everyone stop using my rep option to send me messages of scorn

[Debi1967]

nm

[Father Rick]

I believe rep comments can be reported to support team, who can handle them accordingly.

[LilLamb219]

Make sure your PM box isn't full ;) I've tried to contact people before who had full PM boxes and then just ended up giving them some blessings instead to get my message across. Oh well. Not saying your box is full or anything and I don't know why they would want to utilize the rep for that type of thing. :scratch:

[Debi1967]

I don't know either because it isn't full

[nyj]

It was me, in response to this post (http://foru.ms/showthread.php?p=40364569#post40364569).

I would have posted instead of rep'ing but the thread was closed by then.

Here is what I said:
who said I was going to come back onto staff ... duh ... not me


I'll let you all look at it in context and decide. Heck, even use this post to report the rep if you want. Doesn't matter to me.

[nyj]

For the record: I also rep'd synger in her post after the thread was closed. I said:

Not most. Half. Look at my list. 9 w/o Admins. Your list, 9 w/ Admins. So WHY MUST CC have an Admin? That was my point.

Report me for that too if you want.

[Debi1967]

It was me, in response to this post (http://foru.ms/showthread.php?p=40364569#post40364569).

I would have posted instead of rep'ing but the thread was closed by then.

Here is what I said:



I'll let you all look at it in context and decide. Heck, even use this post to report the rep if you want. Doesn't matter to me.
no it was more than just you Brother... And as I have said in response please use a PM next time and I said you never should have been on staff to begin with because of the attitude you displayed in this post
http://foru.ms/showpost.php?p=40364469&postcount=143

[Debi1967]

Why do you shy away from one on one confrontation anyway since you seem to be so good at confrontation openly I am genuinely interested

[nyj]

... and I said you never should have been on staff to begin with ...

... Oh is that so well then that means by my count you are unfit to come back on staff ....

Like I said in my rep to you ... who said I was going to come back into staff? Not me. You're entitled to your opinion as to whether or not I should have, or should be, on staff. It just doesn't mean it's an opinion I value.

[nyj]

Why do you shy away from one on one confrontation anyway since you seem to be so good at confrontation openly I am genuinely interested
Uh, how did I shy away? You know I sent you the rep, you can read it and you knew who it came from. How is that shying away? Quite the opposite as a matter of fact.

[Debi1967]

Uh, how did I shy away? You know I sent you the rep, you can read it and you knew who it came from. How is that shying away? Quite the opposite as a matter of fact.
But isn't that taking the "cowards" way out so to speak for lack of a better expression at the moment because then it leaves no room for an honest reply to be sent to you or any real open communication that might remedy the problem that might exist between two people?

[nyj]

But isn't that taking the "cowards" way out so to speak for lack of a better expression at the moment because then it leaves no room for an honest reply to be sent to you or any real open communication that might remedy the problem that might exist between two people?It's a quick and easy way to leave a comment. That's why I use it. If you want to flame me by calling me a coward, go right ahead. I said what I wanted to say, and I was done with it. If you want to drone on in public or private about it further ... knock yourself out.

[Debi1967]

Also your reply in the thread was not conducive to any real open communication with me either because I actually did ask the question, if I had not asked that question and just assumed something then maybe I can understand your response. But since I did not know I wanted to at least ask that, the rest was a reaction to the thread itself and making mistakes which we all do. Even you.

[Debi1967]

It's a quick and easy way to leave a comment. That's why I use it. If you want to flame me by calling me a coward, go right ahead. I said what I wanted to say, and I was done with it. If you want to drone on in public or private about it further ... knock yourself out.
But it is not what the rep option is to be used for and you know that and you also know that it is a reportable thing why do something that is reportable? I truthfully am not understanding you or this.

ETA- I did say for lack of a bettr expression at the time it is not that I am actually calling you a coward

[Miss Shelby]

Debi, was it just that one comment that prompted you to start this thread? nevermind I see it was.

[Debi1967]

Debi, was it just that one comment that prompted you to start this thread? nevermind I see it was.
no more than one

Actually Michelle waiting for me to answer would be nice I said it earlier in the thread it was more than one as well

[Debi1967]

:wave:waving at Rob up there

[Miss Shelby]

no more than one

Actually Michelle waiting for me to answer would be nice I said it earlier in the thread it was more than one as well
I saw that Debi, which is why I edited my post and said, nevermind I see it was.

Ever consider that your haste to jump to conclusions is why people leave you messages that you don't like?

[Debi1967]

I saw that Debi, which is why I edited my post and said, nevermind I see it was.

Ever consider that your haste to jump to conclusions is why people leave you messages that you don't like?
Sorry Michelle I thought you meant it the other way my bad even I make mistakes I just admit to them when I do sorry Sis

[Latreia]

If you have something to say to me then openly say it to me in here or send me a PM it would be appreciated. The rep option is not supposed to be used in that fashion.

Then start asking those nasty reps members about what they said to you on this thread. This way, you can seem to accuse almost everyone here of doing this and not offering anything better instead.

Besides this forum is under heavy fire right now, the reports can hit anyone, why would you seek to make it seem even worse?

:scratch:

[Lisa0315]

My question to Debi is this: You rarely post here anymore so why come here just to stir things up now? Sorry, I don't particularly agree with the assessment of Jim either, but at least I am involved here. I just do not see how this impacts you as you rarely post here anymore. Even so, I said my peace, which was to post some good things that Jim had done. I didn't tell people what terrible people they were for thinking what they think about it. Why are you here doing that, Debi?

Lisa

[Debi1967]

But I guess that is the point isn't it we shouldn't just jump to conclusions so fast ....

I mean everyone has a hard time sometimes or loses their way along the path for a little while and we need to be there for them to boost them up not tear them down.

I guess my reaction is still inflamed over the No vote of Confidence thread of Jim because he made some mistakes, but we all go through those periods. Having this no vote of confidence thing is only going to make it worse.

You remember Michelle when I used to be so stuck on myself that I couldn't see the forest for the trees most of the time and I always thought I was right? Do you remember that it took me be thrown off the site for 6 months by Erwin himself for me even to see any humility? Even then I had a lot to learn when I did come back. I am still learning because it is so easy to drop back into those old ways sometimes.

Like just now I had to drop from being a Blue A all the way down to a mod to stay on staff but to me it was finally ok to do that because it meant more to me to continue to serve the board and do God's work than to have some big title. I mean it wasn't a picnic being a Blue A anyway so no skin off my back and I am satisfied with wherever they need me to go. I was needed in Recovery and to remain on wikipedia so that is what I am now doing.

I am having fun too. And I am working with two great Admins that I know and respect.

I love CC and always will because here is where I feel most at home and whenever i get the chance I try to get here even if it to only post in the I love Jesus thread. Or to say hi for the day.

A lot more things recently have brought me to some conclusions that I need to be more humble because as the saying goes I need to accept the things I cannot change.

But I just feel something is wrong with Jim right now and if anything he needs our support and help not to be driven away.

[Rep Daddy]

If you have something to say to me then openly say it to me in here or send me a PM it would be appreciated. The rep option is not supposed to be used in that fashion.

They are welcome to use it to rep me with their scorn. A Repaholic takes em where he can!

drstevej

[Debi1967]

They are welcome to use it to rep me with their scorn. A Repaholic takes em where he can!

drstevej
:D

[Rep Daddy]

:D

"Doing Whatever it Takes"

[Debi1967]

My question to Debi is this: You rarely post here anymore so why come here just to stir things up now? Sorry, I don't particularly agree with the assessment of Jim either, but at least I am involved here. I just do not see how this impacts you as you rarely post here anymore. Even so, I said my peace, which was to post some good things that Jim had done. I didn't tell people what terrible people they were for thinking what they think about it. Why are you here doing that, Debi?

Lisa
I rarely post here anymore because I was so busy not because this isn't my home forum and I don't love you all. I have posted to that effect during this whole time.

I mean you make it sound like i deserted you all when I didn't. Whenever you have truly needed I have been there and then you thought I was doing something to harm you or using my position improperly when all I was doing was trying to protect all of you.

[GraceInHim]

ETA- I did say for lack of a bettr expression at the time it is not that I am actually calling you a coward
at least he gives his ducats :cool:

fwiw, have worked with NYJ on staff and he was a very good Admin, so please do not talk about his work ethics if you never worked with him.

regards :wave:

[Debi1967]

nm

[Lisa0315]

Then, go to your brother and stop trying to get us to take sides.

Lisa

[Debi1967]

I am asking for this to be closed at the request of the OP

I should not have opened this thread it is only adding to the confusion in here and I am just becoming part of it and it will become a feeding frenzy for everyone.

Besides it is not right to be talking about people in such a nasty way and I know better I let my anger get the best of me sorry for that

Lovingly In Christ
Debi

[GreenMunchkin]

Closing at the request of the OP