Recent content by Timber70

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    Prayers and/or suggestions

    Praying for you also
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    Advice, help, insight?

    Thank you. So happy also you found someone!
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    Advice, help, insight?

    Thank you for your advise. Some great points. I appreciate it. I have no desire for another relationship. My focus is on my son and my walk with the Lord. Dont think I am meant to be in relationships. Unfortunately my father was diagnosed with liver cancer last Tuesday. Not much the doctors can...
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    Advice, help, insight?

    No need to apologize, your opinion is noted, but really has no impact on my reality. I have accepted full and complete responsibility for my sins. I only get to see the one person I love more then anyone else on this earth half of the time. I miss half his birthdays, half his holidays. When one...
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    You are correct. I am reading a book titled Disapointme With God. He uses Job's story a lot. It has made me look at that famous book in a new light. Your response does the same. Thank you.
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    Prayers and/or suggestions

    My email is jimpost@hotmail.com sometime share your story I will share with you mine.
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    Can I get your first name so I know who I am praying for? My process is going on 22 months. I drug my feet for as long as I could. Yesterday I listened to a preacher relay a story about a doomed marriage that was saved at church. Pretty selfish but sometimes those stories bother me the most. Why...
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    Prayers and/or suggestions

    I will pray for you also, brother. If you are in the same place you know the pain, the hurt, the doubts, the sleepless nights and for me the idle moments of the day when your thoughts are consumed by nothing but the future proceedings and what will occur. So, I will indeed pray for you daily. Jim
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    There is no reconciliation, unfortunately. We are still in the divorce process. I pray every day for His will. I have realized His will may be for this marriage to end. I dont understand why, but I know He doesnt have to give me a reason.
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    Advice, help, insight?

    It kills me because I made a vow before the Lord and I failed. It kills me because my kid, through no fault of his own, will now be damaged the rest of his life. It kills me because I wont get another chance to be a true Christian husband. I dont feel like that's wrong. It destroys me from...
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    Mark, thank you so much for your reply. Great points to ponder. Many I have already. On that country road I gave up a couple of sinful desires. So far 21 months later they are still behind me. They always lurk, but I have been able to stay strong. My desire is to get close to Him. It has been a...
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    Thank you for your input and prayers. About a year ago I gave my divorce to the Lord. Extremely tough, but had to. Guess that's why I am doubting it will be restored. Yes I know He is a man of miracles, but thinking this miracle will not be allowed to me. I just want relief from the negativity...
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    Advice, help, insight?

    First of all, I will apologize for the long post. I have just exhausted all my possibilities, I’m hoping just one person reads this post and says “that’s me, I was there.” A little over 21 months ago I received a text from my wife sating she was leaving me. About 2 days later my journey started...
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    Prayers and/or suggestions

    So I am in the process of a divorce that I do not want. In August my wife sent me a text telling me she filed for divorce and I needed to leave. Unfortunately she also texted me and told me I could tell our 11 year old son on my own. Needless to say I was devastated. We have had a rocky marriage...