LovebirdsFlying
20th August 2007, 12:41 PM
This post isn't a question, so I didn't put it under Ask a Fundamentalist. It's an update, just FYI.
I found an online support group for ex-members of my family's church. It pretty much answered all of the questions I had asked before. Under the thread of "Why I Left," I posted this:
I just joined here and haven't read through all of the previous replies. I hope I don't duplicate too much.
I left the Church of Christ because
1. If it isn't in the Bible, don't go near it. Some of my relatives have never owned a cat, even detest cats, because cats are never specifically mentioned in the Bible. Therefore cats are evil, and that's why they're associated with Halloween and witches. Of course God made cats. Gospel of John 1, "by Him all things were made, and without Him nothing was made that has been made." If it exists, God made it.
2. Propensity to use an analogy when they can't find a Scripture to justify their teaching. I quoted "where there is no law, there is no transgression," Romans 4:15, as an argument against their "a capella only" doctrine. Maybe the NT never specifically says to use instruments, but it never says not to either. I was told, "That's like a child touching a hot stove and saying, well, you didn't tell me not to." I fail to see the parallel.
3. The self-righteous, we're right and everyone else is wrong attitude. I have never, ever attended a service at a Church of Christ where the sermon was not some variation on, "We're the only ones who are going to be saved." The Scripture quoted, every time, was "The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch." See? They weren't called Baptist, or Methodists, or Catholics, but Christians. But.... it doesn't say the disciples were called the church of Christ, either.
4. Attitude toward women. We were watching a 1970's sitcom, Thanksgiving episode, which ended with mother, daughter, son and friends around the table. Mother offered the blessing, and all my relatives could think was, gasp! "She's not supposed to do that." Why? Because Mother is a woman, and there were teenage boys at the table. At a New Year's Eve party, hymns were sung for fellowship, and women were not allowed to lead them. The thinking was that if women got to lead the singing at a party, they might also wonder why they weren't allowed to teach in church. Everyone knows women are too stupid to know the difference between church and a party.
5. In the hymnal at one church, I noticed a pasted-over revision of the words to the hymn, "To God Be The Glory." Where it had said, "The vilest offender who truly believes, that moment from Jesus a pardon receives," they had replaced it with, "The vilest offender who truly obeys, that moment may enter the heavenly way." This is salvation by works. They took Jesus completely out of it and inserted obedience as the way to salvation. They refer to being saved as "obeying the Gospel." The word "gospel" means "good news." Commandments are obeyed. Good news is received.
I could go on, but I think this post is getting too long.
I'm glad I found this site. God bless all.
And now, I welcome education on what being a fundy REALLY is! :D
I found an online support group for ex-members of my family's church. It pretty much answered all of the questions I had asked before. Under the thread of "Why I Left," I posted this:
I just joined here and haven't read through all of the previous replies. I hope I don't duplicate too much.
I left the Church of Christ because
1. If it isn't in the Bible, don't go near it. Some of my relatives have never owned a cat, even detest cats, because cats are never specifically mentioned in the Bible. Therefore cats are evil, and that's why they're associated with Halloween and witches. Of course God made cats. Gospel of John 1, "by Him all things were made, and without Him nothing was made that has been made." If it exists, God made it.
2. Propensity to use an analogy when they can't find a Scripture to justify their teaching. I quoted "where there is no law, there is no transgression," Romans 4:15, as an argument against their "a capella only" doctrine. Maybe the NT never specifically says to use instruments, but it never says not to either. I was told, "That's like a child touching a hot stove and saying, well, you didn't tell me not to." I fail to see the parallel.
3. The self-righteous, we're right and everyone else is wrong attitude. I have never, ever attended a service at a Church of Christ where the sermon was not some variation on, "We're the only ones who are going to be saved." The Scripture quoted, every time, was "The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch." See? They weren't called Baptist, or Methodists, or Catholics, but Christians. But.... it doesn't say the disciples were called the church of Christ, either.
4. Attitude toward women. We were watching a 1970's sitcom, Thanksgiving episode, which ended with mother, daughter, son and friends around the table. Mother offered the blessing, and all my relatives could think was, gasp! "She's not supposed to do that." Why? Because Mother is a woman, and there were teenage boys at the table. At a New Year's Eve party, hymns were sung for fellowship, and women were not allowed to lead them. The thinking was that if women got to lead the singing at a party, they might also wonder why they weren't allowed to teach in church. Everyone knows women are too stupid to know the difference between church and a party.
5. In the hymnal at one church, I noticed a pasted-over revision of the words to the hymn, "To God Be The Glory." Where it had said, "The vilest offender who truly believes, that moment from Jesus a pardon receives," they had replaced it with, "The vilest offender who truly obeys, that moment may enter the heavenly way." This is salvation by works. They took Jesus completely out of it and inserted obedience as the way to salvation. They refer to being saved as "obeying the Gospel." The word "gospel" means "good news." Commandments are obeyed. Good news is received.
I could go on, but I think this post is getting too long.
I'm glad I found this site. God bless all.
And now, I welcome education on what being a fundy REALLY is! :D