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Loki
27th July 2007, 01:30 AM
"There are two short, quick, and simple answers to the bottom-line question, what must we believe? The first answer is, "Not much"; the second answer is, "Everything." Both answers are true, depending on how you choose to look at religious reality.

"The "not much" answer is true because when push comes to shove, there are only a couple of things that are at the core of the Christian message. It may be only one thing really: God is love. All other doctrines and dogmas, teachings and regulations, principles and rules, rituals and practices, are only various ways of articulating that fundamental truth."

The Bottom Line Catechism, Fr. Andrew Greeley.

Fr. Greeley later states that it is more incredible to conceive of the concept of "God is love" than seemingly difficult concepts, such as the Trinity. In this point, I agree. I'm okay with the idea of a triune god, but the idea of god being love, a love so profound and strong that all theology could be built upon that idea, is difficult to conceive of.

And this begs the question, "what type of love?" Surely not Eros with all the prohibitions against sex and enjoying it, and I can't find the passion of Amor in the theology, which leaves a very sterile Agape. And intellectually I can accept this, that God is love that is an obligation to others, whatever it created, but it's about as comforting and exciting as a good teeth-cleaning.

I'm reading Kueng's The Church and enjoying it, but maybe I'm not inclined to theology, or at least beyond a thought-experiment sort of way, much in the way I play with trying to conceive of nothing (as in the absence of something). Perhaps I'm more given to living and passion. I'm young, and I want to live, and not just live, but live fully and passionately and creatively and violently and aggressively and simply to be. And I can't find that in "God is love." I'm slowly coming 'round to maybe accepting a god as say, the ground of being, but God being love? I guess I just don't get it.

Intellectually, I guess I'm doing okay, but passionately, I don't know if I can do this without experience of some sort, and I've never had an experience that would make me think that God is love.

Not sure where I'm going with this, just needed to vent, I guess.

tashiseisei
27th July 2007, 04:44 AM
I base all of my faith, really, on the idea of love and wonder. It doesn't seem sterile to me at all.

Have you ever seen something so beautiful that it moved you, perhaps to tears or silence? Anything: in nature, between humans, in space.

It is a kind of love, because it makes my heart feel like it will burst, but it doesn't seem to neatly fit into Greek.

That is what I think of, when I think, "God is love," or, "Love the Lord, your God, with all of your heart."

RadicallyTransformedMom
27th July 2007, 08:51 AM
I have had many doubts, and even lost my faith at times. I have had a hard time believing many doctrines and dogmas. I have been a part of many churches trying to find "the truth". I have even looked into other religions besides Christianity. There are times that the ONLY thing i CAN believe is that God is Love and that all the bad stuff in this world is a result of those NOT following God and NOT being loving! Sometimes the idea that God is LOVE is the ONLY thing that keeps me going. Though i must admit, sometimes i am suffering so much that i have a hard time even believing God IS love!! sigh.

Loki
27th July 2007, 05:31 PM
I base all of my faith, really, on the idea of love and wonder. It doesn't seem sterile to me at all.

Have you ever seen something so beautiful that it moved you, perhaps to tears or silence? Anything: in nature, between humans, in space.

It is a kind of love, because it makes my heart feel like it will burst, but it doesn't seem to neatly fit into Greek.

That is what I think of, when I think, "God is love," or, "Love the Lord, your God, with all of your heart."

I've always taken love to be description of a relationship between two "persons." I can appreciate the beauty of things, even adore it, to the point of rapture, even, but there is no relationship there.

Loki
27th July 2007, 05:31 PM
I have had many doubts, and even lost my faith at times. I have had a hard time believing many doctrines and dogmas. I have been a part of many churches trying to find "the truth". I have even looked into other religions besides Christianity. There are times that the ONLY thing i CAN believe is that God is Love and that all the bad stuff in this world is a result of those NOT following God and NOT being loving! Sometimes the idea that God is LOVE is the ONLY thing that keeps me going. Though i must admit, sometimes i am suffering so much that i have a hard time even believing God IS love!! sigh.

Why do you believe God is love? And what definition of love are you working from?

RadicallyTransformedMom
27th July 2007, 06:02 PM
Why do you believe God is love? And what definition of love are you working from?
When i say God is Love... i think of Love as unconditional..everything GOOD. Happiness, peace, joy etc. Love is everything Hate or anger isn't..if that makes any sense. Why do i think God is Love..because if i didnt then this world and this life would suck so bad i would want to kill myself, and i am not exaggerating. Love does exist..and i believe anytime we see or feel love ..its GOD. maybe i am wrong..but i hope not

Victrixa
28th July 2007, 12:22 AM
God is love because I experience it in my life... Because of the lives He has changed (transformed) in people around me and in the Body of Christ... Because of what He did on the Cross. He cared sooo much that He created us to be His friends. Also, His creation is a message of His love. Such perfection in the complexity of His creation (nature) is a mark of His great love. Only a loving God could have created such a Creation with all its details, complexity and diversity. If He didn't care, we wouldn't be here, our bodies wouldn't be such complex, wonderful machines, nature would be boring and colourless and botched... The lives of His children would still be in the dumps... I know, God has rescued me! My life has never been the same since I came to believe in Him!

His love has been proven on the Cross. Only a caring God would descend upon the earth to come and die for our sins. The attention and care He gave in creating such a perfect Creation has extended to the Cross...

God bless you. :)

JasonV
28th July 2007, 01:41 AM
See my signature for my belief. :)