daverain
7th February 2005, 07:59 AM
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What the 'church' requires, all depends on WHICH DENOMINATION you speak of.
In other words, there are MANY different teachings on marriage, among True Holy Spirit Filled Churches of God.
So...
(error IS everywhere)
My Beliefs (only because they're true) ,
is that NO CEREMONY is even required AT ALL (otherwise, 'the bible' would say that it WAS (=required).
Please consider Adam and Eve:
I don't know of ANY Christian who would NOT consider THEM
to have been married.
Yet there was NO 'ceremony' in any church needed by God'.
Also,
Jesus tells us: "Do NOT make ANY vows at all, but let your yes be yes, and your no be no."
(AND, NO this would NOT unbind a true-marriage if it happened.)
"...Everything else comes from the evil-one."
(in Matthew -I froget the verse number, sorry.)
(and YES, MANY True Christians, would even argue against this.)
If TRUE-LOVE exists, one IS 'bonded', and NEVER needs any vows.
Simply:
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God (spirit to spirit) marries a man-and-woman (who BOTH truly-love each other, -and NO one else-, using: sex.)
But..
One SHOULD wait UNTIL true-love exists BEFORE having sex.
SOME DO fall in love, and THEN 'break-up' , because they had sex while NOT yet in love.
They 'break-up'.
(although only -DEATH-, CAN -EVER- SEPERATE: TRUE-LOVE between a man and woman who've 'consumated')
However, I -feel- many Christians are wrong on certain issues involving marriage.
(Indeed, I feel that MOST Christians have been MISLED by 'false teachings' which are -ultimately- driven by money.)
What the 'church' requires, all depends on WHICH DENOMINATION you speak of.
In other words, there are MANY different teachings on marriage, among True Holy Spirit Filled Churches of God.
So...
(error IS everywhere)
My Beliefs (only because they're true) ,
is that NO CEREMONY is even required AT ALL (otherwise, 'the bible' would say that it WAS (=required).
Please consider Adam and Eve:
I don't know of ANY Christian who would NOT consider THEM
to have been married.
Yet there was NO 'ceremony' in any church needed by God'.
Also,
Jesus tells us: "Do NOT make ANY vows at all, but let your yes be yes, and your no be no."
(AND, NO this would NOT unbind a true-marriage if it happened.)
"...Everything else comes from the evil-one."
(in Matthew -I froget the verse number, sorry.)
(and YES, MANY True Christians, would even argue against this.)
If TRUE-LOVE exists, one IS 'bonded', and NEVER needs any vows.
Simply:
----------
God (spirit to spirit) marries a man-and-woman (who BOTH truly-love each other, -and NO one else-, using: sex.)
But..
One SHOULD wait UNTIL true-love exists BEFORE having sex.
SOME DO fall in love, and THEN 'break-up' , because they had sex while NOT yet in love.
They 'break-up'.
(although only -DEATH-, CAN -EVER- SEPERATE: TRUE-LOVE between a man and woman who've 'consumated')
However, I -feel- many Christians are wrong on certain issues involving marriage.
(Indeed, I feel that MOST Christians have been MISLED by 'false teachings' which are -ultimately- driven by money.)