Recent content by ThisIsMe123

  1. T

    Dating apps have filter flaws

    Yeah, I had a beer at a local venue the other day. I don't see the big deal. I knew a Christian that at first didn't want to date a man that had a beer...but she wound up marrying one anyway.
  2. T

    Do we have any real examples of Born Again Christians falling away from the faith forever never to return?

    Although, I don't know too many that went from one extreme to the other (Christian to Paganism), although Paganism is just outright weird. But anyway, most I've known is how the steps go: 1. Grew up in the church, even active in it 2. Turned 18, went off to college, and drifted away from...
  3. T

    Discussion of Matthew 5:28 But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

    Although, statically...not sure of the number. But men think of sex so many times in a day. For the single man, that's living a chaste life, it's not uncommon
  4. T

    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    I think it was that old "Purity Culture" phase that influenced that with the protestants. Wonder if that carried over to some Catholics?
  5. T

    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    Which is weird, because I never thought Catholics thought like this? I Thought it was the Evangelicals that didn't dot he "no kissing before marriage" thing.
  6. T

    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    It's just an opinion article. One author, one opinion.
  7. T

    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Though it's behind a paywall, the housing crisis is facing an issue where less men are buying homes, and still living with their parents https://fortune.com/2024/04/02/growing-crisis-male-invert-housing-oracle-says/ If you Google the topic, more women are becoming homeowners than are men...
  8. T

    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    "Some" recommend not kissing before marriage? I wonder who are these "Some"? Awfully vague. I'm curious if people have actually done this successfully and never had a problem with it. I went on a date with a woman that thought like this, I was like "Good luck with that" and moved on. Just...
  9. T

    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    --Ordinary is no longer valued. You can't be a guy who goes to work and tries to live decently. That's not enough. You've got to make it splashier. So you hit the gym, go for a hike, have a weekend getaway, and hangout with friends at a bbq. You have to be a living highlight reel. That's the new...
  10. T

    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Ver well put.....although, I know some people that have gotten together the old-fasihoned way...still, some are in their 20s. I know a co-worker that asked a co-worker out on a date...they became a couple, and are now engaged. here is me, playing it cautiously, even warning him, "Dude, don't...
  11. T

    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    You'd think this be the best way to find a lady, is via friends first...however, when I did this....I would get the "Sorry, I don't think of you in that way" or there simply wouldn't be any attraction. They just see you as a platonic buddy or pal. Sometimes they are caught off guard by you...
  12. T

    Boyfriend/girlfriend stage not legit?

    It was more of a cultural thing back then...what is stated in the quote. Shoot, women were treated almost like slaves in a sense as they were arranged marriages, they were used as a form of barter. Like if a man would trade his oxen or whatever and the father would hand over the daughter to him...
  13. T

    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Yeah, I don't know why that one guy poo-poos therapists, my employer pays for mine 100% all the way, and she's been helpful as a work place therapist when certain traumatic events happen. Yeah, in agreement to the easy lays. I know men like this, though well intentioned, they use these women as...
  14. T

    Unequally yoked in Corinthian doesn't mean marriage

    Again...in the bolded...wrong! Wait....um, you just contradicted yourself.