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help for scrupulosity

  1. ATT

    Unwanted Groinal Responses

    So I'm a christian who struggles alot with intrusive thoughts and overthinking which after a lot of research has led me to believe I might have scrupulosity but the main point of this post is I've been struggling with a combination of unwanted groinal responses when I'm thinking about people of...
  2. Karabear10

    Doubtful thoughts are hitting me hard. Trying to say new testament is evil and not true. Please help

    My thoughts are asking what if the people who wrote the new testament were evil and its not true. Like they were demons. This is so frustrating. I'm so upset and frustrated that I have these thoughts. They try and turn me away from Jesus and I hate it so much. How do I dispute these thoughts...
  3. William3

    Fear of the Unpardonable Sin (OCD?)

    I’m having a really difficult time and I need to talk it out. I’ve been struggling with intense fear of the Unpardonable Sin. Let me say, by no means do I want to have ANY though against the Lord in any way, shape, or form. I would genuinely rather have the Lord take me before I committed such...
  4. Jeremy444777

    Bad thoughts

    Hi, I have severe OCD, tourettes and other problems and I get bad thoughts sometimes. I feel bad because I was scared that I said a bad word (which I didn't) but I was obsessing over it and the word actually formed in my head and I thought a horrible thought about someone I truly care for. I...
  5. Equipped

    Do I have OCD (Please Read)

    Hello! I was hoping that I could get some clarification about what I’m experiencing. I have not been able to see a professional about this yet but I hope to do so soon. My main question is - Do I Have OCD? I am going to give you a few examples (there are more) of some experiences I’ve had in...
  6. J

    FishEaters' Ten Commandments for the Scrupulous

    Having had a recent meltdown due to my scrupulosity, I thought about FishEaters' guide for people suffering with scrupulosity, and I thought I would share it here: https://www.fisheaters.com/scruples.html This guide helped me a lot, I would have been much worse now, if it weren't for this...