(not caused me problems from service)

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I did 10 years in the US military. 3 tours in Afghanistan. I was born with a curse called Asperger's syndrome. I am as intelligent as anyone else. Just my social skills suck. I did well in the military. The structured environment. I spent 3 tours in Afghanistan. 2nd tour something happened so bad I can't function anymore. I have been married twice. 2nd wife left me because I couldn't be normal. I turned to alcohol. Just so freaking lonely. Never had a close friend, always been a loner but I have attempted suicide several times over the years but God wouldn't let me. Don't call that stupid hotline or 911. I am not a nutcase. I am a born again believer in Jesus. Just trying to reach out. I am not suicidal, trying to find help from Gods Church. Sure is Veterans out there. This is not fake.

Hi bro, I also have autism. FYI Asperger's & Autism Forum is basically a sister site to this one. I can probably relate to some of your struggles. But I was never in the military or married. I just went though life keeping to myself and working a job that's easy to maintain.
 
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I want to say first, thank you for your service. Secondly, it must be hard to deal with such diagnosis on a daily basis but I commend you; you have made it this far. I pray for you that you continue your walk with Christ and you find the Christian Church home God wants you to be a part of.
My Husband also a veteran and if you need anything at all I will be around.
 
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I was in the Army over 50 years ago. Things are different now. People would spit on you then. Even out of uniform, the haircut was a give away.

Aspergers can result in an analytic perspective that inhibits the seamless social interaction that many have.

As a result, one can feel like a perpetual outsider. This may result from our neurology (faster, more complex, or sensitive neurology). However, there are others who also find themselves outside the normal social currents like;

Combat veterans
Emergency room nurses
Abuse victims
Cops
Pastors
Ex-cons
Anyone forced to experience harsh realities.

Those of us on the fringe may fall short of plunging into the superficial, but we often have a capacity for deeper connections.
 
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