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I agree. that is a great option and indeed even better a calling than marriage. However, I would be delighted if I am called for marriage as I like companionship and am sexual. Currently, I think about women and sex a lot but am being purefied so as not to lust. I feel I am being cleansed...

--Staff edit-- May people please expand on this please. To me BDSM is my norm. It is hard for me to see how others, with no involvement, would see it and why they feel what they feel. What about it is scarry? I'm not saying that people are not wring to feel this, but I'm curious to learn of...

I definitely was healed because I cried out to God saying that I didn't want to sin like this but I could not stop. Why won't he help me. Then the next time I thought of looking it up, I was filled with an euphoric filling. I felt so great i could not bring myself to hurt myself with...

Well this is it. By the time of dating, I would expect it to be a 18 months without any masturbation or sex etc and a year without looking at any BDSM related material. The counsellor recommended a book on sexual addiction which I am reading. I also do not think of BDSM or have any interest...

That's useful advice, thank you. If i thought it would put someone off, it makes me feel deceitful not to disclose something which is evidently important to them. And does that not discredit the base of marriage? I appreciate that your advice is to my benefit and potentially it is for the...

No but looking to actively date so this may form part of the process.

Thanks for your response. Apologies for the discomfort caused, however I olnly intended to illicit responses from those who are at ease with this. Well, it is almost a year since I have been clean from any porn and BDSM interaction and masturbation. Also, I had counselling on this. Given...

Hi I'm an unmarried born-again guy in my 30's. My question is about how much to share with a future spouse about past sexual sins and how women see it. I'm a virgin and not sinned in person with anyone. However, I used pornography a lot. Mostly it was BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism and...

Thank you. I prayed for guidance and spiritual renewal and noticed an immediate difference, I'll pray that daily. Great point about Job, put's it all into perspective. Though even then it is tempting to think of his problems being less when they obviously are not.

I have a strong feeling that your husband will come to know God too. It seems inevitable. I'll pray for that also, and it is a true opportunity to live out your faith by standing on something that you cannot see as well as allowing your life to be a testimony. I've heard of Christians who...

Brilliant. I sent you a pm. If you cannot see it, please send me a new one when you are allowed.

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If you ever need to chat, hit me up. It is all anonymous here. I can listen and pray. I too shared some intimate problems which led to release.

Welcome. The best advice I can give you, is surrender to God. This is his work not yours. OCD is probably a lot of thinking but once it is cracked, you will have learned the art of trusting God. OCD will be a blessing as it is going to be used to develop your relationship with God. Bless you.

Welcome. Love how you are seeking to serve God through your relationship. You are so wise so young.

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