friends??

[JCChick]

i have a friend(?) who is mad at me. the reason she is mad at me is because a classmate died and i was kind of shooken, well my friend(?) who was a good friend on the one who died and the person didnt like me, i didnt like her, she always teased me. well she went to heaven(we know that for a fact) to join her mom, and so i decided to pray and ask God to ask the girl if she would forgive me and tell her i forgive her to. well any way, my friend(?) doesnt know and she is really mad that i would be upset when i didnt like her. and she is also upset because my msn name said *i will see you again~she is up there dancing with my Jesus~ R.I.P.*

What should i do?

ps sry if you cant understand teen girl chat!! lol

[JCChick]

any one have advice?

[JCChick]

no one can understand

[ForumGuy]

I don't really have any advice except ask God for advice. Sorry.

[TheSilentMan]

I don't really have any advice except ask God for advice. Sorry.

thats the best i can do also.

[JCChick]

thanks anyway

[Mrs. Enigma]

Well, maybe explain the same thing that you said here to the other girl?

[JCChick]

i tried, she wouldnt listen

[TheSilentMan]

then you just have to pray for her and continue to show that you really do/did care.

[JCChick]

ok thanks

[JCChick]

any1 else

[FaultySurplus]

Since she won't listen, just keep praying and let God work it out with her in her own time.

[HisLilyWhitePrincess]

Yep, if she won't listen, they you'll just have to let God work, and continue praying for her. There is no way you can force her to forgive you, but don't let her unforgiveness bring you down either. You should not have to worry about the fact that you said R.I.P. and that stuff, and she got offended. You're intentions seemed pure. *hugs* I hope everything goes better for you.

[JCChick]

thanks

[JCChick]

any 1 eles?

[VickiY]

I'd ask her whether or not she would want to be forgiven, even after her death, by someone she disliked in life, and may have injured.

We pray, "Forgive us our trespasses AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST US"

Essentially, this means that if we hold grudges and are unforgiving, we will be less readily forgiven by God for our own sins.

Forgiving others is the right thing to do, always. For some, it takes longer, as the scars may be deeper...wait it out, she'll come around in time.

[JCChick]

thanks

[JCChick]

i think

[JCChick]

im confused

[JCChick]

any 1 else

[JCChick]

any1

[elizabethevangeline]

i have a friend(?) who is mad at me. the reason she is mad at me is because a classmate died and i was kind of shooken, well my friend(?) who was a good friend on the one who died and the person didnt like me, i didnt like her, she always teased me. well she went to heaven(we know that for a fact) to join her mom, and so i decided to pray and ask God to ask the girl if she would forgive me and tell her i forgive her to. well any way, my friend(?) doesnt know and she is really mad that i would be upset when i didnt like her. and she is also upset because my msn name said *i will see you again~she is up there dancing with my Jesus~ R.I.P.*

What should i do?

ps sry if you cant understand teen girl chat!! lol

If your friend has lost a friend, she is hurting. Maybe she doesn't feel you could understand what it is like, or are being insincere (I'm not saying you are, just that it might be hard for your friend to see past her pain and understand how you are experiencing this sobering loss).

It might be your friend needs to be asked for forgiveness for the past too. It must have been difficult to be a friend in the middle of 2 people who didn't get along.

And you probably need to be prepared to freely give grace as your friend is going thru a difficult time.

[JCChick]

that is great

thanks everyone but now we are friends again!!