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Frankie
6th May 2004, 03:55 PM
We have a couple of churches here where I live that have openly gay pastors (non-baptist churches) and it got me to thinking....has there ever been an openly gay baptist pastor that people recognized as a man truly called of God to lead a congergation?

Also, what are your thoughts on this subject? Would you all continue to attend a baptist church if the pastor was openly gay and had no desire to be called to repentance on this issue?

Frankie

eldermike
6th May 2004, 04:13 PM
SB are autonomous local churches, they are not bound by the conference. They can fire the pastor for picking the wrong color car. It's not going to happen.

P_G
6th May 2004, 05:15 PM
Also, what are your thoughts on this subject? Would you all continue to attend a baptist church if the pastor was openly gay and had no desire to be called to repentance on this issue?

Frankie
Well the big debate in the Mennonite church is if a person who is openly gay can even attend services. I think the pastorate is definately out of the question.



Blessings

Pastor George :wave:
(Very NOT gay!)

Tenorvoice
6th May 2004, 09:38 PM
Would you all continue to attend a baptist church if the pastor was openly gay and had no desire to be called to repentance on this issue?

Frankie

NO!!!!

and I will not attend or even step foot into a church that has a women as a pastor:(

bamagirl
6th May 2004, 11:34 PM
No :eek:

theseed
6th May 2004, 11:51 PM
SBC churches look for Pastors that can maintian their own households, which means a wife, and perhaps kids. They look at those things, but I don't think they require a man to be married per se. But they hold them to the same standards as Paul did for deacons and bishops, of course pastors are bishops technically speaking :D

Charles Stanly's wife divorced him, but and he was once president of the SBC, and he was willing to resign from his church. Yet, they kept him because they felt that God still needed him there. Stanly had no control of the divorce--it was his wife's choice.

He is an awesome speaker/teacher/pastor. You can hear him on TV and the radio.

But I've digressed :D

BjBarnett
6th May 2004, 11:55 PM
We have a couple of churches here where I live that have openly gay pastors

stuff like that really bothers me for some odd reason :eek:

Frankie
7th May 2004, 12:06 AM
SBC churches look for Pastors that can maintian their own households, which means a wife, and perhaps kids. They look at those things, but I don't think they require a man to be married per se. But they hold them to the same standards as Paul did for deacons and bishops, of course pastors are bishops technically speaking :D

Charles Stanly's wife divorced him, but and he was once president of the SBC, and he was willing to resign from his church. Yet, they kept him because they felt that God still needed him there. Stanly had no control of the divorce--it was his wife's choice.

He is an awesome speaker/teacher/pastor. You can hear him on TV and the radio.

But I've digressed :DI actually listened to Charles Stanly before I ever even attended a baptist church. I agree that he is a terrific speaker and I agree with most of what I have heard him preach. I heard about His divorce and that he was willing to step down but that there was an overwhelming request for him to remain a preacher. I think that was a wise decision, many times his sermons have led me to search out different subjects in the Bible and see what God really has to say about a particular subject.

In Christ's love,
Frankie

Frankie
7th May 2004, 12:11 AM
Well the big debate in the Mennonite church is if a person who is openly gay can even attend services. I think the pastorate is definately out of the question.



Blessings

Pastor George :wave:
(Very NOT gay!)
You know, I would be really surprised to hear of an openly gay Baptist pastor. :eek: I know that the Baptist church I attend does not even have female pastors, let alone a gay one. :D :D :D

I was just curious to see if anyone had even heard of an openly gay Baptist pastor before. I have not.

Frankie

KristiXP
7th May 2004, 11:36 AM
Also, what are your thoughts on this subject? Would you all continue to attend a baptist church if the pastor was openly gay and had no desire to be called to repentance on this issue?

Frankie
Most definatly not! :eek:

jenptcfan
7th May 2004, 11:52 AM
I really doubt it would fly. My answer to the "would you still attend" question is no.

KristiXP
7th May 2004, 03:53 PM
I really doubt it would fly. My answer to the "would you still attend" question is no.
Definatly would not fly in a Baptist church! :D

sobresaliente
7th May 2004, 10:24 PM
I would never ever attend a church run by a gay pastor, it is an ABOMINATION! Someone who claims to be a 'man of god' and be trying to reconcile his 'gay lifestyle' which is in direct conflict with the Holy Word of God. Homosexuality has nothing to do with love or a lifestyle choice and everything to do with sin and lust. This 'pastor' would be an unrepentant sinner and must be rebuked and chastised by the congregation, and if he refused to turn away from his sin he should be thrown out of the church and other churches should be made aware of his sin so that he should not be able to pastor and lead others into sin.

Again....if this happened it would be a sad day, every baptist church I have ever attended I know would standly firmly against such an abominable practice of hiring a pastor who is unrepentant and likely to lead others into sin

lozzie
8th May 2004, 09:47 AM
I have not ever heard of a Baptist Pastor either. Nor would I ever choose to attend a church with a gay pastor. The Uniting church in Australia last year ordained a gay minister. I remember there was a big uproar and many of those churches did not support that decision.

However, I do have a christian friend who is 'gay'. I know he turned away from God for about a year, but came back to God with a large number of personal issues to deal with. Ultimately its really between him and God and I do not think it is for me to judge.

When I use the term gay I also dont neccessarily mean a practasing homosexual. Just someone who is attracted to people of their same gender. Its not like my gay friend has ever had a boyfriend or anything.

ZeroTX
8th May 2004, 01:00 PM
I believe you'll be hard-pressed to locate a Baptist Pastor who is professing homosexuality. Baptists are notoriously politically conservative, and I really do not see it as a possibility. Now, if someone is unprofessed, that's another thing... On the other hand, I've never known a Baptist pastor who wasn't married. Not that one must be married, it just so happens the ones I've known were.

I do not think one could associate one's self with a Baptist Convention and be openly gay.

I do know of an openly gay individual who was a Pastor, but I am not sure of what denomination. I know it was not Baptist.... When he "discovered" his feelings, he resigned from his position. This is a very nice man who, I believe, has gone the wrong direction in his life. He's gone to the opposite extremes. He's promiscuously gay, and I cannot support any part of his lifestyle... Keep this man in your prayers. We've lost a great minister to inappropriate lust, and it's very sad.

Later guys,

Michael

Servant of the Kingdom
8th May 2004, 04:32 PM
would you accept a pastor that would not practise charity?

Frankie
8th May 2004, 04:55 PM
I believe you'll be hard-pressed to locate a Baptist Pastor who is professing homosexuality. Baptists are notoriously politically conservative, and I really do not see it as a possibility. Now, if someone is unprofessed, that's another thing... On the other hand, I've never known a Baptist pastor who wasn't married. Not that one must be married, it just so happens the ones I've known were.

I do not think one could associate one's self with a Baptist Convention and be openly gay.

I do know of an openly gay individual who was a Pastor, but I am not sure of what denomination. I know it was not Baptist.... When he "discovered" his feelings, he resigned from his position. This is a very nice man who, I believe, has gone the wrong direction in his life. He's gone to the opposite extremes. He's promiscuously gay, and I cannot support any part of his lifestyle... Keep this man in your prayers. We've lost a great minister to inappropriate lust, and it's very sad.

Later guys,

MichaelThat is indeed sad. The sins of the flesh can sure rear their ugly heads at times. This ex-pastor friend of yours is in my prayers.

Frankie

Frankie
8th May 2004, 04:58 PM
would you accept a pastor that would not practise charity?If I attended a church that had a pastor that was not charitable and loving, I would personally call Him to repentance and pray for Him. If He continued to be unkind and without charity towards those in His congergation or in general, I would find a different church and let the pastor know why I was leaving His congergation.

Frankie

Servant of the Kingdom
9th May 2004, 06:08 AM
:)

RhetorTheo
10th May 2004, 08:47 AM
Would you attend a Baptist church where the pastor is a glutton (assuming gluttony is considered a sin)?

KristiXP
10th May 2004, 09:46 AM
Would you attend a Baptist church where the pastor is a glutton (assuming gluttony is considered a sin)?
Yes. Gluttony dosn't bother me as much as homosexuality. That's just me. I know no sin is greater than any other, but it's my personal opinion. Now, depending on how overweight this person was, I may not attend because the habits of severly overweight people drive me insane. (Not trying to offend anyone here. Remember this is my personal opinion. :)

Mimi
10th May 2004, 10:10 AM
We have a couple of churches here where I live that have openly gay pastors (non-baptist churches) and it got me to thinking....has there ever been an openly gay baptist pastor that people recognized as a man truly called of God to lead a congergation?

Also, what are your thoughts on this subject? Would you all continue to attend a baptist church if the pastor was openly gay and had no desire to be called to repentance on this issue?

Frankie
Sure why not? Could a gay man not be a man of God? That is silly if they need to repent, cause they do nothing wrong. Be glad they are open about it and not hide it. Honesty is so much more important then sexual orientation, don't ya think?

Lots of love and sunshine,
Queen

Mimi
10th May 2004, 10:13 AM
Yes. Gluttony dosn't bother me as much as homosexuality. That's just me. I know no sin is greater than any other, but it's my personal opinion. Now, depending on how overweight this person was, I may not attend because the habits of severly overweight people drive me insane. (Not trying to offend anyone here. Remember this is my personal opinion. :)
Okay.....:scratch:

There is no sin greater than any other??? Explain this to me...pleeeeeeeeazzzz......so someone who swears is as sinful as someone who muders another human being?

Lots of love and sunshine,
Mimi

lucypevensie
10th May 2004, 10:57 AM
In God's opinion all sin is a ugly as the next. Look at what it took to cause the fall of Adam and Eve and all mankind. They disobeyed, they ate a little fruit. We might think "what was so horrifying about that?". Seems kind of a mild little sin. But God, in his nature, does not tollerate any sin, minor as a little white lie or major as a mass murder. Some sins have greater natural consequenses than others. Of course we think of murder as the most horrible because of all the people hurt by it, and the punishment and ostracism that society gives murderers. A little white lie doesn't really seem to affect too many people. We tend to rate sins on a scale of severity and expect God to think the same way. But He doesn't.


But as far as the OP goes, no, I would not attend a church with a gay pastor. It's one thing to sin and then repent and strive toward holiness. It's another thing to continue to sin unrepentant.

eldermike
10th May 2004, 11:10 AM
It is true that sin is sin, all sin is equal. However, the Christian has been given victory over the power of sin and with that comes the victory over death. Christ proved this to all of us by leaving his grave.

So, sin is not the issue. The issue is following a person that is walking in His flesh. They may be as saved as anyone but they are walking in the world and thus should not be leading Gods children.

P_G
10th May 2004, 11:19 AM
Sure why not? Could a gay man not be a man of God? That is silly if they need to repent, cause they do nothing wrong. Be glad they are open about it and not hide it. Honesty is so much more important then sexual orientation, don't ya think?

Lots of love and sunshine,
Queen

No Mimi he cannot

A person living openly and unrepentadly in sin removes themselves from elegability for ministry.

1Ti 3:1 Faithful is the word: if anyone aspires to the office of overseer, it is a good work he desires to do.
1Ti 3:2 It is necessary, therefore, that an overseer be without reproach, the husband of one wife, sober, of sound mind, orderly, loving strangers, able to teach,
1Ti 3:3 not given over to wine, not a striker, but gentle, uncontentious, without love of money,
1Ti 3:4 ruling his own house well, having his children in submissiveness with all dignity.
1Ti 3:5 But if anyone does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of an assembly of God?
1Ti 3:6 He should not be newly planted, lest he become conceited and fall into the judgment of the Devil.
1Ti 3:7 Moreover, it is necessary for him to have a good testimony from those outside the assembly, so that he not fall into reproach and the snare of the Devil.
1Ti 3:8 Ministers likewise must be reverent, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, or greedy of sordid gain,
1Ti 3:9 but holding to the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.
1Ti 3:10 And let these also first be tested; then let them serve as ministers if they are beyond reproach.
1Ti 3:11 Wives likewise must be reverent, not false accusers, but temperate, faithful in all things.
1Ti 3:12 Let ministers be husbands of only one wife, ruling their own children and houses well.
1Ti 3:13 For those who have ministered well obtain for themselves a good standing in the faith that is in Messiah Yeshua.


*** 1:6 if any man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of unsavedness or rebellion.
*** 1:7 For the overseer must be blameless as God’s steward, not self-pleasing, not inclined to wrath, not addicted to wine, not a quarreler, not greedy of sordid gain,
*** 1:8 but hospitable, a lover of goodness, of sound mind, just, holy, self-controlled,
*** 1:9 holding faithful to the faithful word which is in accordance with the teaching, that he might have the power both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who speak against it.

So this is what the Bible says. The Bishop or overseer or Pastor must always be of extremely high moral charecter. I know this is unpopular in the light of todays "enlightened society" But Y'shua was unpopular in the light of his "enlightened society" also.



Blessings

Pastor George :wave:

seebs
10th May 2004, 12:00 PM
I am curious.

What do people here think about slave-owning Baptist pastors?

Hypothetically.

eldermike
10th May 2004, 01:08 PM
What do people here think about slave-owning Baptist pastors?

Hypothetically.
How hypothetical? Baptist pastors are in great shape if they are car owners.

But, I'll take the leap.....I have only read of one baptist slave owner pastor, His name was Philemon. Paul converted his runaway slave and sent Him back to His friend Philemon, not as a slave but as a brother in Christ.

Slavery has always been wrong but God has used it in ways that we don't understand. Just as God uses the poor to shame the rich, He has used the slave to bring nations to him. Can you think of an OT person who was sold into slavery who saved the hebrew people by storing food?

It should go without saying that in the US, today, a pastor should not be a slave owner.

Mike

Mimi
10th May 2004, 03:05 PM
No Mimi he cannot

A person living openly and unrepentadly in sin removes themselves from elegability for ministry.

1Ti 3:1 Faithful is the word: if anyone aspires to the office of overseer, it is a good work he desires to do.
1Ti 3:2 It is necessary, therefore, that an overseer be without reproach, the husband of one wife, sober, of sound mind, orderly, loving strangers, able to teach,
1Ti 3:3 not given over to wine, not a striker, but gentle, uncontentious, without love of money,
1Ti 3:4 ruling his own house well, having his children in submissiveness with all dignity.
1Ti 3:5 But if anyone does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of an assembly of God?
1Ti 3:6 He should not be newly planted, lest he become conceited and fall into the judgment of the Devil.
1Ti 3:7 Moreover, it is necessary for him to have a good testimony from those outside the assembly, so that he not fall into reproach and the snare of the Devil.
1Ti 3:8 Ministers likewise must be reverent, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, or greedy of sordid gain,
1Ti 3:9 but holding to the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.
1Ti 3:10 And let these also first be tested; then let them serve as ministers if they are beyond reproach.
1Ti 3:11 Wives likewise must be reverent, not false accusers, but temperate, faithful in all things.
1Ti 3:12 Let ministers be husbands of only one wife, ruling their own children and houses well.
1Ti 3:13 For those who have ministered well obtain for themselves a good standing in the faith that is in Messiah Yeshua.


*** 1:6 if any man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of unsavedness or rebellion.
*** 1:7 For the overseer must be blameless as God’s steward, not self-pleasing, not inclined to wrath, not addicted to wine, not a quarreler, not greedy of sordid gain,
*** 1:8 but hospitable, a lover of goodness, of sound mind, just, holy, self-controlled,
*** 1:9 holding faithful to the faithful word which is in accordance with the teaching, that he might have the power both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who speak against it.

So this is what the Bible says. The Bishop or overseer or Pastor must always be of extremely high moral charecter. I know this is unpopular in the light of todays "enlightened society" But Y'shua was unpopular in the light of his "enlightened society" also.



Blessings

Pastor George :wave:


Oh my....well, I rather not attend a church where the pastor thinks homosexuals are sinners....:P. Maybe I am wrong here, but are not all people created equal? (Of course I believe they are evolved.;)).

My church has male and female reverends (The two women work in the hospital, but also preach in our church because they are part of it) and yes, a gay man, who is also active in our church is allowed to read from the bible as well in church.

I love it there......:clap:

To me there is a difference between someone that steals to feed his/her childern or someone that rapes and murders a woman...both are sins, but.....correct me if I am wrong....the second sin is way way much worse!!!!!

God bless all life!

Lots of love and sunshine
Mimi

GreenEyedLady
10th May 2004, 03:47 PM
Oh my....well, I rather not attend a church where the pastor thinks homosexuals are sinners....:P. Maybe I am wrong here, but are not all people created equal? (Of course I believe they are evolved.;)).

My church has male and female reverends (The two women work in the hospital, but also preach in our church because they are part of it) and yes, a gay man, who is also active in our church is allowed to read from the bible as well in church.

I love it there......:clap:

To me there is a difference between someone that steals to feed his/her childern or someone that rapes and murders a woman...both are sins, but.....correct me if I am wrong....the second sin is way way much worse!!!!!

God bless all life!

Lots of love and sunshine
Mimi
Are you for real?
Which Jesus do you believe in? The one of the world or the one in the Bible?
Pastors need to be holy, they are apointed by GOD. How can one be holy while living in sin? I completley disagree with your replies.
Homosexality is a SIN and there is NO such thing as a Gay pastor. God never annointed him that is for sure, alteast not the God in my KJV bible.
GEL

Tenorvoice
10th May 2004, 07:17 PM
A sin, is a sin, is a sin. There is no sin that is greater than any other in the eye's of God. None of them outweigh any other.

To use an old sayin: lets call a spade a spade.

(an Mimi I hope that you were kiddin in yer post)

Like the word of God says :"We need to love the sinner, and hate the sin"

No we do not have any "rights" like the world says that we do.

The Word of God says that we are either one of two things : A slave to sin ....or a slave to Jesus Christ. No one has any "rights" but we all do have responsabilities.

When we are born again into Christ Jesus we are nolonger slaves to sin. We have the CHOICE whether to sin or not "for greater is he that lives in me....". We are no longer captives to the old ways of our flesh (if we submit ourselves to God, and do what his word says)

(ps.....why do you think that Sodom and Gamorrah were destroyed??? because of the over run of homosexualls and how evil their society was)

Frankie
11th May 2004, 01:45 AM
Oh my....well, I rather not attend a church where the pastor thinks homosexuals are sinners....:P. Maybe I am wrong here, but are not all people created equal? (Of course I believe they are evolved.;)).

My church has male and female reverends (The two women work in the hospital, but also preach in our church because they are part of it) and yes, a gay man, who is also active in our church is allowed to read from the bible as well in church.

I love it there......:clap:

To me there is a difference between someone that steals to feed his/her childern or someone that rapes and murders a woman...both are sins, but.....correct me if I am wrong....the second sin is way way much worse!!!!!

God bless all life!

Lots of love and sunshine
MimiHi Mimi and God Bless! I have to correct you (you asked for it...lol). One sin is not worse than another sin. Sin is sin in the eyes of God. There is no sin that is "worse" than another because all of them will keep you from Heaven if you are not born again of the Holy Spirit. You will not find a single pastor or preacher on this earth that is without sin. We all are sinners, however, in a good, Bible based church, what you will find are pastors that are ashamed and remorsful for their sin and desire to better their walk with God and please Him. Being openly gay and displaying it as something God approves of while leading a congergation of believers is not pleasing in the eyes of God. If one is openly gay, justifys it and has no desire to turn from it, they should not be leading a congergation of God's children. The same goes for someone who is cheating on their spouse and has no desire to repent of it or for someone who steals from his neighbor and tries to justify it, rather than ask for forgivness and turn from that sin. A leader of a church has an added responsibility to lead His congergation in the truth of God's word. If a pastor of a church is openly sinning and trying to justify it, He is not leading God's people in truth and should not be a pastor. Instead, He/She, should be attending a Biblically based church and be receiving correct council and teachings on righteous living from a pastor who is leading the congergation in truth.

P_G
11th May 2004, 11:56 AM
Oh my....well, I rather not attend a church where the pastor thinks homosexuals are sinners....:P. Maybe I am wrong here, but are not all people created equal? (Of course I believe they are evolved.;)).

My church has male and female reverends (The two women work in the hospital, but also preach in our church because they are part of it) and yes, a gay man, who is also active in our church is allowed to read from the bible as well in church.

I love it there......:clap:

To me there is a difference between someone that steals to feed his/her childern or someone that rapes and murders a woman...both are sins, but.....correct me if I am wrong....the second sin is way way much worse!!!!!

God bless all life!

Lots of love and sunshine
Mimi

I don't care a whit what the pastor "Thinks" is sin
In fact no one should care what I as a man who is a pastor "thinks" is sin.

I do however care what G-d thinks is sin!
G-d cares too in fact his opinion on right and wrong is
ALL that matters. He is the judge.

Mimi take careful note that when I tell you something I back it up with
scripture. So that you will know I am not giving you an opinion of man.
Here is what God says about homosexuality:

Rom 1:18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
Rom 1:19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
Rom 1:20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
Rom 1:21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
Rom 1:22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
Rom 1:23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
Rom 1:24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
Rom 1:25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Rom 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
Rom 1:28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
Rom 1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
Rom 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
Rom 1:31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
Rom 1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

Rom 2:1 Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.
Rom 2:2 But we are sure that the judgment of God is according to truth against them which commit such things.
Rom 2:3 And thinkest thou this, O man, that judgest them which do such things, and doest the same, that thou shalt escape the judgment of God?


I am going to bet you havent read down this far and just skimmed over those scriptures! But in case you have read this far down. We can see that G-d in his infinate wisdom and justice will give those over who will not turn from sin to their sin. Bottom line you want to sin G-d is going to let you sin. But there is a dire reminder that you will be judged for it.

Next I see that you want to proclaim evolution. Well here again you can beleive anything you want to. But if you take a look at Genesis 1 - 2 and again John 1 you will see that it was G-d who made all that there is. No mention of an evolving race of people.

I am afraid you have fallen into the trap of the plausable explanation. Which dear one comes from the devil the father of lies. I know what you were taught in school and they have their own religion it is called secular humanism. That it seems too is your religion. A religion of false gods and false idols.

I am sure that you feel comforatable in your church because they tell you what you want to hear. I am sure too that I infuriate you because I will not. But Mimi I love you enough to tell you the truth. And here is what the Bible says about where you are at:

2Ti 4:2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
2Ti 4:3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
2Ti 4:4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.
2Ti 4:5 But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy ministry.

So Mimi I am going to tell you the truth the truth which saves and brings life. Sometimes that truth doesn't make us happy. G-d is not interested in us being happy in our sin he is interested in us being happy with him forever in heaven. So no I am not going to itch your ears and tell you what you want to hear. And I am surely ready for the slings and arrows. But remember you throw them at G-ds holy word not at some back woods preacher.


Blessings

Read your Bible

Pastor George :wave:

Echoes Peak
11th May 2004, 06:25 PM
We have a couple of churches here where I live that have openly gay pastors (non-baptist churches) and it got me to thinking....has there ever been an openly gay baptist pastor that people recognized as a man truly called of God to lead a congergation?


If there ever was one, I wouldn't be surprised if he either promptly switched denominations or left the ministry all together. I think its safe to say, that it would be very, very, VERY difficult for a pastor who is gay to remain in the Baptist church. As someone has already said, we are definitely very, very conservative and I have, yet to enter a Baptist church, that would wholeheartedly accept it.

Frankie
12th May 2004, 01:49 AM
If there ever was one, I wouldn't be surprised if he either promptly switched denominations or left the ministry all together. I think its safe to say, that it would be very, very, VERY difficult for a pastor who is gay to remain in the Baptist church. As someone has already said, we are definitely very, very conservative and I have, yet to enter a Baptist church, that would wholeheartedly accept it.This is just one of the reasons I have chosen a Baptist church for a church home.

kayanne
12th May 2004, 10:41 AM
Just a quick opinion on the "sin is a sin is a sin, all equal" line of thinking. I agree that even one sin will keep us out of heaven, unless it has been paid for with the blood of Jesus. But there are certain sins God singles out that he says he "hates," certain sins he says are an "abomination," others we are told to "flee from." So even in the Bible God gives us very very strong warnings about certain sins, possibly because He knows they are particularly capable of enslaving us, or particularly capable of damaging our testimony, or hurting others; but for whatever reason, He did choose to differentiate in that regard about different sins.

I'm saying this because it does bug me when someone takes the topic of, for example, homosexuality, and say that a sin is a sin is a sin. I do not believe that a person living an openly gay lifestyle can be compared to a person who momentarily gets perturbed with a driver who cuts in front of him, causing the person to mumble "You idiot!" or whatever (a sin, yes, but not an intentional, ongoing lifestyle of sin)

A lifestyle of ongoing sin is intentional, unrepentant, and incompatible with Christian teaching. "If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth." I John 1:6 "The one who says 'I have have come to know Him' and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." I John 2:4

P_G
12th May 2004, 12:10 PM
I'm saying this because it does bug me when someone takes the topic of, for example, homosexuality, and say that a sin is a sin is a sin. I do not believe that a person living an openly gay lifestyle can be compared to a person who momentarily gets perturbed with a driver who cuts in front of him, causing the person to mumble "You idiot!" or whatever (a sin, yes, but not an intentional, ongoing lifestyle of sin)
Yes that is exactly the main point. The driver is later repentant sorry for what he has done and works (one would hope) to go on a better path. He listens to his conviction. The one who walks in sin and justifys it "I Was born this way" "I need this to survive so I stole it" "My wife won't have sex with me so I commit adultery" ad nausium. Is unrepentant. They are saying "God you don't understand I know better than you do"

Well of course G-d understands! Why would Y'shua come as a man if not to say "YES I UNDERSTAND I HAVE BEEN HUMAN TOO" Was he not tempted? Was he not hurt? And yet he still did the will of the father.

Praise him for loving us enough to provide an endless river of forgiveness if we would but just seek Him! Isn't that really the message of the cross?


Blessings

Pastor George :wave:

Frankie
13th May 2004, 12:28 AM
Just a quick opinion on the "sin is a sin is a sin, all equal" line of thinking. I agree that even one sin will keep us out of heaven, unless it has been paid for with the blood of Jesus. But there are certain sins God singles out that he says he "hates," certain sins he says are an "abomination," others we are told to "flee from." So even in the Bible God gives us very very strong warnings about certain sins, possibly because He knows they are particularly capable of enslaving us, or particularly capable of damaging our testimony, or hurting others; but for whatever reason, He did choose to differentiate in that regard about different sins.

I'm saying this because it does bug me when someone takes the topic of, for example, homosexuality, and say that a sin is a sin is a sin. I do not believe that a person living an openly gay lifestyle can be compared to a person who momentarily gets perturbed with a driver who cuts in front of him, causing the person to mumble "You idiot!" or whatever (a sin, yes, but not an intentional, ongoing lifestyle of sin)

A lifestyle of ongoing sin is intentional, unrepentant, and incompatible with Christian teaching. "If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth." I John 1:6 "The one who says 'I have have come to know Him' and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." I John 2:4This would be the same for any of our sins though. If we have a hateful attitude towards people and we know that and still continue in that hate, we are continueing in sin. For me personally, I view my sins to be every bit as bad as the sin of homosexuality or fornication. My sins are not those particular sins but they are sin none the less. I am no better a person than those who commit those particular sin. My sin is covered by the blood of Jesus and because of His spirit inside me, I desire to turn from my many, many sins but I do still sin constantly. It greives my heart that there is sin in my life and want to be more like Jesus in the way I treat others and the way I act in my daily life, however, I constantly fall short. Blessed for me, Jesus picks me back up on my feet, tells me I am forgiven and to continue in my walk with Him. I am a wicked creature, the only good that is in me is the Spirit of the Lord that lives inside me. While I agree that there are certain sins that God makes a point to single out as "detestable" in His sight, we still know that He hates ALL sin and that includes mine. For a short period in my life, I was living in sin, in a sin that God has "singled out" as detestable in His sight but He never left me. His spirit remained with me and constantly convicted me to the error of my sin. It got to the point where I could no longer "justify" my living in this particular sin and it became far to apperent that I was grieving the heart of God with that sin. I am happy to say that by the glory of God, I left that particular sin behind.

I can't help but think that for those who are truly saved, who truly, heart and soul have accepted Jesus, that He will eventually work this same effect on them through His Holy Spirit. I think of Paul (Saul) and the terrible, horrible things He did to Christians until He accepted the Lord. Then Wow, look at the change that the Holy Spirit made in Him! God can work a good work in any of us if we are willing to truly put our lives in the hands of Jesus. In this way I do have to say that I believe that a sin is a sin is a sin.

God Bless You,
Frankie

kayanne
13th May 2004, 10:18 AM
This would be the same for any of our sins though. If we have a hateful attitude towards people and we know that and still continue in that hate, we are continueing in sin.

I absolutely agree. I didn't mean to imply that homosexuality was automatically worse than any and all other sins. It's the habitual practicing of a sin, with a disregard for what scripture says about it that is the problem. If I lose my temper I am generally convicted about it immediately. But if I live that way day in and day out, and say, "Well, I don't care what you think the Bible says about it. God created me an angry person, and He loves me just the way I am, and go mind your own &@*X#!! business!!"

Not that my *opinion* of another person amounts to a hill of beans, but my *opinion* of a person who continues unrepentantly in intentional habitual sin is likely not truly saved. That's not me trying to judge them, but me being concerned about them. If that person died, I personally would not have much peace about where they would spend eternity. The Bible says "Examine yourself, see if you are really in the faith" (slight paraphrase, sorry), which says to me there are people who THINK they are saved, but in actuality, they are not. I think that a person who habitually intentionally sins (ie a practicing homosexual, a practicing adulterer, a practicing thief, or a practicing angry screamer) MAY LIKELY be the kind of person God was referring to when he said "Examine yourself...."


For a short period in my life, I was living in sin, in a sin that God has "singled out" as detestable in His sight but He never left me. His spirit remained with me and constantly convicted me to the error of my sin. It got to the point where I could no longer "justify" my living in this particular sin and it became far to apperent that I was grieving the heart of God with that sin. I am happy to say that by the glory of God, I left that particular sin behind.

There was a period of about 2 years, after I had understood the gospel and asked Jesus to save me, that I lived in a regular state of an intentional habitual sin too. I KNEW it was wrong. I would look at my Bible on the shelf, and not even be courageous enough to pick it up and read it, because I knew it would say things I didn't want to hear! I stopped going to church, I stopped praying. Somehow I didn't feel bad about the sin I was continuing in. But if you asked me, I would have said that I was saved. I even continued to tell others how to be saved! But I was not living like a Christian!! (this was a long time ago--I truly don't understand it now that I look back, so don't ask me what in the world I was thinking!!!) Now as I think back on that period of time, I'm just glad I didn't die during that time, because I'm not at all convinced that I was saved then. I don't know if I really had been saved at one time and lost it, or just never really was yet (this is why I really don't know how I feel about OSAS), but I really do not believe that I was saved and heaven-bound at that point in my life. Thank God for His mercy in bringing me back to HIM!!

I can't help but think that for those who are truly saved, who truly, heart and soul have accepted Jesus, that He will eventually work this same effect on them through His Holy Spirit.
God Bless You,
Frankie
I know that God doesn't "perfect" us at the moment of our salvation, but if a person continues in sin, after he knows for certain what God says about it, without even WANTING to change, I question his salvation. If an alcoholic, or homosexual, etc goes through a period of struggle to escape his sin, with times of repeating the sin, but the DESIRE is to overcome the sin, that is one thing. The original question here was about a homosexual pastor, which sounds like a person who obviously KNOWS what God says about that sin, but continues to live that way anyway (assuming he is practicing the sin of homosexuality and not just having the inclinations without acting upon them).

Frankie
14th May 2004, 02:04 AM
I absolutely agree. I didn't mean to imply that homosexuality was automatically worse than any and all other sins. It's the habitual practicing of a sin, with a disregard for what scripture says about it that is the problem. If I lose my temper I am generally convicted about it immediately. But if I live that way day in and day out, and say, "Well, I don't care what you think the Bible says about it. God created me an angry person, and He loves me just the way I am, and go mind your own &@*X#!! business!!"

Not that my *opinion* of another person amounts to a hill of beans, but my *opinion* of a person who continues unrepentantly in intentional habitual sin is likely not truly saved. That's not me trying to judge them, but me being concerned about them. If that person died, I personally would not have much peace about where they would spend eternity. The Bible says "Examine yourself, see if you are really in the faith" (slight paraphrase, sorry), which says to me there are people who THINK they are saved, but in actuality, they are not. I think that a person who habitually intentionally sins (ie a practicing homosexual, a practicing adulterer, a practicing thief, or a practicing angry screamer) MAY LIKELY be the kind of person God was referring to when he said "Examine yourself...."




There was a period of about 2 years, after I had understood the gospel and asked Jesus to save me, that I lived in a regular state of an intentional habitual sin too. I KNEW it was wrong. I would look at my Bible on the shelf, and not even be courageous enough to pick it up and read it, because I knew it would say things I didn't want to hear! I stopped going to church, I stopped praying. Somehow I didn't feel bad about the sin I was continuing in. But if you asked me, I would have said that I was saved. I even continued to tell others how to be saved! But I was not living like a Christian!! (this was a long time ago--I truly don't understand it now that I look back, so don't ask me what in the world I was thinking!!!) Now as I think back on that period of time, I'm just glad I didn't die during that time, because I'm not at all convinced that I was saved then. I don't know if I really had been saved at one time and lost it, or just never really was yet (this is why I really don't know how I feel about OSAS), but I really do not believe that I was saved and heaven-bound at that point in my life. Thank God for His mercy in bringing me back to HIM!!


I know that God doesn't "perfect" us at the moment of our salvation, but if a person continues in sin, after he knows for certain what God says about it, without even WANTING to change, I question his salvation. If an alcoholic, or homosexual, etc goes through a period of struggle to escape his sin, with times of repeating the sin, but the DESIRE is to overcome the sin, that is one thing. The original question here was about a homosexual pastor, which sounds like a person who obviously KNOWS what God says about that sin, but continues to live that way anyway (assuming he is practicing the sin of homosexuality and not just having the inclinations without acting upon them).I totally agree that for one to be a pastor, a real pastor, they would have to know that the Word of God condemns homosexual behavior. I believe that for a pastor to know this and still try to lead a church to "righteous living" is an oxy moron. Pastors have a greater responsibility to God's people in that they are leaders and teachers of truth. I believe it is very wrong for a pastor to be living in sin and try to justify it and still pastor a congergation. I do not think that such a person should be the pastor of church.

God Bless,
Frankie

Tenorvoice
14th May 2004, 06:36 AM
not only that Frankie but they will also be held to a higher acountability @ the judgement seat of Christ.

peace

Adoniram
15th May 2004, 12:50 AM
Frankie, Pastor George, Tenorvoice and others-

You have all posted very good messages. All true to the gospel.

I have not seen or heard of a homosexual pastor in any of the churches in my vicinity, Baptist or otherwise. But you have all heard the news about the Episcopalean, Lutheran, and Anglican churches accepting this practise in their denominations. Now the Methodists of the NW USA have ordained a lesbian minister. Thankfully, the Methodist congress (or whatever it is called) has voted just recently to uphold the teaching that homosexuality is an abomination, although not going so far as to defrock the minister in question. What happens to her remains to be seen.

We as Christians should not be silent, but we should rebuke the teaching of false doctrine. Paul teaches in Titus 1-

9 He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.
10 For there are many rebellious people, mere talkers and deceivers, especially those of the circumcision group. 11 They must be silenced, because they are ruining whole households by teaching things they ought not to teach--and that for the sake of dishonest gain. 12 Even one of their own prophets has said, "Cretans are always liars, evil brutes, lazy gluttons." 13 This testimony is true. Therefore, rebuke them sharply, so that they will be sound in the faith 15 To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences are corrupted. 16 They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good. (NIV)

Let us therefore offer our prayers that God will use us and whatever other means are necessary to turn these from their apostate ways and back to the truth.

These are clearly signs that His Coming is close. He is even at the door. Come quickly Lord.

Mimi
15th May 2004, 01:49 PM
I guess I am too "liberal" for you guys here. ;). Too bad we still see people in this way (as sinners......and all sinners are....the same) For me homosexuality is NOT a sin, for me there is a difference between sinning and for me all human beings....uh.....correction.....all life is equal and have equal rights.

If that is wrong, I am glad to live my life the "wrong" way....;)

Lotta love & sunshine,
Mimi

Frankie
15th May 2004, 05:26 PM
I guess I am too "liberal" for you guys here. ;). Too bad we still see people in this way (as sinners......and all sinners are....the same) For me homosexuality is NOT a sin, for me there is a difference between sinning and for me all human beings....uh.....correction.....all life is equal and have equal rights.

If that is wrong, I am glad to live my life the "wrong" way....;)

Lotta love & sunshine,
MimiHi Mimi. God's word says that man has dominion over the animals of the earth and that we are His most prized creation. Would you mind sharing why you believe that "all" life has equel rights?

God Bless,
Frankie

Echoes Peak
15th May 2004, 05:34 PM
I guess I am too "liberal" for you guys here. ;). Too bad we still see people in this way (as sinners......and all sinners are....the same)
I'm kinda lost on that part too. Could you explain?;)

Tenorvoice
15th May 2004, 06:13 PM
I guess I am too "liberal" for you guys here. ;). Too bad we still see people in this way (as sinners......and all sinners are....the same) For me homosexuality is NOT a sin, for me there is a difference between sinning and for me all human beings....uh.....correction.....all life is equal and have equal rights.

If that is wrong, I am glad to live my life the "wrong" way....;)

Lotta love & sunshine,
Mimi
Answer me this then...how can the Christian population call The Bible the entire Word of God (meaning that is was breathed by God) and not realize that homosexuallity was and is a sin today??? look at these verses:
LEV 18:22 ‘ You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination

LEV 20:13 ‘ If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them.

how can they not see this:scratch: :scratch: :scratch: