smc
15th August 2006, 04:35 AM
Hi, all.
I was raised in a family of non-church-goers. I attended a Methodist church now-and-then with my Grandparents, but that was about it.
As an adult, I came to accept salvation through Jesus Christ. My walk has been a slow one, but in the past months I am feeling compelled to break through some of those walls that I think are keeping me from truly enjoying a closeness to our Lord.
For the past few years my wife and I have attended primarily SBC churches. I was fairly ignorant to the doctrines of these churches, mostly because they operated in "stealth" mode as the SBC often does ;). Admittedly, it was more than a bit of laziness on my part not to look into things in more detail.
Now that I have been searching more actively, I feel that the doctrine of the SBC is not a good fit for my own views. I believe in conditionalism, for example, and though in my experience SBC pastors aren't fond of ever mentioning "Hell" in their sermons, they certainly are not open to the idea of conditionalism. I know that the Methodist church does not espouse conditionalism as a doctrine, but from my readings they are at least open to a discussion of this interpertation (please correct me if I am wrong). This is the main point about the Methodist church that appeals to me ... it assumes that we all have brains and can conduct the proper research in order to make a personal and reasonable interpretation of these issues (again, please correct me if I am wrong on this).
I am also not a conservative ... more of a moderate, and the public stance of the SBC on several issues goes against my grain a bit.
So .. I'm blabberin a bit, but wanted to give some background. I feel I am at a fork in the road. We are presently attending an SBC church plant and my brother-in-law is the pastor. I will most certainly be compelled into membership and would be heavily involved in growing the church. I do not feel it would be honest of me to go too far down this path if I have issues with some of the basic tenants of the SBC.
I'd appreciate any thoughts you may have, particularly from anyone who has had a similar experience and found the Methodist church a "good fit".
I was raised in a family of non-church-goers. I attended a Methodist church now-and-then with my Grandparents, but that was about it.
As an adult, I came to accept salvation through Jesus Christ. My walk has been a slow one, but in the past months I am feeling compelled to break through some of those walls that I think are keeping me from truly enjoying a closeness to our Lord.
For the past few years my wife and I have attended primarily SBC churches. I was fairly ignorant to the doctrines of these churches, mostly because they operated in "stealth" mode as the SBC often does ;). Admittedly, it was more than a bit of laziness on my part not to look into things in more detail.
Now that I have been searching more actively, I feel that the doctrine of the SBC is not a good fit for my own views. I believe in conditionalism, for example, and though in my experience SBC pastors aren't fond of ever mentioning "Hell" in their sermons, they certainly are not open to the idea of conditionalism. I know that the Methodist church does not espouse conditionalism as a doctrine, but from my readings they are at least open to a discussion of this interpertation (please correct me if I am wrong). This is the main point about the Methodist church that appeals to me ... it assumes that we all have brains and can conduct the proper research in order to make a personal and reasonable interpretation of these issues (again, please correct me if I am wrong on this).
I am also not a conservative ... more of a moderate, and the public stance of the SBC on several issues goes against my grain a bit.
So .. I'm blabberin a bit, but wanted to give some background. I feel I am at a fork in the road. We are presently attending an SBC church plant and my brother-in-law is the pastor. I will most certainly be compelled into membership and would be heavily involved in growing the church. I do not feel it would be honest of me to go too far down this path if I have issues with some of the basic tenants of the SBC.
I'd appreciate any thoughts you may have, particularly from anyone who has had a similar experience and found the Methodist church a "good fit".