why in the baptist church.....?

[janny108]

Why is it in the baptist churches that people are keen to invite you to stuff in church, then don't really talk to you once you do come to church/join___/come to an event?
Jan

[Blue Olive]

It takes two to communicate. Next time you attend an event, start up a conversation with someone yourself. :)

[cremi]

I don't think this problem is exclusive to baptists. I've visited or been a member of many other denominations that have the same problem.

You have to overlook it and make your own way. And yes...it can be difficult.

[janny108]

I often do initiate conversations, but if I don't greet people initially then they won't say anything to me.
Jan

[janny108]

I don't think this problem is exclusive to baptists. I've visited or been a member of many other denominations that have the same problem.

You have to overlook it and make your own way. And yes...it can be difficult.


Yes that does make sense.
Jan

[janny108]

I don't want to sound like I'm picking on the baptists. I've been COG mostly before and I always had intimacy in sunday school and everything was wonderful. I felt really bonded to those people. But we've moved to AZ from the east coast and I think all religions must be different from east to west...
Jan