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jsimms615
19th December 2006, 12:58 AM
I've written here before about my need to find a church home. I moved to NC in August with my family. We had a bad experience in a church that I was serving in that ended last March. Since then, I have had a real struggle just getting up on Sundays and going to church. I went to a church that I had visited once before this last Sunday. The service was okay and the church is big with lots of programs and activities. There seemed to be people my age there. I just felt absolutely no excitement at all about it. I just wanted to leave almost as soon as I got there. It all just seems like a big fraud to me now.
Anyway, I thought maybe I should try some other type of denomination or a non-denominational church. Maybe something that is not so similiar to where I was at before?
To rehash all the hurt and what was said to me earlier this year would be too hard for me right now and I don't really want to talk about it anymore. I just want to get passed it and feel good about a church home again. I really do!
I do read my Bible almost everyday and pray. I keep a prayer journal and have served this year as a chaplain and found that very rewarding. Actually, I think I have made up my mind not to serve in the church again and just do ministry as a chaplain in a hospital or nursing home or something like that.
Anyway, lots of healing needs to happen in my life. I feel wounded and discouraged with the church.
J

HumbleMan
19th December 2006, 02:10 PM
I'll say a prayer for you, J. I don't really have any advice, since I'm not aware of your doctrinal positions, but I do know that if God said to have fellowship with other believers, He'll make a way for it to happen for you.

Best wishes for your personal ministry/chaplaincy. I work in a hospital, and I know that the chaplains here are very dedicated.

jsimms615
20th December 2006, 09:48 AM
I'll say a prayer for you, J. I don't really have any advice, since I'm not aware of your doctrinal positions, but I do know that if God said to have fellowship with other believers, He'll make a way for it to happen for you.

Best wishes for your personal ministry/chaplaincy. I work in a hospital, and I know that the chaplains here are very dedicated.
It really hasn't been doctrinal positions that has kept me from joining a church. But, I tend to be very conservative in my views. I have been Southern Baptist for the last 21 years, before that I was Methodist. I don't approve of infant baptism.

ctay
20th December 2006, 04:56 PM
Pray, ask God to lift you up and lead you in the right direction. Pray a lot too.